Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[Prynce]

Only against other silverbacks because they don't intend to hurt the females. Go try to smack a female gorilla in the face or try kicking a baby and see if the alpha male won't fukk you up on sight.
You said silverbacks don't hunt to provide for the females, you expect them to hunt plants?

Again is he doing it to keep his position?

 

[Everythingg]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

Thats your role as a man breh. Dont let these feminists fool you. You have a role as a man and they have a role as women....

Now if they shake their role, Im not asking you to keep doing your role But the way you have order in a relationship is when everyone knows what they're supposed to be doing and what to expect from the other person. Thats hard nowadays with all these "isms" going around with people in them pretending to be woke...

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Thank you.

I want to be more than just that

Sounds like you wanna be less than that. lol

 

[southern.girl]

That's now what masculinity is to me

Growing up for me it was being strong and being in competition with other men.
It was about trying to be the best and out do

I never met a man who in my life who measured his masculinity amongst men in what he did for his woman. That's his business

My ideal of masculinity isn't being a family man

You sound like a MGTOW supporter. Anyways, how are people supposed to create & sustain healthy, nuclear families to properly nurture the next generation with this extreme individualist mindset held by you & others like you?

 

[AAKing23]

Thank you for this thread I understand being a protector but what man willingly wants to sign up for being a provider these days with these entitled, spoiled ass chicks that ain't even worth it. Sounds Ilke a shytty deal to me. i like my freedom and only being responsible for myself.

I feel the same way. I grew up in a household where my Mom was a stay at home mom and my Dad worked. Growing up seeing how that dynamic works caused me to realize that's not the lifestyle I want to have. It doesn't motivate me and I don't like the idea of providing for a woman that doesn't work. Previously I was open to the idea of being the typical provider if the woman plays the supporter role perfectly but the thing is how many women can even handle that. Most women can't even play the supportive role without becoming unhappy about it :OLIVIAFACEPALM1:

I'm a lot more attracted to women that want to contribute and don't want to be carried by a man. I've also found out that once a man meets a woman he connects with and truly likes (can possibly grow to love) then it's natural to want to uplift and protect that woman. It doesn't feel like a job or something that she's entitled to. The whole entitlement with women expecting a man to protect and provide for them is a big turn off for me and I don't think women that believe in traditional gender roles are for me.

Cosign this post, plus women wanna say fukk gender roles and that they're independent and don't need men until it benefits them.

 

[Prynce]

You sound like a MGTOW supporter. Anyways, how are people supposed to create & sustain healthy, nuclear families to properly nurture the next generation with this extreme individualist mindset held by you & others like you?

I don't hate or loathe women

I personally don't believe there is a right way to do anything. Whatever works for you, works for you.

I Don't even think the nuclear family is the correct family structure

 

[Everythingg]

You sound like a MGTOW supporter.

That was created because of feminism. And while I sense a hint of homosexuality within the movement, its a direct reaction to the feminism movement.

 

[southern.girl]

I don't hate or loathe women

I personally don't believe there is a right way to do anything. Whatever works for you, works for you.

A live & let live person wouldn’t start a post shading traditional roles, but do you boo.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

damn...

You get me

@Booksnrain

@BlackPearl The Empress

answer this

Well the thing is, when you get into a relationship the other person gets to decide what you are worth to them.

You can decide to be the opposite of what women want. That's your business as long as you're okay with the fact that many women won't see your value.

Also you have yet to describe what you are offering that would make you attractive to the opposite sex.

 

[Prynce]

Well the thing is, when you get into a relationship the other person gets to decide what you are worth to them.

You can decide to be the opposite of what women want. That's your business as long as you're okay with the fact that many women won't see your value.

Also you have yet to describe what you are offering that would make you attractive to the opposite sex.

Idk maybe liking me for the person I am. Cause I make you feel good.

I just resent the idea that men only have value in what they provide but women and children should be loved unconditionally

 

[southern.girl]

That was created because of feminism. And while I sense a hint of homosexuality within the movement, its a direct reaction to the feminism movement.

And the feminist movement has gone so far left, that it’s losing supporters day by day. Why not focus on women that are not extreme feminist instead of creating a counter organization? It seems like both groups are more focused on hate & bickering, than understanding & progress.

 

[Samori Toure]

This also gives me a concept for a thread.

Why do black people try to mimic European morality, standards and ethics?

Especially when western style of thought is inherently racist towards and makes it impossible to live up to it.

I mean in africa our concepts of family and love were so different than what we do now. Maybe its why we maybe fail at it so much

Especially considering that Europeans don't have any morality, standards and ethics. They are literally the biggest group of liars, murderers, thieves and perverts that the World has ever known.

 

[Black Sinatra]

You're not going to get a logical or rational answer.

You're not going to get a logical or rational answer.

. You acquire for yourself to increase personal equity.
2. Equity is value.
3. Value attracts
4. Human nature is attraction
5. Humans attracted exchange satisfaction/pleasures
6. Sexual exchanges while fun, are biological acts to create offspring.
7. You provide and protect things/people that are added value to you. "Base self interests approach"
8. Men are biologically tuned to acquire and conquer, anything obtained with intent to retain must be protected.
9. Acquisition requires mobility unfettered and with full attention to task.
10. Offspring are ideal for forward thinking beings.
11. You can't acquire with mobility in full...whilst rearing children, women are tuned to rear children in that stead while acquisition is continued.
12. A purpose and an imperative for a modern male... and historical Male.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

That's now what masculinity is to me

Growing up for me it was being strong and being in competition with other men.
It was about trying to be the best and out do

I never met a man who in my life who measured his masculinity amongst men in what he did for his woman. That's his business

My ideal of masculinity isn't being a family man

You hate to see it.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Idk maybe liking me for the person I am. Cause I make you feel good.

I just resent the idea that men only have value in what they provide but women and children should be loved unconditionally

I believe Jason Black just addressed this though...