Why are most of the black women I see on Twitter single?

[Patrick Kane]

I see similar tweets to this daily:



Talking about their “situationships” and nikkas they fukkin.

Then when this tweet went viral last week:



Most of the tweets agreeing with it and “yasssss queeeeen” ing it were single 30+ black women.

I also have a few broads I’ve known over the years/grew up with on IG/Twitter that are pretty, somewhat successful, want a man but according to them - the men they meet don’t stack up? I find it hard to believe though. Most of the blame you see from them is placed on the man… I never see or hear self reflection on where they may go wrong in dealing with men.

This ain’t a black woman bashing thread though

Is this part of the nature of modern dating? I know Twitter not a true reflection of reality but it’s an echo chamber that a good majority of the women in your city may be apart of.

 

[Uchiha God]

Not going to lie - twitter is full of loser black women.

Might be confirmation bias because obviously I follow a substantial number of them - but all I see is bitterness, outright lies to push agendas and support for degenerate behavior. Non-stop celebrity worshipping and gossiping and overtly sexually charged advertising (“my throat/my coochie”). It’s quite off putting.

Almost forgot - always panhandling/begging for money/someone to pay their bills - although they get quite creative with this and make it seem they’re entitled to a man doing this for them - despite the fact they spend 22 hours out of the day pushing anti men sentiments.

I know there are wholesome black women on there too but they’re outnumbered/drowned out by the rest considerably.

 

[SNG]

If you’re in a good healthy relationship. You don’t have time to be on that shyt.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Relationships are harder now than they have ever been before what with the state of the economy and the fact that every person you've ever shared an intimate moment with is just a click away.

Then when you factor in how important relationships are to women, you see why a lot of them are sitting out this round.

 

[SNG]

Relationships are harder now than they have ever been before what with the state of the economy and the fact that every person you've ever shared an intimate moment with is just a click away.

Then when you factor in how important relationships are to women, you see why a lot of them are sitting out this round.

Even if you got it like that sometimes still don’t make a relationship successful. The mentality of shyt being transactional on both genders eventually fizzles out when there isn’t any depth to creating a relationship.

 

[Patrick Kane]

Even if you got it like that sometimes still don’t make a relationship successful. The mentality of shyt being transactional on both genders eventually fizzles out when there isn’t any depth to creating a relationship.

This what I’m realizing how a lot of women are viewing men now a days - this transaction of what can he do for me and how long. I’ve actually had to call out a few of my homegirls who had this mindset when I hit them with:

“But what are YOU doing for the relationship to have it advance and grow? Outside of just being present - what efforts are you taking to create that growth?” And it’s usually silence. Or something to do sexually - like we give a fukk about that.

It seems like after 3-4 years is when things start to fizzle when the sex slows down and the excitement isn’t there and people don’t want to put in that effort with the person they choose. Especially when someone else is a click away.

 

[Brolic]

 

[SNG]

This what I’m realizing how a lot of women are viewing men now a days - this transaction of what can he do for me and how long. I’ve actually had to call out a few of my homegirls who had this mindset when I hit them with:

“But what are YOU doing for the relationship to have it advance and grow? Outside of just being present - what efforts are you taking to create that growth?” And it’s usually silence. Or something to do sexually - like we give a fukk about that.

It seems like after 3-4 years is when things start to fizzle when the sex slows down and the excitement isn’t there and people don’t want to put in that effort with the person they choose. Especially when someone else is a click away.

Facts but that’s thing it becomes and endless cycle. When you love a person for who they truly are then you want to put that effort. I don’t know for me I’ve always been pretty deep with women in my relationships so when I’m single I’m not really single for long. Even when I was broke I still didn’t have a hard time getting women. I gotta fiancé now but I know I would have been eating now.

 

[The Fade]

These are secular rat race people, the Asian lady included.

