Why are you single?

tater

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as you get older you realize everyone is "great" in the beginning its the honeymoon period
Right. My friend calls it meeting the representative...

Once he leaves and the crazy comes :merchant:

I was dating thus dude, everything was going swell. About a month and a half in he started acting MAD weird. :camby:
 
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Can't really find a girl I'm fully compatible with and I refuse to settle.

Finding a beautiful, smart, funny, ambitious, down to earth, God fearing, introvert that has a lot of personality, etc. who can cook and is loyal isn't exactly easy. Especially in South Florida where you can literally get your bills paid by just being pretty, there's really no incentive to strive to be any of that other shyt.

Usually meet about two REALLY dope girls per year, but it just hasn't worked out. It usually lasts a few months and fizzles out for a multitude of reasons.
 

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Right. My friend calls it meeting the representative...

Once he leaves and the crazy comes :merchant:

I was dating thus dude, everything was going swell. About a month and a half in he started acting MAD weird. :camby:

never knew you were a female

but yeah
In general for both genders the person who wer"loving" and "caring", sweet and all that other goody goody wow can't believe they are single only existed while they were courting you, when you were new and interesting and it disappears when the thrill, and the newness of it all wore off. it isn't genuine. Who they really are to the core isn't nice and sweet, caring, loving. It's just an act to entice and secure you, once that wears off, their true self shows.

I'm the same on day 1 and day 365 or day 1,000 if it goes that long, wish more people were like that
 

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I'm not financially secure and not meeting enough women. At this stage of my life I need to have my guap up to feel comfortable in a relationship:yeshrug:

Having to penny pinch in a relationship is OK for a young blood but as an older guy (30) I can't do it, I'd rather sit the market out for now:mjcry:
I'm in the same position as you, breh. The struggle is real out here :mjcry:
 
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I don't know, but I'm working on it.

It's cuffing season, and I want someone to cuddle on the couch with as we eat Rocky Road ice cream straight from the carton and marathon Pretty Little Liars on Netflix. :noah:

Sometimes I feel like Drake's songs are being told through my perspective. :wow:
 

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I'm too much of an introvert deep down. I would love to be in a relationship but don't put the effort in to pursue one. That plus the way most women these days are programmed to be attention seekers and desire a man that can give them the world, I'm not rich enough to provide that. Sometimes I can't decide whether I want someone, or to be by myself.
never knew there were others
 

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One of my problems is that I don't know where to meet women. I don't really go anywhere but work and school. All of my classes are nothing but dudes, and I would never approach any of the females I work with (even though I want to talk to one, but I think she might be a bed wench. :mjcry: Plus I don't want to get in trouble with HR if she's not into me. :merchant:)
 

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Introverted and a bit of a homebody so I don't meet or immediately click with many people. I don't mind that either.
Plus, the older I get the more I prefer not having to answer to anyone about anything.

I'm happy so why fix what ain't broke :manny:



repped for the Avi and the name:ehh:
 

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I'm single because I'm trying to finish school to get my certs. Then, when I move I will smash a bunch of chicks. After I have fun doing dirty, then I will find a nice girl and settle down.
 
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