the whole nikkas being followers stuff is not necessarily a bad thing. i'm saying, listen. if a handful of young black doctors got on wshh, flaunted their nice homes, nice cars, couple of exotikkals in the background. if they somehow made being educated w/a career hot, nikkas would STILL be sheep but towards a positive goal.
go for what makes the most bread. then give your children the luxury of being choosey w/their career
since you seem to have already done so, what are those solutions?