Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?

[Blackout]

What you call a "player" I call a "dude", aside from the "cheating on all of them" and "chasing every woman he sees" part. Yea, a man should be used to approaching women, and should have his confidence high from approaching and bagging women. And you can date multiple people at the same time without cheating on them if you are upfront about it.

Being a dude isnt about cheating is the main point.

Many players go with women and cheat on them. Many players lead on women to thinking they want more than just fukking and then leave their asses or use them to get access to more women.

The fact of the matter is I have never met a player who is shy and has low confidence. No matter how much you hate low confidence having males and shy males that fact still remains true.

And like I said I'm married. I'm out of the game. I don't need any woman besides my wife. So you "exposing players" has no effect on me. But the fact that you feel the need to throw salt on another man's game to make yourself more appealing to women is fukking pathetic and says it all. Like I said. Don't worry about the next man. Ugh I can imagine you on some "ooo girl dont date him... hes a slut hes a hoe hes a freak, got a different girl every day of the week.... you need a man with sensitivity" shyt . You have nothing to offer broads so you have to tear other nikkas down to make yourself look good. fukk is wrong with you nikka

Whats funny is that you think you know me.

Just because I defend dudes with low confidence or who are shy that doesnt mean that Im one of them. You dont know me b.

I also only advise chicks to not date a playa if I am cool with the chick.

Im a gentleman in his early twenties who has his own place, a car and a descent job and am still moving on up and I have no urge to cheat on a woman. I have a lot to offer any female who has the pleasure of being loved by me.

I am not shy nor do I have low confidence. I just chose not to go the player route.

 

[Blackout]

Your dad is probably a bitter fake nice guy simp too.

My dad is still happily married to my mother. I have no stepmothers, no stepfathers and such.

He has a 3 level house, a descent sized lawn and is building another house on his land to rent out for money.

He is an excellent role model and his ways influenced me.

 

[Blackout]

Cool but regarding the fukking different women stuff why do you think dudes are still on that shyt even as they get older and should want to settle down? You think its just ego, want a variety of new p*ssy, or what? I don't care personally as long as your not lying cause i don't get that. Why lie when you could just be single fukking new chicks.

Many players are fukking women while leading them on that it will be more than just a fukk, many players are cheating on their girl and using the fact that they are in a relationship to get more women. Id hate to see a lady I care about end up with a guy like that.

Many playas like the feeling of new p*ssy and like to brag so they use various methods to get it.

I guess the feeling of new p*ssy is their own personal want.

 

[philmonroe]

Many players are fukking women while leading them on that it will be more than just a fukk, many players are cheating on their girl and using the fact that they are in a relationship to get more women. Id hate to see a lady I care about end up with a guy like that.

Many like the feeling of new p*ssy and like to brag so they use various methods to get it.

Cool I agree with all of it but definitely have to take points away from "players" in relationships because why these dudes need to come home to a chick at night if they doing it like that? Sucker shyt if you ask me and I can't cosign that at all.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

What you call a "player" I call a "dude", aside from the "cheating on all of them" and "chasing every woman he sees" part. Yea, a man should be used to approaching women, and should have his confidence high from approaching and bagging women. And you can date multiple people at the same time without cheating on them if you are upfront about it.

And like I said I'm married. I'm out of the game. I don't need any woman besides my wife. So you "exposing players" has no effect on me. But the fact that you feel the need to throw salt on another man's game to make yourself more appealing to women is fukking pathetic and says it all. Like I said. Don't worry about the next man. Ugh I can imagine you on some "ooo girl dont date him... hes a slut hes a hoe hes a freak, got a different girl every day of the week.... you need a man with sensitivity" shyt . You have nothing to offer broads so you have to tear other nikkas down to make yourself look good. fukk is wrong with you nikka

I'm sayin, why are nikkaz so against stepping their game up? That's essentially what's being told to you if you not successful when it comes to dating. Don't trip on chicks that want to date guys that you can't be, make yourself the best you possible and show that off with confidence to whatever girl catches your eye. In due time you won't be talkin bout some "playas" this and "nice guys" that you gon be too busy gettin in the game tryna get your dikk wet. Gotta stop blaming women for your shortcomings, just make yourself better and build a strong foundation of confidence within yourself. It's like nice guys are in a tangle web of self loathing towards themselves and bitterness towards women their attracted to and the men that succeed with them. Spend less energy throwing salt and more energy seasoning your own game cuz it's no excuse if the majority of men can get with women why the hell can't you?

 

[Blackout]

Cool I agree with all of it but definitely have to take points away from "players" in relationships because why these dudes need to come home to a chick at night if they doing it like that? Sucker shyt if you ask me and I can't cosign that at all.

I dont cosign it either.

It looks like that method works for them the most which is why they use it.

 

[philmonroe]

I dont cosign it either.

It looks like that method works for them the most which is why they use it.

I don't think its that it works for them the most alot of dudes are just like the chicks they hate on and are vine swingers. They can't be alone so that's why they have a main jawn at home. That's why they so confident because even if chicks outside diss them they have somebody at home. See this all the time but the, liars don't want to admit that because if you getting girls likes its nothing why tie yourself down if that's not how you want to live at that time?

