Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[Anerdyblackguy]

yes I can

You hate to see it.

 

[Prynce]

another thing to consider, i think would answer a lot of locker room dating question before they are made threads, if you had a daughter what would you teach her.

Would you teach her to date men that don't want to protect and provide for her

I would teach her to be self sufficient at all times
I would teach her the value of hard work
I would teach her how to care of her self

Nothing in the world is worse than being dependent as an adult

 

[Neuromancer]

Didn’t say that’s all you are but it should be the most important. How can you expect respect from your wife/girlfriend by not being a provider

Most important? Do you think Tesla cared about that shyt? You're smarter than this. A man's sole goal. shyt a woman too. Should have the sole goal is evolving. However you go about that is up to you. But again a lot people on here clearly put the validation of other above their own.

 

[Amused Mastery]

Women are already allegedly outpacing men. Men will always think and most of creative forces in society that really drove it were single and didn't have sex. Issac Newton. Most men who have families and are providers are unextrodinary, history tells us. No man who has reduced himself to a utlitiy. has ever done anything of merit.

There's numerous examples of married couples that are successful tho. Heck, the right woman will propel you even further as a helper than you could have done on your own. Just got to choose wisely.

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

nikkas like op wanna be treated like women. pathetic

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I would teach her to be self sufficient at all times
I would teach her the value of hard work
I would teach her how to care of her self

Nothing in the world is worse than being dependent as an adult

sure. but when it comes to dating... potential sperm donors for your grandkids and all that, as my question specifically stated, what kind of man would you teach her to look for?

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

IT IS A NATURAL TYPE OF THING FOUR THE MAN TO BE THE PROVIDER OF A FAMILY UNIT.

 

[LeetStickMcGee]

yes I can

Then don't be surprised if she loses respect / doesn't take you seriously man.

 

[Neuromancer]

There's numerous examples of married couples that are successful tho. Heck, the right woman will propel you even further as a helper than you could have done on your own. Just got to choose wisely.

Not what I said. No man who has put being a provider as his sole goal in life has does anything of merit. Jeff Bezos didn't think about providing. He thought about business.

 

[Amused Mastery]

Not what I said. No man who has put being a provider as his sole goal in life has does anything of merit. Jeff Bezos didn't think about providing. He thought about business.

The business that actively provides income for his family?

 

[13473]

What am I defined by is it who I am or what I can provide. Am I a person or a utility?

it's not like the relationship is gonna be some war zone with him having to fight 24/7.
just how often is he expecting to fight to have to wonder "does she like me for me or cuz i'm her bodyguard??"

she's with him cuz she likes him. they do things for one another.

 

[Neuromancer]

The business that actively provides income for his family?

You mean the family he broke up by cheating?

 

[Gold]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

nah..... I dont believe you

If I beat the dogshyt outta your wife in front you, you are gonna to kill me, or at the very least desire to kill me


Whole thread premise based on a lie

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Imagine your woman not providing for you and protecting you in 2019

fukk is nikkas doing

 

[Neuromancer]

it's not like the relationship is gonna be some war zone with him having to fight 24/7.
just how often is he expecting to fight to have to wonder "does she like me for me or cuz i'm her bodyguard??"

she's with him cuz she likes him. they do things for one another.

If we stay on the topic of the scenario that sparked op's question,we only know that these women expect men to take care of them. And there are a number of women marrying dudes they don't like but have a good job.