Why are men expected to provide and protect?
- Thread starter Prynce
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lmao fam she a grown ass woman not a childI look at providing as more than just money.
Do you offer guidance.
You expect a broad to let you into her body but don't wanna offer guidance,protection,ability to provide
Because ideally you would be in love with them..The responses in here are so weak.
You guys literally can't formulate a sound explanation as to why men should give protection(life risk) and provide resources for women in a society where they are perfectly capable of providing those things for themselves.
Just admit this is social indoctrination and you can't break the social programming that has been hammered into ours heads as men since birth.
Some of you dudes sound weak as fukk.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Sounds like some beta male shyt..
You give protection and provisions to YOUR woman, and she needs to live up to her role as a woman. The problem is you have low and no standard negroes giving women the world and a woman doesn't have to give anything back. That's what we call simpin. If she isn't living up to her role as a woman, then you are under no obligation to protect and provide. In fact, you are doing a disservice.
Because ideally you would be in love with them..
Some of you dudes sound weak as fukk.
So, men are to risk our lives and give away our hard-earned resources over a temporarily intense, but ultimately fleeting emotion?
I'm going to need a more logical reason than that, bro.
You love someone
Then you choose to marry and become partners and build something in life together.
Why wouldn't you risk everything you have for someone you love, whether it be a woman or your future children.
You sound stupid..
Temporarily intense?
Thats lust.
This isn't a good idea, friend. As a matter of fact, it's a great way to get taken advantage of. There is absolutely no reason why a sound man in the 21st Century West should enter into a relationship where he risks everything he has for another able-bodied adult and has said adult living off of him, especially one who can take care of herself. It's a pretty foolish philosophy.
I agree that parents should take care of their children.
And you sound very immature.
Mr Hate Coffee
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Right. nikka do what you want it's your life. I feel the same when women go "I don't need anyone to protect me!"
Cool. Get with someone who is aligned with your thinking.But OP knew this would go plat and here we are.
IsThatBrothaMouzone?
Veteran
Why? 
Women can get piped down by the most physically fit and attractive men ANYTIME they want it. There's no value in an eggplant-carrying gigolo because that kind of dude is available in abundance for any woman. Women ultimately value security and do everything they can to get the most attractive man that also offers financial, emotional and physical security.
Women can get piped down by the most physically fit and attractive men ANYTIME they want it. There's no value in an eggplant-carrying gigolo because that kind of dude is available in abundance for any woman. Women ultimately value security and do everything they can to get the most attractive man that also offers financial, emotional and physical security.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Well, breh if you see women for the most part being someone who has an childlike mindset until they reach a certain point in their life. Most of the stress and confusion they provide to you will start to fall to the wayside.
Like for example: You know that kids when they're bored they constantly complain about being bored. So, then they either go look to cause mischief or go look for someone or something to entertain them. You know who does the same thing? The woman for the most part.
Perfectly stated. I couldn’t agree more. It’s sounds corny but it’s true. Once you you find the right woman that’s worth it in your eyes, you will naturally want to protect and take care of that person. When my wife and I started living together, we split everything 50/50 except for going out. I usually paid b/c I made more money but bills were 50/50. It’s hard to explain but I remember when it clicked for me with my wife, it wasn’t just falling in love with her ...it was much more and it took years to get there. We have been together for 11 years, 7 married and I feel we just got to that “point” maybe 3 or 4 years ago. We’re mid 30’s having our first child in the next month.....seeing her strength as she struggles through this pregnancy, I feel as if our bond is growing even more. I pay about 75% of the bills but I enjoy taking care of her. Is it perfect, of course not. I have to get on her sometimes about these damn amazon boxes arriving at my door damn near everyday but I low key love her having nice things and looking good. She’s a direct reflection of me and I want my wife having the best.