Fight fire with fire some would say but I see you don't want to stoop to her level. Put it in God's hands
Why are women so possesive?
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bytch sabotaging me getting a car cause she lowkey feel i would use it to fukk other bytches/she wouldnt know what im doing
bytch sabotaging my jobs (im still in college tho) cause she want me to herself
everytime i try to make a step forward she panics pretends shes supporting me / gets herself involved (fukks up interview dates, ruins business plans and be likeim sorry i gave you the wrong dates.
imaginary fukking insurance company, i just googled their policies and she fukking lied
stalls/ my progress on purpose i realized this yesterday
now im back at square one and everybody's happy
Odd, I know of more cases when it's a male doing that to a female.
Man im super aggravated you dont even believeOdd, I know of more cases when it's a male doing that to a female.
aXiom
Maximized Potential
She comes off as more insecure and obsessive than possessive. A woman being posessive of someone she cherishes is not an inherently bad thing, as long as she has your best interests at heart and is not slowing you down. If she's slowing you down you need to cut her loose.
Those males are bytch nikkas. I don't see how and why nikkaz would try to sabotage a chic who don't want himOdd, I know of more cases when it's a male doing that to a female.
Good advice. You can't change a bytch like that, she would have to change herself but nikkaz don't know the best thing to do is to cut her loose
man you dont even know the half about that mom shyt i needed support thats why i wanted her involved im not irresponsible
but they think i'll be out of control fukking hoes smh
everybody else understands i need a whip cause i got a job plus side hustle and in college i dont even have time to be fukking hoes all crazy
but its like my mom wants me to stay a baby forever and this girl wants me under control its the same i had an ex that was similar
i know i have to work on shyt myself now
but why i am so angry is she ruined a chance with a dope ass car last night after i used the whole ENTIRE WEEK negotiating meeting with the owner paying mechanics i spent $200(travelling back and forth to the owner /paying a mechanic on short notice) this week alone for this shyt for her to lie and say the insurance company has this bullshyt imaginary policy
now im at square one on the outside with NOTHING to my name
nothing
NOTHING
i feel defeated
you takke an entire week of HARD WORK to have the guy on the phone and say
we're not buying the car anymore, got me out there looking foolish cause you want me for yourself
this aint love its some sick possesion shyt fro both of them
tf you have her handling your biz or even being close enough to sabotage you for? And to do it more than once?
Cuz females are crazy. They think that if you blow up you'll leave them.
I've had three different females, at three different times in my life, basically say to me "Oh what you're gonna break up with me now cuz you think you're coming up" lol. When i did nothing to even insinuate that i planned on dumping them. Just me moving forward in life made them feel some type of way.
And tbh friends are the same. nikkas will do their absolute best to hold you down if they can. And if they can't they'll come around and try to leech off of you.
Thats why its important to date a female who has confidence, her own ambitions, and who wants to push you to do something great with your life.
And i hate to say it but females like the one you posted about are the reason a lot of black men don't make any moves. They have these women in their lives who are so desperate to have a man that they'll try to hold him down, while at the same time actually going to work, to bring home money, to take care of him, in hopes that he'll become so complacent he'll never leave. And thats not even love. Its low self esteem and an unhealthy obsession. If you loved someone you would want to push them forward not keep them stagnant.
Das why you gotta watch
who you let close to you and figure out their true intentions
I've had three different females, at three different times in my life, basically say to me "Oh what you're gonna break up with me now cuz you think you're coming up" lol. When i did nothing to even insinuate that i planned on dumping them. Just me moving forward in life made them feel some type of way.
And tbh friends are the same. nikkas will do their absolute best to hold you down if they can. And if they can't they'll come around and try to leech off of you.
Thats why its important to date a female who has confidence, her own ambitions, and who wants to push you to do something great with your life.
And i hate to say it but females like the one you posted about are the reason a lot of black men don't make any moves. They have these women in their lives who are so desperate to have a man that they'll try to hold him down, while at the same time actually going to work, to bring home money, to take care of him, in hopes that he'll become so complacent he'll never leave. And thats not even love. Its low self esteem and an unhealthy obsession. If you loved someone you would want to push them forward not keep them stagnant.
