Why Are thecoli.com Members So Defensive?

Mr.Logic

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When someone speaks on thecoli in 3rd person as if they are not a user they need to be banned on site. It's obvious what their intentions are.
This guy again...This is not a fairy tale thread my friend...But you are welcome to stay...

Since you brought it up, let us talk about banning...What's up with that?

So, we need to ban people who post in the "3rd person"? To what end? Why would somebody feel so offended by this? People use racial slurs like c00n, nikker (I don't care how you chose to spell it, it means the same thing) and cac...But it is fine...

But we must ban people who prefer yogurt to ice cream...:russ:

Explain...
 

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This guy again...This is not a fairy tale thread my friend...But you are welcome to stay...

Since you brought it up, let us talk about banning...What's up with that?

So, we need to ban people who post in the "3rd person"? To what end? Why would somebody feel so offended by this? People use racial slurs like c00n, nikker (I don't care how you chose to spell it, it means the same thing) and cac...But it is fine...

But we must ban people who prefer yogurt to ice cream...:russ:

Explain...

You speak on a site as if you are not a user, thus exposing you came to this site not with the intentions of being a member but with the intentions of causing discourse or some other motive.
 

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I get negged every other week :yeshrug: it's nothing really. It's all about opinions and who wants to be with the crowd, all the male posters negged me into space after I said I didnt find most of the female posters attractive, ironically none of the female posters really cared:manny: don't take it to heart OP.
 

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You speak on a site as if you are not a user, thus exposing you came to this site not with the intentions of being a member but with the intentions of causing discourse or some other motive.
Or maybe I just try my best to present my opinions in a way that pushes those who care to respond, to respond in a way that does not involve personal attacks...

Don't you talk to people offline? What happens when you are trying to make a general statement, but you make the mistake to use a name, and people automatically start to think you are launching a personal attack against them...

That is why I make statements like "yellow people and blue people"...I want people to focus more on the argument rather than personal stuff...

But at the same time, I am well aware that personal experience can never be discounted, so people can feel/respond as they so chose to...

NEVER mad...
 

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Race is a social contrast...How can you love/hate something doesn't really exist?
this is not about race at least not in what i posted that u quoted....he exists...he is a natural born black man that hates himself the issue is not about race its about him who exists
 

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Or maybe I just try my best to present my opinions in a way that pushes those who care to respond, to respond in a way that does not involve personal attacks...

Don't you talk to people offline? What happens when you are trying to make a general statement, but you make the mistake to use a name, and people automatically start to think you are launching a personal attack against them...

That is why I make statements like "yellow people and blue people"...I want people to focus more on the argument rather than personal stuff...

But at the same time, I am well aware that personal experience can never be discounted, so people can feel/respond as they so chose to...

NEVER mad...

who sent you here?

The internet is not that serious, so to have such feelings that you must continue to rant about this obviously shows you are trying to extract something from the users of this site? Why are you concerned about learning how the people of this site think?
 

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I usually frequent quite a few forums, and this is by far the WORST in terms of "negging" you for a legitimate difference in opinion, sometimes it's not even a conflict of opinion, you simply say something that may inadvertently make someone insecure and they will neg you.

I remember there was a thread about white chicks not liking black guys or something, or black hipster girls not liking black guys. And i said something along the lines of "well, they won't like what they deem as ''typical'' black guys, a model looking hipster black dude probably won't get rejected but a kendrick lamar look-alike will" which is....i mean...fukking true man, i don't know what to tell you, but guess what? negs lol It's the reason why my reputation is in the negative, despite the fact that i have a great post to dap ratio, which means i'm a good fukking poster. but my "rep" is bad? lol okay...

even the misc isn't as bad with their negs...
 
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