Why are most of the black women I see on Twitter single?

[SNG]

There is always talk about "incels" but eventually there is going to have to be a mass discussion on "femcels".

You have a lot of women that have low self-esteem, past trauma issues, and insecurity that go on the internet and vent their frustrations about not getting the men that they want.

Women that are attractive, physically fit, feminine, successful, and in positive loving relationships are simply not engaging in the type of discussions that some of these women engage in on the internet.

Lipstickalley is where alot of these women reside at.

 

[Bonk]

A lot of them are also single in real life albeit they’re in situationships.

 

[KamikazePilot]

Look at Black Woman’s dating and marriage stats it tell’s you the whole story

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

it's a whole asian woman in the OP

 

[OfTheCross]

I see similar tweets to this daily:



Talking about their “situationships” and nikkas they fukkin.

Then when this tweet went viral last week:



Most of the tweets agreeing with it and “yasssss queeeeen” ing it were single 30+ black women.

I also have a few broads I’ve known over the years/grew up with on IG/Twitter that are pretty, somewhat successful, want a man but according to them - the men they meet don’t stack up? I find it hard to believe though. Most of the blame you see from them is placed on the man… I never see or hear self reflection on where they may go wrong in dealing with men.

This ain’t a black woman bashing thread though

Is this part of the nature of modern dating? I know Twitter not a true reflection of reality but it’s an echo chamber that a good majority of the women in your city may be apart of.

Most women on the internet are single. Like 70/30 I'd say

 

[Jazzy B.]

A lot of women on Twitter are playing characters.

 

[SNG]

Look at Black Woman’s dating and marriage stats it tell’s you the whole story

But what do you expect. A lot the women that come from our community were fatherless and haven’t seen a healthy dynamic of how a husband and wife work which is different across the board to give an idea the men as well.

 

[Mindfield333]

A lot of women on Twitter are playing characters.

This

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Even if you got it like that sometimes still don’t make a relationship successful. The mentality of shyt being transactional on both genders eventually fizzles out when there isn’t any depth to creating a relationship.

Exactly.

A lot of “relationships” look good on paper but some folks are outright annoying and wayyyyyy too many factors become dealbreakers that leave these chicks out in the cold and alone/lonely:

- too attached to social media
- emotions tied to social media
- ridiculous expectations
- trying to fast track aspects of the relationship (like marriage)
- not realizing that being washed, not in shape and overall wack is a major hindrance
- doing a lot of the same shyt other females but act like they are so different than the next bytch

I could go on but what dudes are dealing with that long term when they can just smash/dash, not commit and eventually find someone who has their ish together.

We are in some wild times right now. Money is a factor in everything but the “guarantee” of some live-in pwussy ain’t worth the headaches.

As wild as it is to see dudes out here with sub mediocre and atrocious social skills, on the ladies side you have the same shyt. And guess what? There might be a ton of cats thirsty for ass outchea but these females don’t want those dudes. The dude not stressing to smash already had options and values his autonomy above all — so you better be an elite bítch and I don’t mean having a cure face a couple of dollars. You can keep your money, bítch

 

[Gloxina]

I think Twitter is pretty problematic so that’s why I stay away Feels like HS. People saying whatever flies in their heads and attempting to go viral, saying whatever just to fit in with with a bunch of strangers, being offensive because they can hide behind a screen. And then some ppl are dumb enough to use their real pics/name/info…

 

[The Fade]

I think Twitter is pretty problematic so that’s why I stay away Feels like HS. People saying whatever flies in their heads and attempting to go viral, saying whatever just to fit in with with a bunch of strangers, being offensive because they can hide behind a screen. And then some ppl are dumb enough to use their real pics/name/info…

Twitter is definitely the 13th grade for alot of people

 

[SNG]

Exactly.

A lot of “relationships” look good on paper but some folks are outright annoying and wayyyyyy too many factors become dealbreakers that leave these chicks out in the cold and alone/lonely:

- too attached to social media
- emotions tied to social media
- ridiculous expectations
- trying to fast track aspects of the relationship (like marriage)
- not realizing that being washed, not in shape and overall wack is a major hindrance
- doing a lot of the same shyt other females but act like they are so different than the next bytch

I could go on but what dudes are dealing with that long term when they can just smash/dash, not commit and eventually find someone who has their ish together.

We are in some wild times right now. Money is a factor in everything but the “guarantee” of some live-in pwussy ain’t worth the headaches.

As wild as it is to see dudes out here with sub mediocre and atrocious social skills, on the ladies side you have the same shyt. And guess what? There might be a ton of cats thirsty for ass outchea but these females don’t want those dudes. The dude not stressing to smash already had options and values his autonomy above all — so you better be an elite bítch and I don’t mean having a cure face a couple of dollars. You can keep your money, bítch

Bruh let me tell you inflation on p*ssy is real too. I went to a get together on the weekend and the amount of outta shape and big women talkin about looking for a man with the bag.

 

[Mashal88]

Twitter is full of lonely scorned black women like TheColi is full of lonely scorned black men.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

There is always talk about "incels" but eventually there is going to have to be a mass discussion on "femcels".

You have a lot of women that have low self-esteem, past trauma issues, and insecurity that go on the internet and vent their frustrations about not getting the men that they want.

Women that are attractive, physically fit, feminine, successful, and in positive loving relationships are simply not engaging in the type of discussions that some of these women engage in on the internet.

Some of the women that be calling Kendra G

 

[Guess Who]

A lot of “relationships” look good on paper but some folks are outright annoying and wayyyyyy too many factors become dealbreakers that leave these chicks out in the cold and alone/lonely:

- too attached to social media
- emotions tied to social media
- ridiculous expectations
- trying to fast track aspects of the relationship (like marriage)
- not realizing that being washed, not in shape and overall wack is a major hindrance
- doing a lot of the same shyt other females but act like they are so different than the next bytch

I could go on but what dudes are dealing with that long term when they can just smash/dash, not commit and eventually find someone who has their ish together.

We are in some wild times right now. Money is a factor in everything but the “guarantee” of some live-in pwussy ain’t worth the headaches.

As wild as it is to see dudes out here with sub mediocre and atrocious social skills, on the ladies side you have the same shyt. And guess what? There might be a ton of cats thirsty for ass outchea but these females don’t want those dudes. The dude not stressing to smash already had options and values his autonomy above all — so you better be an elite bítch and I don’t mean having a cure face a couple of dollars. You can keep your money, bítch

As a man, at a certain point you realize that the better you do as a man, the more women you have available to you, yet the fewer of them you actually want. A lot of women ain’t great socially or financially or with respect to taking care of themselves in basic ways. Even the pretty ones. Or the ones with good careers.

And I bet the same is true for men.

It’s a minefield out here.