Why Do Black Men Struggle So Much With The Dissolution Of Friendships?

[RickyDiBiase]

I've learned majority of people just live to be jealous of others. Using "friendship" as a mask for their true intentions

I hate it for anybody who doesn't have a solid family to count on. Blood or no blood. Aint too many outside of that you can count on

you brothers watch too much Dragon Ball Z, this is bullshyt that some of ya'll want to beleive cause you ain't got shyt worth a damn going on

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

you brothers watch too much Dragon Ball Z, this is bullshyt that some of ya'll want to beleive cause you ain't got shyt worth a damn going on

Nah, most folks are pure opportunistic breh

Only rock with you when it's something to gain or to join the bandwagon if they see other people flock to you

I guarantee, the same folks packing your funeral wouldn't hit you back if you asked then to kick it in this lifetime

Reason why true bonds are rare but should be strongly appreciated

I wish it was dbz though. Least then you could beat a mf's ass and be friends for life

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Nah, most folks are pure opportunistic breh

Only rock with you when it's something to gain or to join the bandwagon if they see other people flock to you

I guarantee, the same folks packing your funeral wouldn't hit you back if you asked then to kick it in this lifetime

Reason why true bonds are rare but should be strongly appreciated

I wish it was dbz though. Least then you could beat a mf's ass and be friends for life

I'm sorry but that's just no true.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

I'm sorry but that's just no true.

So you think everybody is your friend?

 

[KidJSoul]

For the same reason any other group of men have this issue?

The life of men - especially in a capitalist society - does not lend itself to many men maintaining long friendships

 

[RickyDiBiase]

So you think everybody is your friend?

No everybody isn’t my friend numbnuts

But if people I’ve known for 5-20-30 years some and we not blood keep in contact and invites you to weddings, baby showers and shindigs wtf would you call that

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

No everybody isn’t my friend numbnuts

But if people I’ve known for 5-20-30 years some and we not blood keep in contact and invites you to weddings, baby showers and shindigs wtf would you call that

How does that contradict anything I've said?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I thought it was obvious I was joking with the Martin smiley.

I do agree with you though. I never noticed until I started meditating how critical I could be or how low my tolerance was for other people. It has been a daily challenge to re-program and be more patient.

I work with almost 90% men.

The silly shyt I have seen them fight over is ridiculous.

We had an incident where this guy was literally standing in the middle of a busy lane that was around a corner so there is no way for people to see him.

Of course, someone almost hit him. This dude went on and on for like 20 minutes about it while acting like he was wronged and wanted to fight.

The guy who almost hit him was my guy. I told him to just walk away. He did.

I ended telling the crybaby's supervisor that if didn't calm down I'd be writing a formal complaint. That's the only thing that would shut his ass up.

Dude literally just wanted to be a dikk. Who would want to be friends with someone like that?