why do black females struggle with"loyalty"???

[Yup]

Women will be loyal when their needs are meet by those men she inquiring about, unfortunately black women have a greater set of needs than races of other women have. Simply put, they expect more in return.

Keep in mind majority of us come from poverty, we see poverty, sex a bit different than other races.

I think more is relative. I think black women expect less than women of other races cause the starting point of expectations are low.
However it seems more in retrospect due to black men are able to give. Black people are not at the same level emotionally, economically, so more is very relative.
Many things that ive seen black women want from black men are standard in asian/white communities.
So you might need to expand on what you mean by that.

 

[Scott Larock]

What are thesr greater set of needs that black women require that other races don't.

The needs are on pay with whites and other races it'd just the expectations are greater, like I said you're comparing women who are used to struggling to women who are not used to struggling. You need to take that into consideration when reading what you quoted. It's going to be a vast difference between the two.

I think more is relative. I think black women expect less than women of other races cause the starting point of expectations are low.
However it seems more in retrospect due to black men are able to give. Black people are not at the same level emotionally, economically, so more is very relative.
Many things that ive seen black women want from black men are standard in asian/white communities.
So you might need to expand on what you mean by that.

First of all its a difference between fukking and marriage, when you consider marriage that's gonna take much more than what it usually takes to maintain a relationship ruination or simply dating someone. You have to ask yourself why are so many black people single and not married, realize women control the dating scene and figure out why middle class and RI h black men usually marry out.

You can say their c00ns but I think it's a little deeper than that, I think many feel black women expect too much and are too needy, keep in mind when today black men are the lowest income earners of all men, also that our culture was basically destroyed and we function in a system called white supremacy.

I think black women expect much more, I think the majority would leave a man quo key when his money run low, or if his sex game is weak, simply out black women have a shorter lease when they become unhappy, I think otherwise races may be a bit more understanding and be these to assist a man when times fall hard.

I don't fault sisters, I think the thought process was dug into your brain by the olderggeneration of bitter black women who had to carry the load, the education action rates state that, black women leading the way in college enrollment dating out at record numbers, bashing black. Men at the drop of a dime, I think the major factor is fear and the thought of underachieving is more than enough to cause most black women to drop a man on a dime.

 

[Yup]

The needs are on pay with whites and other races it'd just the expectations are greater, like I said you're comparing women who are used to struggling to women who are not used to struggling. You need to take that into consideration when reading what you quoted. It's going to be a vast difference between the two.



First of all its a difference between fukking and marriage, when you consider marriage that's gonna take much more than what it usually takes to maintain a relationship ruination or simply dating someone. You have to ask yourself why are so many black people single and not married, realize women control the dating scene and figure out why middle class and RI h black men usually marry out.

You can say their c00ns but I think it's a little deeper than that, I think many feel black women expect too much and are too needy, keep in mind when today black men are the lowest income earners of all men, also that our culture was basically destroyed and we function in a system called white supremacy.

I think black women expect much more, I think the majority would leave a man quo key when his money run low, or if his sex game is weak, simply out black women have a shorter lease when they become unhappy, I think otherwise races may be a bit more understanding and be these to assist a man when times fall hard.

I don't fault sisters, I think the thought process was dug into your brain by the olderggeneration of bitter black women who had to carry the load, the education action rates state that, black women leading the way in college enrollment dating out at record numbers, bashing black. Men at the drop of a dime, I think the major factor is fear and the thought of underachieving is more than enough to cause most black women to drop a man on a dime.

Ill be back...I have a lit to say about this.

 

[Scott Larock]

Ill be back...I have a lit to say about this.

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[Scott Larock]

waiting

 

[Yup]

waiting

Sorry busy at work. Willget to it soon

 

[iBrowse]

all i need is $115

 

[iBrowse]

Both genders struggle with loyalty , but y'all out here expecting a chick that you will recycle out to be loyal to you. People are loyal when they believe they can be(especially if it'll be reciprocated), so if females aren't loyal to you it says more about you than them.

so if a female perceives that I'm not loyal even though I am its her infidelity is cool?

 

[Danny Up]

Then you have a warped sense of loyalty. This is akin to the robber fearing getting robbed. I don't understand why be in a relationship at all. Shoud have just told her that you don't plan on being faithful from jump and let hee decide if she still wants to be with you.​

I didn't leave her stuck. I don't talk bad about her. I don't even mention her to the other bytches. That's loyalty. And as I have stated your only loyalty should be to yourself.

 

[Yup]

I didn't leave her stuck. I don't talk bad about her. I don't even mention her to the other bytches. That's loyalty. And as I have stated your only loyalty should be to yourself.

That's not loyalty. That's doing what you want regardless of the other person's feelings. If you know you can't be faithful, why be in a relationship at all? Does she know? If she doesn't, that's just deceit.
If she did the same thing and justified it the way you did would you call her loyal? You are not loyal, you are selfish.

 

[Danny Up]

That's not loyalty. That's doing what you want regardless of the other person's feelings. If you know you can't be faithful, why be in a relationship at all? Does she know? If she doesn't, that's just deceit.
If she did the same thing and justified it the way you did would you call her loyal? You are not loyal, you are selfish.

If she did what I did, I would not care. As long as no babies or drama come from it, I don't give a fukk what she do.

 

[Yup]

If she did what I did, I would not care. As long as no babies or drama come from it, I don't give a fukk what she do.

Why are you in a relationship if you plan on doing whatever you want? Are you scared of commitment? Are you sure you love her...it just sounds you are with her due to convenience.

 

[CinnaSlim]

If you get a woman to fall in love with you she will be loyal.

Love =/= Loyalty

Everyday you have to make the choice to be with that person. You have to honor the commitment you have made. That is why finding a man who keeps his word and promises is so important to me.

Love is an emotion. Love is fleeting.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

Thecoli's definition of loyalty equals ALL the benefits of marriage without actually getting married.

Glad to see more sisters not allowing themselves to be used and bamboozled.

 

[blackzeus]

all i need is $115

Some nikkas ain't even got that, that's why these hoes ain't loyal. You ain't finna hold women down with a bucket of popeyes and a Mickey D's cone