Why do all brehs want to be a bad boy?

[PhonZhi]

Because its what's glamourized the most in the media that's consumed.

The key to attaining certain things ( big houses, fancy cars, expensive jewelry, women, etc) is linked to living a certain type of lifestyle and having a certain type of personality

 

[#1 pick]

What does being a "bad" boy entail?

Giving chicks a part of their love and ONLY a part.
Having rosters where you doing em all dirty and constantly replacing everyone but the main.
Having a rep with women for the trifling life.

Nowadays, thots will call you a fukkboi.

 

[Matt504]

 

[Poitier]

Western women look at physical attributes first instead of intangible ones

 

[Elle Driver]

Absolutely. I'm a one woman man right now, doing the whole family thing and this is the happiest I've ever been. But the alternative is More feasible. Not everyone will be so lucky to find a great girl who wants to build with you. It's easier to juggle women and work on yourself.

And the day you learn that balance, those limits, and just how to move while keeping a bunch of women. There's honestly not a better feeling/mode in the world, outside of being a family man with a great girl.

I wouldn't even call it a bad boy lifestyle. It's more of a bachelor's lifestyle. Casual Sex, casual conversation, little to no stress if you know how to manage circumstance and situations.

It's easy cake.

Which would you say is most fulfilling?

 

[King Poetic]

because nikkas can't think for themselves that's why and black people the most is so caught up on the fast /quick life to TV, radio or press images and stories they hear so they follow suit...

tell a nikka to go to school for years and become a business owner, lawyer, IT professional, etc, isn't appealing in the short term for negros... so it's drug dealing to get a chrysler 300 with 22 inch rims, be a local club star and have the fakest weaving wearing ho on your shoulder.... then years down the line and i see them at the gas stations in inglewood and compton and whole south L.A. saying KING man that's a nice car I USED TO HAVE THAT and the weave wearing chicks rollin the stroller down the street looking all flabby and sick

 

[iBrowse]

@Holy Berry

 

[onelastdeath]

Which would you say is most fulfilling?

The former.

I love seeing my family everyday. Waking up to one woman. The little things. The moments of silence and intimacy aren't as taken for granted because there aren't as many of them. But that makes you appreciate them more. I love watching her be a mother. Watching her play with him. Walking in the park with them. Being a father and a family man has brought out new shades of my character and personality as well. I didn't think I could love anything more than I love her, but I love the idea and reality of having a family more than I love her, which makes me love her even more. I love the look on her face when she's panicked about forgetting something, only for me to inform her that I've already taken care of it. I love how she picks up where I lack as well. I love the subtle femininity that exists within my apartment right now. It's just enough without being overbearing. She's left her mark on my place without taking it over, and I love that. I love when I come home, and she tells me something new that my son did that day, then I hate myself for missing it, only for her to remind me that there'll be plenty more "firsts". I just love being a dad. Being a partner. These are all things you can't get with the bachelor lifestyle. It's definitely more fulfilling .

 

[#1 pick]

The former.

I love seeing my family everyday. Waking up to one woman. The little things. The moments of silence and intimacy aren't as taken for granted because there aren't as many of them. But that makes you appreciate them more. I love watching her be a mother. Watching her play with him. Walking in the park with them. Being a father and a family man has brought out new shades of my character and personality as well. I didn't think I could love anything more than I love her, but I love the idea and reality of having a family more than I love her, which makes me love her even more. I love the look on her face when she's panicked about forgetting something, only for me to inform her that I've already taken care of it. I love how she picks up where I lack as well. I love the subtle femininity that exists within my apartment right now. It's just enough without being overbearing. She's left her mark on my place without taking it over, and I love that. I love when I come home, and she tells me something new that my son did that day, then I hate myself for missing it, only for her to remind me that there'll be plenty more "firsts". I just love being a dad. Being a partner. These are all things you can't get with the bachelor lifestyle. It's definitely more fulfilling .

This is beautiful

 

[Aceofspades404]

@Holy Berry

I was just about to reply to this thread

 

[010101]

should be too busy fukking to philosophy over p*ssy*

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I love being a bad boy...

I don't pay taxes, my credit fukked up, and I don't go to Jury duty.

Some of yall ain't bout this life.

 

[#1 pick]

I love being a bad boy...

I don't pay taxes, my credit fukked up, and I don't go to Jury duty.

Some of yall ain't bout this life.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

 

[Neuromancer]

Because we're told that's what's attractive.