no da fukk you don't.
You just have to find the right one.
The real women that I consider good women... are the ones that don't do tit for tat.. or seek revenge.. or just break up w a dude if she unhappy.
It's not about tit for tat or revenge...
It's about being what you demand from a partner...
If you demand that your partner is in shape, well guess what... You better be hitting the gym too
If you demand a partner to be educated, then you should have degrees as well
You should bring to the table everything you require in another