why do black females struggle with"loyalty"???
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
All good advice but a man who isnt ready to commit won't. A man who wants to cheat will.
A lot of people make promises and when things don't go as they expected they bail.
KyokushinKarateMan
Train hard, fight easy
I know exactly what you mean
Except in my case, my "loyalty" struggles with females these days are in regards to how quick they are to speak ill on the relationship and sometimes even the man himself.
They don't seem to realize that posting subliminal pictures on social media anytime there's drama in the relationship gives insight into the relationship to an entire audience of people who have absolutely nothing to do with the relationship. Yet now, thanks to her posts, they know exactly what's going on in the relationship. You be coming across cats who follow her on the gram and they're looking at you like
over the latest pic she's posted, and you don't even know these niccas nor realize that they "know" you. It's shameful and extremely disloyal to the sanctity of the relationship. - disloyalty move #1These pictures that these females post also allude to whatever it is the guy allegedly did wrong, forming an ill minded perception in the collective mind of her social media audience regarding said man. No loyalty to his character and image whatsoever - extreme disloyalty move #2
And along the same vein as that, it's just as equally disloyal when a female also does this in person, say when she's amongst her "friends" etc. Talking bad about your partner to anyone outside of the relationship shows an extreme misunderstanding of what it means to be as ONE, to be a unit, as a relationship should be.
It shows a gross lack of understanding that when you are in a union with someone, that 'someone' becomes a reflection of YOU, whether you like it or not.
Talking about them only makes a person take a long look at you
..like 'damn girl you're stupid for being with him if he's that bad'.. and probably wondering if you talk about them like that as well when they're not around, seeing as how you're so willing to talk so bad about your significant other - disloyalty move #3These chicks ain't loyal.
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women don't keep it up... most of the time
and men are like children if they start to feel frustrated..... can't handle that shyt as well or as long as women can
Not really, most men won't marry the hottest, or richest women they can get. Men look for characteristics they want in a wife and a mother to their child.
Women go after the guy with the most money, guy who looks the best for the most part until they settle
Men hold much more disposable income than women do even today,... you think if more rich older women saw young twenty something men ,the way older men see young twenty something women, there wouldn't be men gold digging and being kept men far more than happens right now? Outside of hollyweird with older female actress's who want eye candy on their arm for award ceremonies , I almost never hear of it.
Same goes for extremely attractive women, men would if the thought they had the slightest chance...
Men are just as shallow as women, it's just the majority of men are unable to be as shallow and they have to settle for what they can get.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
That's where communication is important.
Men need to speak on how they feel and women need to stop thinking a man should know or read their minds.
You gotta speak on what's bothering you and put the problem out there, even if its gonna cause hurt feelings because that's the only way to solve it.
at that title change.
DIMES
Retired troll
Cuz most are hoes. With daddy issues
Well that escalated quickly...
And all the while I am doing this, he breaking keisha off a piece of that dikk dack bar....
These dudes ain't loyal....
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Women always have an eye out for something better. It's how they're programmed. Kind of like how men just gotta look when some tight yoga pants booty walks by