No sense of family duty or community

Also income bracket doesn’t determine your manhood, it didn’t before the Industrial Revolution. A man is a man, otherwise a woman would be a man just because she out earns you. That’s penis envy shyt. What you keep from your income determines class tho

Hyper capitalism does not determine your manhood

 

[Paper Boi]

because twitter is filled with sex workers, gays and mentally ill people

(outside of the elon musk nazi boys)

 

[King Jove]

There is always talk about "incels" but eventually there is going to have to be a mass discussion on "femcels".

You have a lot of women that have low self-esteem, past trauma issues, and insecurity that go on the internet and vent their frustrations about not getting the men that they want.

Women that are attractive, physically fit, feminine, successful, and in positive loving relationships are simply not engaging in the type of discussions that some of these women engage in on the internet.

 

[skyrunner1]

I see similar tweets to this daily:



Talking about their “situationships” and nikkas they fukkin.

Then when this tweet went viral last week:


Most of the tweets agreeing with it and “yasssss queeeeen” ing it were single 30+ black women.

I also have a few broads I’ve known over the years/grew up with on IG/Twitter that are pretty, somewhat successful, want a man but according to them - the men they meet don’t stack up? I find it hard to believe though. Most of the blame you see from them is placed on the man… I never see or hear self reflection on where they may go wrong in dealing with men.

This ain’t a black woman bashing thread though

Is this part of the nature of modern dating? I know Twitter not a true reflection of reality but it’s an echo chamber that a good majority of the women in your city may be apart of.

I think men have a hard time wrapping their mind around how things have changed and when they hear women speaking freely about things it seems jarring to them. Maybe they open their eyes after they have been told a million times. Also if looking at statistics, I dont think most are designed to be life long monogamy, behavior shows otherwise. The laws are from a distant time ago and men seem to be still playing by old rules and not understanding how quickly things have changed. Maybe women speaking honestly on social media will clue them in but I doubt it.

 

[King]

It’s a reflection of the black community as a whole.

Broken.

Our communities are fukked.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Because women who have something going on in their life aren't spending time complaining on Twitter.

 

[goatmane]

A record-high share of 40-year-olds in the U.S. have never been married

As of 2021, 25% of 40-year-olds in the United States had never been married, a significant increase from 20% in 2010.

www.pewresearch.org

E 28, 2023

A record-high share of 40-year-olds in the U.S. have never been married​

BY RICHARD FRY

As of 2021, 25% of 40-year-olds in the United States had never been married. This was a significant increase from 20% in 2010, according to a new Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data.
How we did this

Marriage has long been a central institution in the lives of Americans. In 1980, just 6% of 40-year-olds had never been married. But people born from the 1960s onward have been increasingly delaying marriage, and a growing share are forgoing it altogether.
The 2021 data marks a new milestone in that decadeslong trend.
While many unmarried 40-year-olds are living with a romantic partner, most are not. In 2022, 22% of never-married adults ages 40 to 44 were cohabiting.
The share of 40-year-olds in 2021 who had never married varied by the following demographic characteristics:

• Gender: A higher share of men than women had never married.
• men than women had never married.
• Race and ethnicity: Black 40-year-olds were much more likely to have never married than Hispanic, White and Asian 40-year-olds.

• Education level: 40-year-olds without a four-year college degree were more likely to have never married than those who had completed at least a bachelor’s degree. One-third of those with a high school diploma or less had never married, compared with 26% of those with some college education and 18% of those with a bachelor’s degree or more education.

The overall decrease in the share of 40-year-olds who have married is especially notable because the share of 40-year-olds who had completed at least a bachelor’s degree was much higher in 2021 than in 1980 (39% vs. 18%). More-highly educated 40-year-olds are more likely to have married, but the growth of this group has not reversed the overall trend of delaying or forgoing marriage.

To be sure, we can’t assume that if someone has not married by age 40, they never will. In fact, about one-in-four 40-year-olds who had not married in 2001 had done so by age 60. If that pattern holds, a similar share of today’s never-married 40-year-olds will marry in the coming decades.

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