Why are Coli men convinced that they know.....

[MikelArteta]

The laws in place only effect ones getting a divorce or separating.take marriage seriously. Find the right one and stay with them.
Not saying u wouldn't do that

women change like the wind right one today can be the wrong one tomorrow

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

I don't hate marriage , it's just not beneficial to a man with the laws in place. And until that changes I will rail against it.

How I'm I bitter to relationships?

I don't care what advice you give, just stay away from matters of the coco-bread....STAY AWAY FROM THAT TOPIC.

 

[FTBS]

I have tried to teach y'all about women and y'all just say no that's an excuse or something similar.
Ex. I tried schooling guys on why some women like thugs. And instead of them just takin what I said as a valid point they were trying to tell me how stupid it was. I never said the reasons weren't stupid it just is what it is.

Guys know why girls pick thugs we just think it's stupid for a chick to gravitate towards thugs then then be / when he acts like...wait for it...a thug . Beyond that, a lot of women who gravitate towards thugs or other miscreant types swear up and down they want something else.

If a guy cheated on you and your guy friend said "That's just how guys are. We just can't turn down p*ssy." what would be your response to that? Would you accept that as a valid reason and take the guy back or would you call it the BS excuse that it is? Bullshyt is bullshyt no matter what explanation one can pull out of their ass. If it's right and makes sense then it doesn't really need an explanation.

 

[KinksandCoils]

same women who desire companionship... will accept being dissed.

same who say, I never want kids,,, will want them when a certain guy comes along.

Major signs are..... most women being insecure.
another sign is...... most women changing opinions with the wind.
also..... also most women will accept certain levels of abuse.
Also...... then women who don't change w the wind and dont take the abuse ---have all these so called qualifications for a guy, but then will accept a guy with only 3 of those qualities.
Also.... so called faithful women, who just make a mistake . On the real I don't even blame them. I actually don't blame a woman for anything as I don't even give them credit for anything... I just say...... they don't know themselves so they've allowed themselves to be overtaken by situations. Because women usually aren't grounded in themselves - they tend to blame everyone and everything for their own internal issues and mistakes.


imo.

Good examples. Women take abuse because they are scared, they feel worthless, they have no income of their own, it's all they know.
U have to understand the fear that is put into women who get beat. That's what men don't get. If a man says he is gonna kill you or your loved ones if u leave she could stay because she is scared. Men are taught to be tough from an early age. You guys can't grasp the concept of how fearful a woman can be. Remember she has been broken down mentally and physically.

As for sexual things. U have to realize that not every woman desires a relationship or is emotional.You have women who are detached from their emotions and u have women that can detached themselves in certain situations. Not every woman wears their heart on their sleeves.


A woman saying she doesn't want a baby till a certain man comes around is simple. She has just found a man that is worth having a baby with and she wants to make him happy. A lot of things can change a woman from wanting to have a baby to not wanting one.

There is so much I can add on but I'm not sure if u care to read it.

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't care what advice you give, just stay away from matters of the coco-bread....STAY AWAY FROM THAT TOPIC.

are you carpet munching or sucking dikk today brehette

 

[Blackking]

Good examples. Women take abuse because they are scared, they feel worthless, they have no income of their own, it's all they know.
U have to understand the fear that is put into women who get beat. That's what men don't get. If a man says he is gonna kill you or your loved ones if u leave she could stay because she is scared. Men are taught to be tough from an early age. You guys can't grasp the concept of how fearful a woman can be. Remember she has been broken down mentally and physically.

As for sexual things. U have to realize that not every woman desires a relationship or is emotional.You have women who are detached from their emotions and u have women that can detached themselves in certain situations. Not every woman wears their heart on their sleeves.


A woman saying she doesn't want a baby till a certain man comes around is simple. She has just found a man that is worth having a baby with and she wants to make him happy. A lot of things can change a woman from wanting to have a baby to not wanting one.

There is so much I can add on but I'm not sure if u care to read it.

i do care to read what you have to add.. . I always listen..

lol, how do u think i fukk so many hoes? I always listen and pay attention and am considering with what they think and how they might think in the future


anyway, So you're naming situations ---- Wouldn't it be fair to say that women just go with whatever the winds brings them...... because they don't know............ THEMselves. ?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Women better than women do? No matter what the subject is. If a female poster tries to teach u something about a woman y'all are like "naw naw that's not true women just make excuses".

Next y'all are gonna be telling us how cramps and orgasms feel to us.

i post over on LSA...and those chicks do the exact same thing to men...

 

[MikelArteta]

Good examples. Women take abuse because they are scared, they feel worthless, they have no income of their own, it's all they know.
U have to understand the fear that is put into women who get beat. That's what men don't get. If a man says he is gonna kill you or your loved ones if u leave she could stay because she is scared. Men are taught to be tough from an early age. You guys can't grasp the concept of how fearful a woman can be. Remember she has been broken down mentally and physically.

As for sexual things. U have to realize that not every woman desires a relationship or is emotional.You have women who are detached from their emotions and u have women that can detached themselves in certain situations. Not every woman wears their heart on their sleeves.


A woman saying she doesn't want a baby till a certain man comes around is simple. She has just found a man that is worth having a baby with and she wants to make him happy. A lot of things can change a woman from wanting to have a baby to not wanting one.

