Why Are So Many Young Men Against Committment These Days?

[1 other person]

Because we are in the golden age of hoes

Hoes are winning and decent women are losing and even the so called decent ones are b8ecoming more lose and accumulated a high body count which fukks up a dude mind not knowing can he trust these young amber rose broads out here in the streets

Make your commitments at 40 young brothers

Damn. 40 huh?

 

[Reno89]

When you're with a good woman, you don't have to do anything else other than work most of the time. You come home, and your clothes are clean, the food is ready, so you don't have to eat out. She can give you a massage if you're feeling tense, and she can nurse you to health if you're feeling sick.

It also comes down to men not valuing themselves as men. They actually think that they're benefiting by giving a woman consistent free dikk that you can potentially get pregnant from and live off of for the next 18 - 21 years

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

 

[Hagendas]

So many cats grew up without fathers, so honestly, they don't understand the benefit of being with a woman outside of sex. They don't even understand how much less stress there is in having a girlfriend, especially if she lives with you. A lot of them would rather just aimlessly go out into the dating game and deal with the lowest common denominator of women.
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Wtf living with your girl is Hella stressful man what are you talking about

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Why they just don't nut in you? You on birth control?

Lol. My mama say I gotta stay on birth control until I'm married.

But if a nikka ever tried to trap me with a baby, I would just abort it before 3mos. That's when the procedure starts getting...messy.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

I guess that depends on the women they fukking with. I've never talked to a dude that didn't try and lock me down, so I can't say that I've seen the same thing.

Did you let them hit before or after they tried locking you down tho.

 

[T'krm]

You right. I can only confirm that they wanted me to commit to them. They coulda had hoes from Harlem to Houston for all I know.

But it's fukked up. Some girls be trying to hard to get with a nikka. And some girls gotta stay batting nikkas off because they feel they wifey material.

nikkas find out I have no kids and try and give me the damn world. Talking bout marriage and kids off bat like a desperate old woman. It's a big turn off.

If you ain't presented w/a ring, or dude ain't spending duckets(&not well off), you relegated to the roster position
Which many don't mind, actually if you keep it real, and they hold vip status

 

[010101]

Big FACTS... Societal pressure... Female shaming... Etc

One thing I've learned... Women tolerate alot of shyt based on who you are & how they see you.

One man might have to committ to her with no compromise - while the next man could have his way and have a house full of women if he wanted to.

Same way how one man gotta wine & dine, while the next nikka just shows up, smash & dip....

cats set the table wrong

you should starve as a man before you sugarcoat the truth & trick off to pop

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[Silkk]

Lol. My mama say I gotta stay on birth control until I'm married.

But if a nikka every tried to trap me with a baby, I would just abort it before 3mos. That's when the procedure starts getting...messy.

Yo mama smart

fukk around & run into a nikka like my nikka @skeetsinternal

 

[mortuus est]

because life's short, smoke a port

 

[Silkk]

Wtf living with your girl is Hella stressful man what are you talking about

Especially if she don't come home one night/be out super late

 

[Rozay Oro]

It's better to be a basic nikka then an extra ass nikka. Real talk.

I read your post. I never went all out on a girl like that lol. Even the one time I wrote a girl a note lmao smh. All I said was hit me up or throw this away lol

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

Did you let them hit before or after they tried locking you down tho.

Some before, some after. I got a good girlfriend resume so I never really been in a situation where the men around me didn't wanna have a relationship with me or claim me publicly.

In fact the only nikka that played it real cool with my ass is my boyfriend and it only made me want him more.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Because we are in the golden age of hoes

Hoes are winning and decent women are losing and even the so called decent ones are becoming more lose and accumulated a high body count which fukks up a dude mind not knowing can he trust these young amber rose broads out here in the streets

Make your commitments at 40 young brothers

winning?
Breh a lot of these "hoes"end up as single mothers or washed and are struggling when it comes to finances.

But I am not afraid of commitment but I am wary of being committed to the wrong woman

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Wtf living with your girl is Hella stressful man what are you talking about

pick a better girl breh

shyt is only stressful if y'all ain't doing something right...something is off.

It's not all roses, but no relationship is. A dog pissing on your carpet can stress you out...

Folk need a crash course in having a friendship within relationship