Why do black folks that only date white have the same origin story?

[Lesfilles]

I remember my sister came home from this church youth camp my mom sent her to, all upset and crying, telling me the other kids at the camp told her she could only be 'chocolate' ice-cream in some silly game they were doing and assigning each other ice-cream flavors. I told her, 'so what' and she said "I didn't care at first, but they kept saying it and laughing like it was bad" and I love my little sis so that actually hurt. I was kinda annoyed that little kids were doing this too, they like 4th grade back then, cause I knew they were getting it from home, they were too young to really even be on that colorist thing and understanding it. So I had basically had to just reverse psychology on her and be like "ok, but do you think being the chocolate one is bad? No right? Exactly, besides, everyone loves chocolate ice-cream..." and I just remember her giving me a big hug and stopping with the tears. You gotta hype your kids up and promote self-esteem in them.

Yeah, kids get bullied and teased and it's normal but not everyone reacts the same so parents, IMO have to do more to protect the mental well-being of their kids.

 

[SATAN]

Off topic but where you at in MPLS breh?

Brooklyn Center/Brooklyn Park

 

[videogamestashbox.com]

Kids can be cruel, but man if you can deal getting flamed or joked on by our people your skin should be like iron man Man, you can’t tell me shyt to hurt me that I ain’t already heard when I was younger that’s not gonna force me to date no cac. Them “PAWGS” either crazy or crazy.

everybody was teased at some point in school on literally everything, and at some point most learnt to give it back.

Compared to what was said at my school that shyt is LIGHT.

She should go to therapy, it still bothers her this much to cast out her community and join a fringe online group as an adult.

Sad.

Gotta learn early ...folks outchea aint got no chill






....and anybody can get it!
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[Still Benefited]

This is the same sob story...

I feel like at some point everyone has been bullied. I got bullied all the time when I was a kid... and? Get over it.


If you have to come up with an excuse as to why you date a certain group then that just makes it look like you’re ashamed of your preference... Stand in your truth and say you want a nonblack mate.. why fake the funk?

More like makes you sound like you are miserable and resent the choice black men "forced" you to make. White men typically aren't the preference of wenches. But the black men they desire are usually black men who won't have anything to do with them,or at least won't wife them. And since they can't keep those men,they usually go into their insecurities and claim it must be colorism,must be black mens love of Becky or strippers,or black mens insecurities about a black womans success. These women couldn't have their dream black man and decided to take their ball and leave. Instead of just settling for a black man,in the same way they settled for a white man. Why?I guess dating white man is just a way to get some type of silly revenge on black men.

 

[Mastamimd]

Not reading this shyt because I've seen enough

These bytches are mentally ill and aren't worth six pages

Edit: and I got clowned mercilessly coming up and it didn't make me hate black people. The. fukk. Outta. Here.

 

[Will Ross]

Builders.




Doctors, engineers, financiers, PHDs(non-art based). The very definition of a PhD(non-art based) requires that you discover and advance knowledge which no other man has ever done before you. Seems like that defines cream of crop perfectly .



The overwhelming amount of these individuals had to disassociate from black folk to get there. They are out here building and sustaining the societies of others while their own communities are in shambles





Look at NeilDegrasse who grew up in the Bronx in the 80s and 70s, but has failed to do the exact same outreach that white people like astronomer Carl Sagan did for him by pulling him out and elevating him. Its very telling that he lives in Manhatten giving time and resources to PETA( white animal org.) while his own community of the bronx has the highest dropout rate(an issue he could solve) and It lacks financial resources.

Why would he go back to a community that he most likely was never part of? Yeah he lived in the area but was he really apart of the community

 

[CopiousX]

Why would he go back to a community that he most likely was never part of? Yeah he lived in the area but was he really apart of the community

This is a little unclear. Could you please explain what you mean here?

 

[Will Ross]

This is a little unclear. Could you please explain what you mean here?

He most likely has no real social connection to the community he grew up in. Add to the fact a lot of super smart people don like people

 

[CopiousX]

He most likely has no real social connection to the community he grew up in. Add to the fact a lot of super smart people don like people

Oh, I see. That’s really sad




Tactically, that’s a really bad move. They gave Neil Degrasse Tyson a warning shot with the me-too thing last summer. Now they can hold it over his head like they did michael Jackson for years. When they eventually come back for Neil’s head, he will need his old black community to support him

 

[swampfox]

just thought about something... you think that's really her tweeting?

That’s a great question. I actually do. She has a lot of pictures of herself on Twitter. Sometimes people just change. It happens. It’s part of life. I knew she was a little different and Atlanta has a lot of different people that move here. I just didn’t think she would turn into a wench. shyt happens.

 

[The Message]

c00n babble

One of the women that replied to that thread has this as her bio:




these people are not normal. Twitter pretty much gave a platform to mental illness, but the most worrying aspect is that these individuals became the loudest voices and supposed normal folks were indoctrinated.

facts. this is web 2.0 & social media in a nutshell

...it's a scary sight to think how things will be ten years from now

 

[Alvin]

Crazy to read that. Never thought I'd ever hear someone consider white women as something exotic.

makes sense, it's exotic in the sense that a bmw or mercedes is exotic to someone in poverty

 

[Dave24]

Shyt got me thinking of a BioWare type rpg where you can choose PAWGer as your character’s background

 

[SadimirPutin]

They memorize the swirler lore and add a lil paprika to try to make it their own