simple answer.
we've been engineered to be this way, that was the purpose of whites beating our ancestors languages, culture and customs out of them and replacing it all with someone we don't organically connect with.
we don't have knowledge of self as a whole, every black person I know that has bothered to learn their history and the history of our experience in America immediately stopped participating in the behaviors that put us in the position we're in today where we're destroying each other and ourselves.
anybody who suggests that we're exploitable because we want to be is also suggesting that something must be inherently wrong with Black people, meaning we're born this way.