Why are black men afraid to be vulnerable?

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IDK I think black people as a whole are brought up tough so it's hard to open up. shyt we know male Cacs have it way easier and are given things easily. We know female Cacs don't go through half the shyt black women have to.

That's why we as black males and females need to support each other more instead of being judgemental.

You saying black guys are afraid to be vulnerable compared to white dudes you should know why and not attack or judge a guy.

On the same tip black women being more reserved initially than or cold than white women a black guy should know why.

We go through a lot of the same struggles lets stop judging each other for our sometimes "hardened" exteriors brehettes and brehs.
Ya but it doesn't change the fact that it's frustrating.
 

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So you plan on continue to be hard even with your significant others?
 

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I can't speak for others but I don't like the idea of having my inner thoughts and feelings potentially turned into a weapon against me

Girls never really know me because of this approach but I prefer it this way :manny:
I understand but you do not think you'll meet someone with who you'll want to open up.
 

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I don't think anyone plans on being frosty.... maybe folks just don't know how to open up...

I know that this is an issue with me...
If you keep doing thae same things you will get the same results. Open up, you may like the results.
 

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Why would you want to be open with people you hardly know. Most people are just listening to your business to use it against you later.

My pops always said: "Remember, your friends have other friends too" :mjpls:.

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I understand but you do not think you'll meet someone with who you'll want to open up.

I've opened to one girl ever and now she looks at that fact as a reason why I should still be friends with her despite her doing me wrong. After my experience, I think I'm better off with these walls I've built up.
 
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