Das why you gotta watch
who you let close to you and figure out their true intentions
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Because possessive behavior is a human trait. And science tells us that all women are human 
breh, I understand it enough to try and petition for studies of the longterm psychological trauma that comes with that bullshytbut I don't want to give convenient excuses to kids that shoot up schools because their moms didn't give them xboxes.
BUT I'm about to say something that's gonna be ugly to hear. It's something you already know but don't want to learn. Paradigm shift shyt.
The problems you have with your mom, you'll ALWAYS have with women.
You'll NEVER solve the problems you have with your mom by trying to fix other women.
You gotta chalk this one up as a loss and change your trajectory, breh.
So you don't run into this same shyt like you been doing.
Again.
And again.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
Cuz possession is 9/10ths of the law....hell iono
man my mom and my girl like this man you dont know how broken i am right now
they gonna tell me some bullshyt likedont worry the right car would come to you
or the right job would come to you, everything happens for a reason type bullshyt
and when i actually go out and do shyt they sabotage me and im at square one
man its ike they want me to give up i wanna get this shyt done by next week so im not gonna give up
but im so fukking frustrated the only thing i feel like doing is forgetting about it
man im stuck im a fukking hard worker but they're killing me
they gonna tell me some bullshyt likedont worry the right car would come to you
or the right job would come to you, everything happens for a reason type bullshyt
and when i actually go out and do shyt they sabotage me and im at square one
man its ike they want me to give up i wanna get this shyt done by next week so im not gonna give up
but im so fukking frustrated the only thing i feel like doing is forgetting about it
man im stuck im a fukking hard worker but they're killing me
Cuz females are crazy. They think that if you blow up you'll leave them.
I've had three different females, at three different times in my life, basically say to me "Oh what you're gonna break up with me now cuz you think you're coming up" lol. When i did nothing to even insinuate that i planned on dumping them. Just me moving forward in life made them feel some type of way.
And tbh friends are the same. nikkas will do their absolute best to hold you down if they can. And if they can't they'll come around and try to leech off of you.
Thats why its important to date a female who has confidence, her own ambitions, and who wants to push you to do something great with your life.
And i hate to say it but females like the one you posted about are the reason a lot of black men don't make any moves. They have these women in their lives who are so desperate to have a man that they'll try to hold him down, while at the same time actually going to work, to bring home money, to take care of him, in hopes that he'll become so complacent he'll never leave. And thats not even love. Its low self esteem and an unhealthy obsession. If you loved someone you would want to push them forward not keep them stagnant.
Das why you gotta watch
smh you're right man
but I don't want to give convenient excuses to kids that shoot up schools because their moms didn't give them xboxes.
I'm about to say something that's gonna be ugly to hear. It's something you already know but don't want to learn. Paradigm shift shyt.
The problems you have with your mom, you'll ALWAYS have with women.
You'll NEVER solve the problems you have with your mom by trying to fix other women.
You gotta chalk this one up as a loss and change your trajectory, breh.
So you don't run into this same shyt like you been doing.
Again.
And again.
this nikkaCuz females are crazy. They think that if you blow up you'll leave them.
I've had three different females, at three different times in my life, basically say to me "Oh what you're gonna break up with me now cuz you think you're coming up" lol. When i did nothing to even insinuate that i planned on dumping them. Just me moving forward in life made them feel some type of way.
And tbh friends are the same. nikkas will do their absolute best to hold you down if they can. And if they can't they'll come around and try to leech off of you.
Thats why its important to date a female who has confidence, her own ambitions, and who wants to push you to do something great with your life.
And i hate to say it but females like the one you posted about are the reason a lot of black men don't make any moves. They have these women in their lives who are so desperate to have a man that they'll try to hold him down, while at the same time actually going to work, to bring home money, to take care of him, in hopes that he'll become so complacent he'll never leave. And thats not even love. Its low self esteem and an unhealthy obsession. If you loved someone you would want to push them forward not keep them stagnant.
Das why you gotta watch
HoustonHeat
In and out
Real advice right here.
Sometimes you have to build your own bridge and cross it out of the dysfunction you were born into.
This means physically removing yourself from their presence for a while.
The girl giving OP some serious sabotage will likely raise her children like OPs mom did, and then the cycle will continue.