Why aren't good looks correlated with self-esteem?

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I've been asking myself lately, in the world we live in today, if you were a below average woman in the looks department. would you expect to have any self esteem?


We're so superficial these days, If I was a woman without good looks, I would probably feel worthless (no offense, just saying feel). Obviously not true.

But the baddest chicks I've pulled had the lowest self esteem. The women who were average tended to be more happy with themselves, their lives & circle.

Why?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

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[KingFreeman]

Like someone said on that #WasteHisTime2016 Thread, just as there are men who seek nonstop validation from their boys, there are many women attractive or not who have the self-esteem of a peanut

 

[VFib]

Original title: why aren't good looks correlated with self esteem?


Maybe these women had experiences that caused them to have lower self esteem? Trauma, rape, molestation from family members who found them "so pretty"?

Also upbringing. There are parents who say the cruelest things to their children and others who lift them up. Then you have members of the opposite sex who feel the need to 'drop them down a notch' as a way to control them.

They are many reasons and experiences that can contribute to a person'a level of self esteem. Many of these start in childhood and carry over into adulthood.

Eta: typos

 

[Raava]

People have issues some that have been cultivated since childhood.

 

[M'gann]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-arent-good-looks-correlated-with-self-esteem.389324/

 

[M'gann]

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[VFib]

Dammit, I should have known. Malc!!!!!!

 

[M'gann]

Dammit, I should have known. Malc!!!!!!

This is what he does to pass time at work, but nonetheless I agree with your points.

 

[VFib]

This is what he does to pass time at work, but nonetheless I agree with your points.

I was thinking to myself, Wow this is different for Malc

 

[M'gann]

I was thinking to myself, Wow this is different for Malc

The clue is when he posts more than a sentence.

I pasted the text into google and it brought me to the original thread.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I was thinking to myself, Wow this is different for Malc

U should know by now that I don't type more than 6 words


But back to the topic

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-arent-good-looks-correlated-with-self-esteem.389324/

It was something different so I had to borrow

 

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[Malcolmxxx_23]

People have issues some that have been cultivated since childhood.

Expand on that baby girl