Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

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Careful with your wording. They may have wanted to lock you down, but may not necessarily wanted to commit. Huge difference most people don’t speak about.

You right. I can only confirm that they wanted me to commit to them. They coulda had hoes from Harlem to Houston for all I know.

But it's fukked up. Some girls be trying to hard to get with a nikka. And some girls gotta stay batting nikkas off because they feel they wifey material.

nikkas find out I have no kids and try and give me the damn world. Talking bout marriage and kids off bat like a desperate old woman. It's a big turn off.
 

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Just found out last night my side chick has a dude.

After I fukked her to sleep her phone went off. Saw a message "GN baby. Sweet dreams. Hit me when you wake up."

I was like :damn:
Bruhhhhhh, im so tired of shyt like that. :dead:

Most girls now keep all their nikkas on do not disturb (unless they just don't gaf).


These chicks out here are wilder than nikkas these days :bryan:
 

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Because we are in the golden age of hoes

Hoes are winning and decent women are losing and even the so called decent ones are becoming more lose and accumulated a high body count which fukks up a dude mind not knowing can he trust these young amber rose broads out here in the streets

Make your commitments at 40 young brothers
 

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So many cats grew up without fathers, so honestly, they don't understand the benefit of being with a woman outside of sex. They don't even understand how much less stress there is in having a girlfriend, especially if she lives with you. A lot of them would rather just aimlessly go out into the dating game and deal with the lowest common denominator of women.

They see men out here in the dating game having sex with women left and right, and they don't see the point in being with one woman sexually, when you can have multiple. However, this also stems from the low standards men have in the women that they date. Most of them don't require their women to know how to cook, clean, nurse, sew, massage, etc. Stuff that people used to consider basic back in the day.
 

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cats cuff up out of fear

if you could clap every female you feel like with no pressure from any of them you would too

Big FACTS... Societal pressure... Female shaming... Etc

One thing I've learned... Women tolerate alot of shyt based on who you are & how they see you.

One man might have to committ to her with no compromise - while the next man could have his way and have a house full of women if he wanted to.

Same way how one man gotta wine & dine, while the next nikka just shows up, smash & dip....
 

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You right. I can only confirm that they wanted me to commit to them. They coulda had hoes from Harlem to Houston for all I know.

But it's fukked up. Some girls be trying to hard to get with a nikka. And some girls gotta stay batting nikkas off because they feel they wifey material.

nikkas find out I have no kids and try and give me the damn world. Talking bout marriage and kids off bat like a desperate old woman. It's a big turn off.
Why they just don't nut in you? You on birth control? :ld:
 

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Man its ridiculous how many girls with boyfriends i've fukked/had the chance to fukk these past two years smh

Man dont get me started

They dont mind cheating with u

I made a thread on how I wore a wedding band & had a made up story about my wife and I going thru it....they ate it up

Them hoes didnt even care if I was married they just saw competition

They really thought they was cheating with a married man:Denzelcrackinup:
 
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