why do black females struggle with"loyalty"???

[MikelArteta]

Not really, most men won't marry the hottest, or richest women they can get. Men look for characteristics they want in a wife and a mother to their child.

Women go after the guy with the most money, guy who looks the best for the most part until they settle

cuz heaux gonna heau

we the same tho.... and men tell lies/women tell lies, but we always have our eyes on the better prize.....its human nature.

 

[Lord Beasley]

Not really, most men won't marry the hottest, or richest women they can get. Men look for characteristics they want in a wife and a mother to their child.

Women go after the guy with the most money, guy who looks the best for the most part until they settle

and niccas still cheat on that person too.... its all relative.

I will say that women get bored quicker than us tho.

 

[Colicat]

Yes you can , you just don't know it.

I hope you don't run into a great guy, who successful and looks nice who treats you nice. You don't have an man that has many options then ur settling.

you will be so caught up that you may not notice his occasional taste testing. Because throughout all that, he still may treat you like a queen. You can tell if a dude puts you first before anything.

Sooo... I should just put up with cheating ... ...

Nawl, just to say I have a man?.... I'm good the next woman can have him

 

[Diondon]

Each gender has issues with loyalty for different reasons of course

 

[Diondon]

and niccas still cheat on that person too.... its all relative.

I will say that women get bored quicker than us tho.

Yeah SOME women get addicted to that whirlwind feelings and butterflies in the tummy a new relationship brings
The problem is most long term relationships get monotonous, routine and complacent

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Stimulus package inserted

 

[Blackking]

Sooo... I should just put up with cheating ... ...

Nawl, just to say I have a man?.... I'm good the next woman can have him

The bible says to forgive right?

and if the man loves you then you should have him and be happy.

you're stubborn i see... if this wasn't online, i could show u ways to ensure a mans faithfulness.

 

[LA Fisher]

A black woman stabbed MLK but you're wondering why they can't be loyal in relationships?

 

[Colicat]

The bible says to forgive right?

and if the man loves you then you should have him and be happy.

you're stubborn i see... if this wasn't online, i could show u ways to ensure a mans faithfulness.

Forgiveness doesn't mean togetherness...
A woman can do everything a man requires and desires and he will still cheat...
There is no way to ensure

 

[Killer Instinct]

Not deflecting from the topic, but I believe the truth is human beings aren't "loyal."
Disregarding the concept man has established as "morality," most human beings will engage and seek to engage in activities that bring them pleasure.
Some of you don't believe it, but if your ex was sexually appealing to your best friend, if there's a chance you wouldn't find out about the encounter, there's a significant chance your boy would sleep with her if it came his way.
Situation reversed, there's a great chance some of you reading this thread would do the same if your boys ex attended your college and lived in the next building over.
If you didn't, you certainly thought about it.
I've been there. Best friends ex wanted to come over and was hinting to us sleeping together throughout the summer.
He lives in Tuscaloosa now. Would have never known if I had decided to break her back.
Humans love with instant gratification. We do things that make us happy. We're selfish.
Even those who remain loyal to their close friends and significant others, and push that temptation to the back of their minds have moments of weakness.
The strength lies in not succumbing.
Loyalty is simply valuing the feelings and trust of your s/o/friend more so than you value your lust for pleasure, superiority, and personal gratification.
That's asking a lot of most humans because contrary what a lot of people want to believe, if we're going by the man made concept of morality and right & wrong, human beings are shytty creatures.
In that regard, I definitely define loyalty as a masculine trait. It take a lot to defer your personal desire for pleasure & superiority for the benefit of another.
It's harsh and maybe even Machiavellian, but I don't expect women I deal with to have unyielding loyalty.
The same way I don't expect my best friend to have turned down my ex if she threw the p*ssy his way. I would hope they do.
If I establish a strong enough bond that I refer to you as my friend or mate, I put a lot more stock into you than the other 99% of people I interact with.
In turn, I do my best to remain loyal and hope that it's reciprocated, but I don't expect it because it's not in our nature to do so.
We are always looking for that "lick" to come up on whether we acknowledge it or not.

 

[Remote]

Some of y'all truly believe that women are out to get you as if everything is a competition or a game.

No.
But since women don't know what they want, they're constantly looking for something they perceive to be better.
Learn who you are and what you want.

Because this gif is essentially the male/female dynamic.

@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[tater]

This thread and the comments above are a reflection of the TYPE of women that you guys chase and is NOT a reflection on ALL women.

This is so true. If you keep messing with whores, why would you expect loyalty?

It's comical really...

 

[Ashley Banks]

Men say that women aren't loyal because they're always the ones jumping out of relationships and initiating divorce.
Women say that the only reason they initiate leaving is because men cheat or treat them wrong.

'round and 'round we go, jack.

It's true.

 

[Blackking]

Forgiveness doesn't mean togetherness...
A woman can do everything a man requires and desires and he will still cheat...
There is no way to ensure

listen queen...

assuming your p*ssy is relatively tight and gets wet pretty quickly..


You can make any dude who isn't completely aint shyt - be faithful and loyal.. and take care of you.

be domestic... even while you have a job. encourage him to be the best him and hype him up. become a super freak. Fall back on serious argument and find other ways to get ur point across. give him madd nuts per week. Do things to make him wanna save u or play a position as the man. MAke sure you found one that sexually satisfies you.. because that will encourage you to be your best. EAt healthy.

and bam there u go

 

[CinnaSlim]

Really...
This whole youngest gen has a problem with loyalty.

We dont have love songs on the radio. It's all about sex, jumpoffs, and mistresses.
Majority of us come from broken or blended families, so we have fewer examples of lasting relationships.

Besides even when you're loyal, doesn't mean you're gonna be appreciated.

This is the YOLO generation, everyone is selfish and only thinking about their pleasure and problems. They want fast, easy results without dedicated work.