There is so much I can add on but I'm not sure if u care to read it.

again with all the excuses, not every women feels worthless or doesn't have income of their own, many times women "love" that nikka, emotions override everything

Like always you have a excuse for the behavior of every woman out there, not once will you ever hold them accountable for their sh*tty choices.

It's always the mens fault, the men broke them down thats why they sprad their legs and allowd him to bust raw, its the mans fault even though everyone knew that man was no good.

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

are you carpet munching or sucking dikk today brehette

No need to get fiesty and get your little boxers in a bunch........
I just do not want you giving out advice on sex.............

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Guys know why girls pick thugs we just think it's stupid for a chick to gravitate towards thugs then then be / when he acts like...wait for it...a thug . Beyond that, a lot of women who gravitate towards thugs or other miscreant types swear up and down they want something else.

How are we defining a thug tho? A black guy? Do you really believe that women choose men based solely on their criminal activity, at the expense of men who will honor them and treat them well?

To wit, there seems to be an uncomfortably small space the coli has created with respect to men and women dynamics. Women want "thugs", and are viewed derisively because of this theory, while men who treat women with respect are derisively labeled "simps" around here. What gives?

 

[The Mad Titan]

The problem here is everyone is writing everything like its law. When infact its not even close to that, both men and women say and then do something else.

We got men who swear up and down they wouldn't date a stripper, white woman, or single mom.....Then those exceptions start coming along, "This was her last week stripping" "She understands black culture" "she had a kid while married"

We got women who swear up and down they can't find a good man anywhere, aren't thots, and love black men. Then those exceptions come along " Jon is a great guy but he's not that cute/stacked" " I just like to have sex with someone new every few months, we always use protection" "I love black men I just can't find anywhere sooo"


There are alot of general truths spoken in this thread, then someone comes along and is like "Yo I'm not like that at all" or "I've never done that as a man or woman" like the person is speaking directly to you.

When a chick say's "men do".... I already know that either I'm going to fall into that category or im not, If i don't I don't get all pissed and attack them. If I do well, what can I say? I'm a man.



Everyone sitting around talking about how they won't do this are aren't like this, just hasn't been put in the right situation with the right person. All those BS "rules" and "feelings" you got go clean out the window.

 

[FTBS]

How are we defining a thug tho? A black guy? Do you really believe that women choose men based solely on their criminal activity, at the expense of men who will honor them and treat them well?

To wit, there seems to be an uncomfortably small space the coli has created with respect to men and women dynamics. Women want "thugs", and are viewed derisively because of this theory, while men who treat women with respect are derisively labeled "simps" around here. What gives?

A thug is a thug. There is no color to a thug, it's all about how one behaves. Where did I imply anything about color? Some women do choose solely on the criminal activity but many choose because of his swagger, income, flashiness, "protection", possessions etc.

A lot of women do make horrible choices in men. It is what it is. Often the men who will honer them and treat them well catch feelings because of this and turn into woman haters. Thusly any man that treats any woman like more than a piece of flesh is a "simp". True simps do exist however. Women and men alike shyt on them and rightfully so.

 

[KinksandCoils]

i do care to read what you have to add.. . I always listen..

lol, how do u think i fukk so many hoes? I always listen and pay attention and am considering with what they think and how they might think in the future


anyway, So you're naming situations ---- Wouldn't it be fair to say that women just go with whatever the winds brings them...... because they don't know............ THEMselves. ?

Women base a lot of things off of a man. This is not every woman but this can be any woman. Meaning from the woman who has nothing to the woman running a huge office. A lot of women are still taught traditionally when it comes to men and relationships.
Ex. Man pays on dates or atleast the majority of dates. That's not to say we think we should never pay

A lot of women are called gold diggers but u have to understand there is a line between the woman that IS A REAL GOLD DIGGER vs. the woman that was taught that a man should do nice things for her like dates and the occasional gift. Here and there.

The average woman is decent. if you handle business at home u don't need to be bothered with cheating.

A lot of young ones don't know themselves and it's ok because we have our life to figure it out. I'm unsure where the conclusion that women don't know themselves more than men came from.

Our emotions can be off the chart on our period. There will be some women who use it to their advantage and some who legit can't control it.
Ex. If I'm mad while on my period my ass thinks I'm the Hulk. But when I'm mad and not on my period I'm more tame.

I could give u more input if u ask something very specific. U may want to PM me .

 

[No_bammer_weed]

A thug is a thug. There is no color to a thug, it's all about how one behaves. Where did I imply anything about color?

Because the whole "thug" idea centers on black men, and black women somehow having an intrinsic desire to want and desire these sorts of men as this sort of backwards abstracted constitution of their being. When we talk about thugs and the women who love them, we arent referencing cambodian women and men...no need to beat around the bush and ignore the racial implications here.

 

[KinksandCoils]

again with all the excuses, not every women feels worthless or doesn't have income of their own, many times women "love" that nikka, emotions override everything

Like always you have a excuse for the behavior of every woman out there, not once will you ever hold them accountable for their sh*tty choices.

It's always the mens fault, the men broke them down thats why they sprad their legs and allowd him to bust raw, its the mans fault even though everyone knew that man was no good.

Hun those examples don't apply to every woman. I'm saying some of the examples that can apply in the situation.

And why do u think a woman loves a man that beats her? Hello because she thinks it's normally or she thinks she deserves it.there is some mental issues Which goes back to what I said. Which goes back further to how I know a woman's logic better than u. Again u proved my point .