Why are most women terrible at conversation?

[Big Blue]

Starting the believe that most posters on the Coli don't interact with women on a regular basis.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Starting the believe that most posters on the Coli don't interact with women on a regular basis.

I'll back your theory by saying I'm one of them

 

[Luck]

Yea if we're gonna be honest, most women I've dealt with personally were not good at conversing unless it was something they were interested in. Even dealing with more intelligent females, the subject matter might be there but they can't handle being wrong at all or any type of criticism. A lot of it stems from being self absorbed ( most don't even know they are self centered ) and not being able to look at and present things from an objective stand point.

Have a "friendly" discussion about abortion, misogyny / feminism or marriage and divorce etc... then see how quick that can turn left if a nikka don't handle the shyt with kid gloves. Most of the time broads be catching feelings about shyt they never even dealt with personally, they just programmed to catch feelings when it's not something they want to hear about a subject they're so called passionate about.

Cats arguing this follow and engage in the same type of reasoning and logic females do, if you're one of them Gary's tea type tmz watchin ass nikkas then of course you wouldn't notice.

 

[Weaver31]

As I read these posts, Its a lot of generalizing going around.

There are men out here who are uninteresting, boring, and vapid as well. Just like there are the airheaded women...there are the dumb jocks or the dumb azz dudes.

I think OP only go after the super attractive women and sometimes when u just go for looks or have that be your primary focus...then u fail to pick up the shortcomings the person have. Not saying an unattractive, unpresentable, or obese women have better personalities...but when a person have it so easy that they can just get by with looks...then its a high chance they could be lacking in some other areas. This goes for women and men.

 

[feelosofer]

That sounds more like a YOU problem.

 

[Reno89]

When a chick is feeling you, the convo flows, almost to the point that it seems like she is dominating the convo. When she not feeling you though

 

[Champ_KW]

Patrice O'Neal had a bit on this very topic. He asked a woman, if you take the idea of a man wanting to fukk you off the table, how would she go about going into a crowded club and get the guy she like to like her back? I wouldn't say all women are boring, but I do think a lot of them bypass "working on their left handed layup" because they're ultimately holding the ace card.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Or the ladies you encounter are just not that into you and feel no need to conserve with you outside of superficial things. I do it to most people outside of my immediate relatives and created networks

 

[philmonroe]

It seems like a majority of chicks have no real interests, hobbies, or passions.

It's almost as if they just do the bare minimum in life and see themselves as a pair of boobs and an ass... but then they act like its disrespectful when all you can think of talking about is smashing it's not like you're interesting enough to give a nikka anything else to talk about

Its actually an indictment on you and the folks you fukk with but don't let facts get in the way of your blame game fam.

 

[JahFocus CS]

Simps mad as hell in here

 

[philmonroe]

Starting the believe that most posters on the Coli don't interact with women on a regular basis.

Of course they don't and come here to link up with other nikkas that don't interact with women and agree all day. Its some women that don't have convo and some that do but if that's all your running into that's a you problem simple and plain.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

I wouldn't go that far but what annoys me a lot of the time is the unwritten rule that men gotta be the one holding a conversation up. It's on us to ask them questions,drive the convo when its starts to dry up e.t.c

 

[iBrowse]

Because for many women life revolves around them. You're not a partner in conversation. You're an entertainer. Hence why women get "bored." Many women look at us as games, toys or programs. Products to be consumed and not engaged. Think about it; are you taught to have conversations with consumer products? No. Neither are women. Luckily I'm not partnered with a consumer so I'm good over here.

Jesus Christ

 

[Redwood]

Women are biologically wired to be more self centered, and society promotes it as well.

You ever notice how your girl repeats shyt you tell her, like she thought of it herself?

Ever notice when women argue, all they can do it take what men say and flip it back onto them?

Why do you think most inventions are made by men?

Women are vessels that piggyback onto men. It's our duty to take the lead and and give them direction.

If she sounds like a simpleton, then demonstrate being philosophical, or talking about interesting things.

She'll eventually try and mimic that with you, and at that point she'll probably fall in love with you.

But she wants to make sure you're worthy of her infatuation, in which case you have to be confident and decisive.

The worst thing you can do is be unsure of yourself with women, because women are unsure of themselves, and they can smell that shyt from a mile away. If they do, your chances with here are zero.

Hope y'all nikkas took notes.

 

[crush_sumpin]

I disagree with this post. yes there are some one dimensional females out there, but most of the non communicators, in my opinion, are dudes. Generally speaking, dudes are stupid. devoid of an original thought. and lacking in the game area. more times than not dudes just let the female talk then agree with her viewpoints, without saying much, knowing asking a few questions will give them all the information needed to attempt to work their way in. some dudes even try, when they do talk, to appear more intelligent than they are by using words they know damn well they can't even spell, much less use in their regular communications. I tell me female friends all the time to ask open ended questions to dudes that don't indicate their own opinion, putting them on the spot, forcing them to give their opinion, then seeing if it is aligned with their own. I also suggest when dudes try to use words you know don't fit that dude, put them on the spot to spell that word. if they come with "I don't have to know how to spell it to know what it means" or "you spell it" or "i know how to spell it" without doing so..then you know what it is. Dudes lean on the fact that they are the male, as much, if not more than females leaning on the fact they are female.