Why Aren't Black People More Curious?

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A little goes a long way, I think. By that, I mean, I'm thinking about the childhood experience of many black American kids, or least the ones I knew coming up. It was subtley imbued with the notion that curiosity was problematic or, at the very least, inconvenient.

That included getting a speech like "don't look at shyt, don't ask for shyt" whenever we went into the store with an adult as a kid, getting told it was disrespectful to even ask a question or express an emotion or thought contrary to that of the adult taking care of us, or just being told someone else knows better for you than you do for your own damn self.

Thus, the foundation is laid early. All children are naturally curious, I believe, but if you grow up in an environment where your curiosity is an inconvenience for adults, like your inquisitions are deemed insubordination, it is easy to suppress that natural need to explore and question.

If you are unfortunate enough to go through life never having something to break you from that programming, then you may run it for the rest of your life and, worse yet, reproduce and indoctrinate your kids into the same ways.

Just my two cents.

All of this is true.

I meet so many young, Black professionals who aren't curious about anything. For them, life is work, happy hour, lounge, church and brunch. Rinse and repeat every week.

COVID lockdown was killing them because they didn't have any real hobbies or interests beyond those routine things.

Even with things slowly opening up, they are still not happy. Places are half empty, so they cannot be seen the way they want to. Or, they cannot take the obligatory morning work outfit pic to get the daps/likes they need to fuel their day. It’s a pretty sad existence.
 
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Because asking certain questions is simply illegal in our community

we're too emotional to have proper discord most of the time

sad truth

Yep. I be getting brehs in they feelings because I listen to other types of music! Something's wrong when you've reached that point.

It comes down to priorities though, not sure about other brehs, but my goal is to be the best engineer I can be and to be as fit as I can while I'm still here.

The rest will sort itsself out. :obama:
 
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