Why are you Physically Attracted to the "type" that you are??

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It's not like that. I'm not the type of girl to front. I'm not flirting with them...they approach me and are clearly DTF tryin to take me home or get some digits & it's just so pointless cuz I'm not even interested in them and I'm not DTF.

So instead of trying to be nice and try not to directly reject them, I tell them straight up that I'm only into black dudes. Nip that shyt in the bud.
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I don't like to waste my time and I don't want to waste someone else's time when I know the whole interaction is going nowhere.

It always ends up like this:

"You're cool and I appreciate your interest or whatever...but I'm only into black guys. You can add me on fb if you wanna be friends...I dunno." :yeshrug:

:mjlol:

:russ:

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I ain't tryin to cause no drama or get anyone killed.

I'm a lover, not a fighter. :hamster:



That same white guy will go and fire a black employmee your if shoot up a church if hes on edge enuff. Teasing men like that is not cool.

A lot of white men cringe and loose sleep at the thought for a black man sleeping with "their" women. This is the ROOT of much of the racism in this country.
 

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That same white guy will go and fire a black employmee your if shoot up a church if hes on edge enuff. Teasing men like that is not cool.

A lot of white men cringe and loose sleep at the thought for a black man sleeping with "their" women. This is the ROOT of much of the racism in this country.
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I said I'm not teasing them.

I'm friendly with everyone even homeless people, crackheads, whatever. But maybe they think they have a chance cuz I give them the time of day.

But really I'm just being friendly and saying hello.

I'm a very real/honest/direct type of girl so I just tell them straight up what the score is.

I can't help it if they approach me..I mean maybe I could make a shirt that says "BLACK GUYS ONLY" with a big arrow pointin to my p*ssy but that's a bit extreme :whoa:

I'm not tryin to diss them or upset them. I always try to be as polite as possible.

Honesty is the best policy :umad:
 

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I don't share the love for dark skin women, find a few attractive here n there but generally a big no.

As said earlier in the thread might be due to parents and up bringing, my moms light and so are majority women in the fam and the women brought into it

Only bringing this up because it's always been seen as a bad thing with colourism etc, when it's the same situation as most who love dark skin women

:yeshrug:
 

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Its really cool to say that you like all types of people but everyone has their immediate yes and immediate no in their mind. Even if its something weird, its still there.
I live in a country where there are so many different cultures, it would be kinda stupid to deprive myself of that.
 

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I live in a country where there are so many different cultures, it would be kinda stupid to deprive myself of that.
So there's nothing you don't dislike?

:francis:

Also, a life where you can't readily identify what you DO like seems like one with a lot of unnecessary work.

but whatever :yeshrug:
 

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So there's nothing you don't dislike?

:francis:

Also, a life where you can't readily identify what you DO like seems like one with a lot of unnecessary work.

but whatever :yeshrug:
If you're intellectually stimulating, and get my dry humor, its all systems go. there was this one instance where i met a guy, just off the fact that he stimulated me in a way far beyond the physical part, i got droopy eyes for him and only him :mjcry:
 

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If you're intellectually stimulating, and get my dry humor, its all systems go. there was this one instance where i met a guy, just off the fact that he stimulated me in a way far beyond the physical part, i got droopy eyes for him and only him :mjcry:
I'm pretty open to a lot of types myself but :stopitslime::stopitslime:. I don't care how intellectually stimulating an obese person is, there will be nothing happening but a good conversation. From that - I gathered that I must be into people that are in some kinda shape. I took it a bit further, realized that I liked strong-minded and assertive women and that led to me women that love the gym (because honestly its a lot harder for a woman to get in the gym than a guy, plus the whole body image stuff that really deserves a convo in a different thread). Etc

It ain't like people don't deserve to be picky. Like what you like and love that you like it.
 

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What moviates you to persue a certain look or type in the opposite sex?

I'm much pretty against posting random pics of broads but growing up I used to like almost strictly be into like females that looked like Pebbles, Rita G, Mya or Mariah Carey.

I never could figure out WHAT moivated me to this type of female.



Any thoughts on how you developed a certain "type" that you are attracted to?

You serious with this? :dahell:

Act like it's unique to be physically attracted to the same females that every single black male is attracted to brehs.

I liked tall lean men cause that's all I saw growing up.

Again. Act like there's some backstory to being attracted to the same type of man that almost every other female is attracted to brehettes. :russell:
 

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Used to want a light skin girl or white girl because where i lived there was so few of them. Plus that white chick from that so raven and cheta girls had a nikka ready. When I meet a few I was turned off and said fukk white girls. Light skin girls are cute and will always be up there but bomb ass darkskin chick shyts on them 100%. Let that bytch have her real hair too. It over im simping super hard. And my mom and sister are lightskin so I know from get go lightskin hoes was not anything special

But that until a chick open her mouth and talk I don't fully judge them. So any girl who voice is cute make my soul go up, it really don't have to do with it being high or anything but darkskin girls have lovely voices if they cute just know there voice will be great.
 

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I love a true sense of hard work, value in self, intelligence, and long hair. Most women I dated in race, and mixtures, but those factors were constant
 
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