Why are you so quiet?

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You need a holiday bruh. Get out of you're comfort zone, go on a weekend break with people you don't normally speak to. Do something different, sign up for a race, or join a debate club or something and speak to people you wouldn't normally speak to.

Being anti social is part of who we are but we can learn to turn it on for certain situations like work or family occasions, you just got to practice by speaking to new people and getting involved in different things every now and again. It keeps us alive... and when your busy doing things it stops you from being alone and over thinking everything which is detrimental for us introverts.

Yeah. I definitely need to get away from work. New people would put a new perspective on life. Alleviate the pressure of what I already know.

I definitely need freedom and to do my own thing for awhile. I can't even say I'm really introverted. I do have both sides in my persona. But they need to be sorted out and balanced.
 

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I actually like small talk. Usually I feed of the energy of talking to a bunch of people. I don't feel like I'm in a position to do it right now.
 

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I was one of those kids who were quiet in school but outspoken at home. I'm still the same way now pretty much.

My 8th grade teacher gave me a compliment in class one day. She said, "He doesn't say much in class but when he does its always something wise or great"

I just live by the code, "if you don't have something good to say, then don't say anything at all:manny:
 

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Just tell 'em you're deeply pondering fukking them right in the p*ssy.

Works like a charm.

Edit: If it's a dude tell him stop being a fakkit & asking bytch Q's.
 

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Im not the most talkative person but I try to find at least one thing to talk about with people at work; be it sports, wrestling, video games, current events or my interests at the time.

But WHYYY though? :mindblown:
Why do people like you just have to talk about something?
I've seen/heard people literally pass up a seat or cubicle because there was "no one sitting in the seats next to them for them to talk to", and when I hear that I'm always like :mindblown: .
My goal is to do exactly that, find a seat where nobody can sit close enough to bug/talk/bore me to death. What is so hard about just sitting there working and being left to your own devices/thoughts?

And at this point I'm just rainting, just venting..I know it's personalities and such, that drive these things..and I know that one way isn't right while another may be wrong...but people like that always still have me like :dahell:
 

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That's the first thing that goes through my head when they say that shyt. And it's always a thirsty brawd.
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ALWAYS :ohlawd: !!

Sometimes it just be nosy ass no life having women though, wanting to be in your business to have something to talk about and spread around work.

And they be like, "are you always so quiet". If they only knew that I'm not "quiet" by a long shot, I just have nothing to say to THEM.
 

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But WHYYY though? :mindblown:
Why do people like you just have to talk about something?
I've seen/heard people literally pass up a seat or cubicle because there was "no one sitting in the seats next to them for them to talk to", and when I hear that I'm always like :mindblown: .
My goal is to do exactly that, find a seat where nobody can sit close enough to bug/talk/bore me to death. What is so hard about just sitting there working and being left to your own devices/thoughts?

And at this point I'm just rainting, just venting..I know it's personalities and such, that drive these things..and I know that one way isn't right while another may be wrong...but people like that always still have me like :dahell:

Oh believe me I have a hard time communicating with my co workers (Im that quiet guy) but because I can small talk with some of my coworkers it just makes the night a little easier.

I spend my first two hour shift in the back room loading up U-Boats for the part timers to spot the product, after that I get a 15 minute break to just shoot the shyt, and after that the next couple hours are me getting back to work until the next break to shoot more shyt since I spend my lunch in the break room eating my Campbell's soup.

TBH I dont know how I got a full time position, I never take initiative and didn't even want to apply (I was happy working 3-4 days week and partying) until my manager said he would set me up with an interview if I didn't tell anyone plus I never get in trouble for coming into work 3 hours late or not even showing up at all. I just have this thing I dont have to say shyt and people will find a way to try and talk to me.

Oh and these help too...
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That's the first thing that goes through my head when they say that shyt. And it's always a thirsty brawd.
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I've been asked this question all my life, many times by fine chicks, my answer is always :manny:


When I do make an effort to talk people ain't tryna hear what I'm saying anyway so :pacspit:

Yeah attractive chicks ask you why are you so quiet, and it's only attractive chicks. (The ugly ones are used to being ignored anyway) they're used to be talked to and greeted by everyone but when I'm there chilling by myself not even looking at her they get upset.
 

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People would do that shyt all the time. The shyt that pisses me off is when they try to get me to "act" a certain way. It's not like I just sit in the corner all silent like a damn hermit; it's like they feel I don't talk "enough" (although I dont' even fukk with they ass like that, so IDK why-you know what, let me not even start)....
 
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