 

[Blackout]

I don't think its that it works for them the most alot of dudes are just like the chicks they hate on and are vine swingers. They can't be alone so that's why they have a main jawn at home. That's why they so confident because even if chicks outside diss them they have somebody at home. See this all the time but the, liars don't want to admit that because if you getting girls likes its nothing why tie yourself down if that's not how you want to live at that time?

Well thats an answer right there.

That plus you being with someone makes you less thirsty and less likely to care when you get rejected which attracts more women.

Being with a girl has many benefits for players.

 

[philmonroe]

I'm sayin, why are nikkaz so against stepping their game up? That's essentially what's being told to you if you not successful when it comes to dating. Don't trip on chicks that want to date guys that you can't be, make yourself the best you possible and show that off with confidence to whatever girl catches your eye. In due time you won't be talkin bout some "playas" this and "nice guys" that you gon be too busy gettin in the game tryna get your dikk wet. Gotta stop blaming women for your shortcomings, just make yourself better and build a strong foundation of confidence within yourself. It's like nice guys are in a tangle web of self loathing towards themselves and bitterness towards women their attracted to and the men that succeed with them. Spend less energy throwing salt and more energy seasoning your own game cuz it's no excuse if the majority of men can get with women why the hell can't you?

As long as places like this exist where dudes can have a support group of like minded failures they won't improve. They have someone cosign their bullshyt just like alot of chicks where their girlfriends don't tell them the real most times unless they mad at them. Alot of people probably need to stay off the net pity parties and give their non honest friends the boot because they helping to hold you back by not helping you to see you shortcomings

 

[iBrowse]

@kevm3 I don't think you've posted in here...

 

[philmonroe]

Well thats an answer right there.

That plus you being with someone makes you less thirsty and less likely to care when you get rejected.

Being with a girl has many benefits for players.

Knowing you can get and or have girls period has the same benefits so that's why I don't get why dudes want to tie themselves down to one when they know they ain't bout that life. I don't understand but hey whatever works I guess.

 

[Blackout]

Knowing you can get and or have girls period has the same benefits so that's why I don't get why dudes want to tie themselves down to one when they know they ain't bout that life. I don't understand but hey whatever works I guess.

I dunno mayne. I mean when I was committed I had way more girls liking me than when I was single so I saw first hand how it would benefit a player.

My cuz who is married sees it too and since he is married its even worse.

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

As long as places like this exist where dudes can have a support group of like minded failures they won't improve. They have someone cosign their bullshyt just like alot of chicks where their girlfriends don't tell them the real most times unless they mad at them. Alot of people probably need to stay off the net pity parties and give their non honest friends the boot because they helping to hold you back by not helping you to see you shortcomings

So true, if you got real ass friends then it helps a lot in this regard cuz they'll be down to help you get over that bullshyt. But it all falls on the individual, this "nice guy" shyt is the same as women saying there are no good men left. It's really their own missteps that prevent their happiness, and when that happens you already killin yourself over it so when you get into those pity parties with other people like that you risk dropping yourself in a hole of discontent, bitterness, etc. Brehs gotta emancipate themselves from that sucka shyt once and for all. You want p*ssy its the magnet to your steel pole(nh), she knows you want p*ssy no matter how much you fake like your nice or have some nobler intentions, fukk all that shyt just go for the shyt instead of worrying about everything else that isn't what you want.

 

[philmonroe]

I dunno mayne. I mean when I was committed I had way more girls liking me than when I was single so I saw first hand how it would benefit a player.

My cuz who is married sees it too and since he is married its even worse.

I guess it goes on personal and people around you experience even though personally I don't see no difference either way. Chicks look now when Im single and they look at the same rate when I'm in a relationship so that's why I say its the same. Also why I'm not trying to be tied down don't have to answer to any chick talking about I mislead them or no shyt like that they know what it is from jump and if they down or not its on them.

So true, if you got real ass friends then it helps a lot in this regard cuz they'll be down to help you get over that bullshyt. But it all falls on the individual, this "nice guy" shyt is the same as women saying there are no good men left. It's really their own missteps that prevent their happiness, and when that happens you already killin yourself over it so when you get into those pity parties with other people like that you risk dropping yourself in a hole of discontent, bitterness, etc. Brehs gotta emancipate themselves from that sucka shyt once and for all. You want p*ssy its the magnet to your steel pole(nh), she knows you want p*ssy no matter how much you fake like your nice or have some nobler intentions, fukk all that shyt just go for the shyt instead of worrying about everything else that isn't what you want.

Yeah true your friends help but in the end your right its up to you to turn it around. My friend he good for that coming in as a friend then saying he likes a girl. I tell that shyt works but it won't work everywhere dude thinks I hating on him but I'm keeping it real. You can't meet no chick outside in public talking about I just want to be friends or even acting like that IMO. Now maybe if she really digging you but that just seems to suckerish for me to try but dudes got their ways.

 

[Blackout]

I guess it goes on personal and people around you experience even though personally I don't see no difference either way. Chicks look now when Im single and they look at the same rate when I'm in a relationship so that's why I say its the same. Also why I'm not trying to be tied down don't have to answer to any chick talking about I mislead them or no shyt like that they know what it is from jump and if they down or not its on them.

Well when it comes to your case one of my cousins who is a playa called the chicks he was with guaranteed p*ssy.

Like if he went out and got none then he could always fukk the chicks we was fooling into thinking that he was being faithful with them at the end of the day.

This guy never got caught either and if he did the chicks actually fought each other for him.