why are so many women so attracted to ain't sh*t dudes?

[jadillac]

I know alot of women want a "bad boy", but I'm talking about BEYOND that.

I'm talking girls from good families with money, but winding up with dudes with 3-4 kids, no job, smoke weed all day, eat junk food and get sloppy. I just don't f*ckin get it.

So now you drag your life down to his level and you dont work, have his baby, smoke & do pills all day, family cuts you off, etc, and monetarily you're basically living day to day now.

I know a few girls(well grown women) like this right now.

What kind of mind spells are these dusty-ass niccas casting?


I always say 2 types of dudes get ALL the women they want. Dudes who are super rich, and dudes who ain't shyt.

 

[Crakface]

Daddy wasnt shyt and the cycle repeats

 

[Ol’Otis]

daddy issues and dusty n*ggas have the best d*ck game


pause!

at least thats what my homegirls on the block say

 

[lowkey0z]

0 certs
0 cars
0 house/apartment

 

[Gold]

When will you brehs figure out that female attraction isn't a Zero-Sum game?


But to answer your question... You're focused on the qualities that you think make them a bad catch.
They are focused on the qualities that they think make them a good catch.

Its really that simple.

A woman doesn't have to be attracted to every aspect of a man to be attracted to a man.

 

[Turlast]

Attraction isn't logical. Sometimes they're drawn to those type of dudes because they feel like that guy understands them better than anyone else. Or they feel it's up to them to help that dude. A lot of women are attracted to "damaged" men because they feel obligated to put them back together. Sometimes a well put dude is just boring to them.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Negged.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

because we got them certs

 

[jadillac]

When will you brehs figure out that female attraction isn't a Zero-Sum game?


But to answer your question... You're focused on the qualities that you think make them a bad catch.
They are focused on the qualities that they think make them a good catch.

Its really that simple.

A woman doesn't have to be attracted to every aspect of a man to be attracted to a man.

Explain the bolded with an exmple, breh.
but what qualities are attractive when there's really no qualities?

When you're stressed the f out b/c you can't feed your child and ruined your life?

 

[Malik1time]

0 certs
0 cars
0 house/apartment

You forgot not 6 feet

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Lol woman like a man who aint shyt from sex or because they can compete with other woman and woman like competition. Why a nikka like future get the girl before Russell wilson its like she won't a nikka she can try to fix and not the nikka well put together early. She wont the nikka well put together after she couldnt fix the other dude

Woman arent logical so it never makes sense why they do some of the things thry do. But its just how it is there woman who don't like those kindof dudes tho

 

[fcm1180]

Settling!!!! Sometimes women just wanna be with somebody and look past that other shyt...ain't nobody perfect...But I'd rather be alone and single than to deal with some wack ass shyt like that...imo

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

If you not gonna ever bust your gun in her honor or be outside another mog house touting the two tec's, then she ain't for ya, and you not the one.

 

[benjamin]

I could make a fake profile on a dating site, in my description would put that I’m an ex-con out on bail, sell weed, got 3 babymamas and live wit my mama…and hoes would bop, sometimes when I’m bored I do that shyt just to get #’s for the hell of it..

 

[jadillac]

Attraction isn't logical. Sometimes they're drawn to those type of dudes because they feel like that guy understands them better than anyone else. Or they feel it's up to them to help that dude. A lot of women are attracted to "damaged" men because they feel obligated to put them back together. Sometimes a well put dude is just boring to them.

Lol woman like a man who aint shyt from sex or because they can compete with other woman and woman like competition. Why a nikka like future get the girl before Russell wilson its like she won't a nikka she can try to fix and not the nikka well put together early. She wont the nikka well put together after she couldnt fix the other dude

Woman arent logical so it never makes sense why they do some of the things thry do. But its just how it is there woman who don't like those kindof dudes tho

Y'all say this about "fixing" the dudes. But alot of these women are NOT trying to do that. They're just going with the flow.

They not trying to change anything about the nikkas lifestyle b/c they themselves follow along or encourage it.

I almost think it's just that some women are just destined to get sucked down. They may cry about it but they don't change.