WHY ARE WOMEN SO QUICK TO LEAVE?

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Another problem is that couples aren't spending enough time together before they get married. Men need to stop letting women pressure them in to proposing, don't marry until you're damn good and ready. IMO a couple needs ATLEAST 4 years together before they think about marriage and ATLEAST 1 of those years needs to be cohabitating. I know there's exceptions to this, but again, THEY ARE THE EXCEPTION, NOT THE RULE.

c/s to the fullest...i can't tell u the number of women who was trying to pressure me to married them or give them a baby and we haven't even live together and only see each other twice a week cause of my job.

they all left me..one even move some dude she just met within a month into her house and the dude baby mama live right across the street from her
 

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:manny: YOU IS SOOO RIGHT...

women have so many options..they NO LONGER see men as the SECURITY BLANKET they once needed

especially with the EXTORTIVE CHILD SUPPORT LAWS and EQUAL PAY and SUGAR DADDIES and TRICK DUDES...

They don't VALUE marriage anymore
its not even marriage...its relationships.

Everyone thinks they've got more options than they have LEGIT options so they'll just be out there doing anything without trying to work on issues or address problems.

People think the answer is to "find that perfect person" instead of learning when to actually WORK on things.

I'm not saying everyone is right for everyone, but I've seen many a good thing go bad because people failed to honestly give shyt a try.
Everyone listens to these songs thinking they're the shyt or thinks they're really "about that player life" when they really don't have that many quality options out there but they've fooled themselves into thinking they do.

Its sheer delusions of grandeur and people ain't willing to build anymore.
 

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Honestly though if someone leaves you and you're clueless as to why, I have to wonder how invested you were in the relationship to begin with or if you're just easily fooled/oblivious.
 

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Because commitment isn't valued anymore. Commitment requires WORK. Relationships are looked at as 'magical experiences' where you always need to feel free and wonderful and where someone else is to provide you these emotions as opposed to something you need to build in and invest in. Couple that with the extreme thirstiness of American men, women have a large array of options to sort between in her prime. She gets bored? Time to bring in another guy. A lot of women only see how dangerous that mindset is when their looks start fading and they don't have the options they used to. it's just like the player who ignores the good girl over and over chasing hoes, and when he's ready to settle down, he sees she is taken. Relationships are built... they aren't something someone else provides for you.
 

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I dunno....i think the whole 'greed is good', 'its all about you, and nobody else', American culture has encouraged a social selfishness that has expressed itself in many ways. Our divorce rates are one of those expressions. We're not a culture that promotes loyalty, unconditional love, thoughtfulness etc...its all about ego, self gratification, and money.
There is a directly correlation IMO between less religious America and the divorce rate.
Not surprising to me that as America becomes less religiousness the demons fill the void.
 

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Another problem is that couples aren't spending enough time together before they get married. Men need to stop letting women pressure them in to proposing, don't marry until you're damn good and ready. IMO a couple needs ATLEAST 4 years together before they think about marriage and ATLEAST 1 of those years needs to be cohabitating. I know there's exceptions to this, but again, THEY ARE THE EXCEPTION, NOT THE RULE.
oh well you typed my comment for me
 

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From my expirience, it's now the thing to keep a back up even if you're in a "good" relationship, just in case. wtf is that about ?:dahell:

yep many women and men still keep thier exes around as friends or are "talking" to a bunch of people etc., plus its so easy nowadays, to just hop online and find someone new instead of working iut out ah well
 

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People quick to make it seem like women are somehow now out of pocket

when the reality is women(of all races) have endured countless generational abuse

the thing is now, SOME are in a position where they dont have to put up with it and have more opportunities




--- the fukked up thing is White people say the same thing about Black people

like somehow black people are becoming uppity because we dont put up with the abuse
 
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