Why can't more women just be honest with men?

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I lowkey wanna distance myself from this girl now...shyt is just mad foul to me. I held her in much higher regard than this :snoop:


You answered your own question with this.

That's why more women can't just be honest with men...they still want you to hold them in high regard (no matter how they act)
and they like attention (even if they don't necessarily like who they're getting it from). If they were more honest, more people
might distance themselves from them.
 

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I just find it humorous that people are acting like this is a women only thing :pachaha: flaking, playing games, lying, and not being honest is a human thing. A lot of people naturally aren't upfront about things that will make them uncomfortable or be seen in a bad light. How many times are we going to talk about this? Just because you were on the receiving end doesn't make your gender the only victim. Trust me it's enough to go around.
 
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People of integrity should say what they feel and not leave things up for guessing games and interpretation.
It's the adult thing to do.

Anything else is cowardly.

Yeah in a perfect world. In the world we live in today most people are shyt and it is your responsibility to look out for self. Tons of men feign interest in a woman in order to obtain sex. But somehow someone saying they have other plans repeatedly is wrong and cowardly? Learn to take a hint. There are a million ways to say "I'm not interested" no one is obligated to give you your preferred method. In this situation, the lack of interest is clear. He set himself up.
 

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Yeah in a perfect world. In the world we live in today most people are shyt and it is your responsibility to look out for self. Tons of men feign interest in a woman in order to obtain sex. But somehow someone saying they have other plans repeatedly is wrong and cowardly? Learn to take a hint. There are a million ways to say "I'm not interested" no one is obligated to give you your preferred method. In this situation, the lack of interest is clear. He set himself up.
The problem is that you can't just assume every man is out for sex ONLY. And if you're entertaining him, on some level you want sex too.

Hints are fine in some situations.
But when it comes to ending a relationship, there can be no ambiguity.

Explain how telling half truths, lying and ignoring a person is NOT cowardly.
The same women who talk all that good shyt about how they aren't afraid to speak their minds are the ones who can't tell a man that they don't want to pursue anything with him.

It's easy to express yourself when you're angry or upset or don't give a shyt. That type of honesty requires nothing.
But when it comes to rejecting someone who (typically) just isn't a right fit or whatever...then honesty takes a backseat to hints.

And you somehow act like this is doing someone a favor. Or that it's just "all in the game, yo"

I don't agree. But alright. It's all in the game then. I'll take your word if that's how you feel.
Just know that the game goes both ways the next time some Facebook message, Instagram post, or bitter venting girlfriend 4 glasses deep into a Chardonnay shows up at your door.

All in the game, yo.

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Why has no one touched on the fact that this woman admitted she misses his attention? Why would she miss his attention? If someone could answer this I'd be appreciative.


:jbhmm:

Most women need that cosign
 

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I just find it humorous that people are acting like this is a women only thing :pachaha: flaking, playing games, lying, and not being honest is a human thing. A lot of people naturally aren't upfront about things that will make them uncomfortable or be seen in a bad light. How many times are we going to talk about this? Just because you were on the receiving end doesn't make your gender the only victim. Trust me it's enough to go around.
It's always described by these guys as a 'woman thing'.

Because men never plays games and lie. Such bullshyt.


Never mind that they will have threads about the worse way they treated fat women, the worse thing they did to a woman, how to act lthe thug that you aren't just to get women to like you, or even how they will make a woman think they want more than just a FWB. They dap and rep each other in those threads.

But let women say 'I'm busy' instead of 'I'm not interested'. Then women are evil, liars, etc.

You can't take some of these guys seriously here.
 

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Today this girl I'm cool with was telling me about how she kept curving this guy. This dude just wanted to hang out, he didn't even ask for a formal date or anything major. She always came up with bullshyt lies and excuses about how she was busy. But she told me she just wasn't fukking with him like that. She was doing this for a month :martin:

Anyways, this nikka asked to hang out this weekend and she lied dead to his face and said she was working. One of her homegirls was there and just flat out told him she was full of shyt and lying. This same chick who was curving ole dude for a month is talking bout she lowkey sad now cuz that nikka won't talk to her anymore.

I was like wtf shorty. You been playing games with this nikka tf do you expect? :mindblown:

She strung this nikka along and pretty much used him to continuously boost her ego while lying to him. The pure pettiness is just :wow:

I semi-know ole dude and he seems like a fairly nice person too. I lowkey wanna distance myself from this girl now...shyt is just mad foul to me. I held her in much higher regard than this :snoop:

You could just tell that nikka the truth instead of wasting his time. This is the kind of shyt that turns nikkas into savages :francis:
:mjlol:
 

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What's this roster you speak of?:birdman:
 

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The reality is that most females are full of shyt. The attention becomes an ego boost so they string the poor brehs around just to entertain their boredom. :francis:
(I am also guilty of this in the past)

HOWEVER, some nikkas just cant take a damn hint. I can tell a nikka 1000 times I dont fukk with them but they stick around off some Urkle shyt. :snoop:..
 
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