why do black females struggle with"loyalty"???

[Maddmike]

Cause they was with nikkas that cheat?

I don't care if I was with the baddest bytch in the world. I'm going to still want to fukk other chicks

 

[Colicat]

he was a slacker yet you gave it up to him and spent 5 years of your life on him built him up yet in the end

now i know why you so upset

like a man buying a old rusted car for 100 bucks, fixing it up, installing new car parts, new paint job runnin good as new, then he gets stopped for a ticket the vin number is ran and teh car is stolen and some illegal immigrant says thanks and takes over

I believed in him... Young and dumb... You live and you learn....

I was looking at it as building together... But my mistake...

I won't make it again... You live and you learn not to trust these dudes cuz they ain't loyal

 

[MikelArteta]

I believed in him... Young and dumb... You live and you learn....

I was looking at it as building together... But my mistake...

I won't make it again... You live and you learn not to trust these dudes cuz they ain't loyal

i was just pulling your leg ive been there

 

[Remote]

You must be a woman because that is all you do... See your Thot comment... Which you have called me 3 times




You are asking the right one... Thank you for asking... I was with someone for 5 years... He lived with his mother for 4 of them.... Worked retail the 1st 2 then was fired... He was unemployed for a time then became a delivery truck driver... He was going to a community college but dropped out...(I would write papers for his behind too).... All the while I graduated with my bachelors and attained a career and masters (had my own crib the entire time)....

The 5th year he saved up enough money as a delivery guy to get his own spot... He ended up knocking some illegal immigrant up and moving her into his crib...
.... These dudes ain't loyal...

Haven't let a dude get that close again... I know what it's like to hold a dude down and get stomped on in the process... So yeah I initiated the separation... But that was after our bond was irrevocably broken

You tried.

Did you get a sense he wasn't worth your effort before you left him?
What do you think led him to cheat?

 

[Colicat]

You tried.

Did you get a sense he wasn't worth your effort before you left him?
What do you think led him to cheat?

I did.... But I thought things were rocky because he was unstable in his career life... There were plenty of signs that I wrote off as him being unstable financially and I should just hold on because things would get better once he was secure for himself....

Your second question I can't answer objectively.... I still question that sometimes to this day when I reflect upon things...
Maybe he really didn't love and care for me... Maybe I wasn't a good enough woman to him.... Maybe the illegal chick was everything he desired and I wasn't... Maybe he was just stupid... Maybe he was feeling himself and his freedom... Maybe it's a combination of them all...

I don't have the answer....

 

[Yup]

Loyalty, honesty are male traits.

 

[Yup]

She knows. Just this past sunday she was at my house. She was gonna get something from my car and asked for the key. I told her to also get my wallet out the hidden compartment under the steering wheel. I totally forgot i had condoms in there (she and I dont use condoms)

She comes back and goes
Her: Here!. And why do you have condoms in your car?
Me: : oh.. i dont know

And she just dropped the subject like it aint nothing.

Why are you with her?

 

[Yup]

Not every women deserves to get wife's

Friend

Then not every man is deserving of loyalty.

 

[CinnaSlim]

That wasn't good advice at all.

I was on my way to work when I posted in here. I just looked back and I think I quoted the wrong person lol. Im still at work so idk.

 

[aaaaaaa]

Have you ever fallen out of love with someone?
What happened?

Because I'm getting this overwhelming sense from the female replies here that every time she has broken up with a man in her past, it's because of some shyt the guy did.
And there's something highly suspicious of the blame constantly being on the men.

Women are never wrong breh

Get with the program

 

[Yup]

The bible says to forgive right?

and if the man loves you then you should have him and be happy.

you're stubborn i see... if this wasn't online, i could show u ways to ensure a mans faithfulness.

So only eomen must forgive? If she cheats can't man forgive as well l?

 

[Elle Driver]

I was on my way to work when I posted in here. I just looked back and I think I quoted the wrong person lol. Im still at work so idk.

Yeah, I was gon say, @Blackking sound like he justifying cheating. Perhaps a guilty conscience.

 

[Youseenmywork]

So only eomen must forgive? If she cheats can't man forgive as well l?

Yeah...ill forgive you( depeding on how I feel) and accept you back but you get demoted back down to hoe stauts (which everyman has even if he dont say it) were you no longer have a say so ...most women work hard to have a say so in a relationship.

 

[Youseenmywork]

So only eomen must forgive? If she cheats can't man forgive as well l?

Im make a how to keep a man thread tomorrow ...im currently working on it as we speak. For what its worth I just want women to know the truth about us men ...without it being called ...MISOGYNY

 

[Danny Up]

Black bytches is loyal to all the wrong nikkas. But all in all, your only loyalty should be to yourself, that's it.