Why do Black women equate the word submission to slavery??

[SunZoo]

This is weird. You can date someone you don't trust but can't submit to him?

That's why I don't subscribe to the "she will submit if you the right man".

If a woman adhere to the rightful idea that she's supposed to submit to her man, she will only date men she can submit to in the first place.

"Dating" is how you get to know someone to see if they're trustworthy, compaitable ect.

What's weird is saying a woman should be submissive before they even get to that point because that's just the rightful idea. That's like handing over your car keys to somebody you don't know and letting them drive you around.

 

[African Peasant]

"Dating" is how you get to know someone to see if they're trustworthy, compaitable ect.

What's weird is saying a woman should be submissive before they even get to that point because that's just the rightful idea. That's akin to handing over your car keys to somebody you don't know and letting them drive you around.

We don't have the same definition of dating.

Dating someone means you already in a relationship, which means in today standard you're having sex on the regular, clawing each other publicly and maybe living together.

If you accept to get to that point with someone, you should know if he's worthy of submitting or not.

The submissiveness on menu does not make sense.

 

[feelosofer]

Because a lot of dudes who talk about women submitting aren't leaders. If you are on your square and take care of business and provide the right woman will 'submit' naturally.

 

[YouMadd?]

my lady and I don’t cal it submissions. She makes $250k a year and refuses to let me wash dishes, and serves me food and drink without me asking and won’t let me clean anything outside of taking out the garbage and washing my own cloths(which I like to do). Some women actually like doing this shyt for people they like.

If this is even a “conversation” than find another women.

 

[The ADD]

my lady and I don’t calm it submissions. She makes $250k a year and refuses to let me wash dishes, and serves me food and drink without me asking and won’t let me clean anything outside of taking out the garbage and washing my own cloths(which I like to do). Some women actually like doing this shyt for people they like.

If this is even a “conversation” than find another women.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Breh dodged a bullet.

Back to topic, I think it shows how effective feminism and it's ideology is. Some women hate the word submissive but they submit to their supervisors everyday at work.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Let's be honest..the type of breh who brings up submission is probably the type who hasn't even deserved submission yet..


Brehs who get cheeks often..ya brehs ever bring up submission?

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Let's be honest..the type of breh who brings up submission is probably the type who hasn't even deserved submission yet..


Brehs who get cheeks often..ya brehs ever bring up submission?

Never. If a woman likes you enough she'll do things for you to keep you happy. Cooking for you, buying shyt for you, wearing lingerie, etc...

And honestly you can get to that point within a month or two of dating someone. In some cases it can actually be annoying or overbearing

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Cause weirdo, swagless, half baked, dorks come off creepy and pleading about it

The most unattractive thing you could do to a potential mate is come off pleading for her.

Thats for established relationships when you fukk up

If you the man of the situation a bytch is easily gonna submit, that shyt doesn’t even need to come out your mouth. Being a man of your word holds more weight than hypotheticals when it comes to hoes

Truth.

 

[Fill Collins]

Ngl, if you're getting mad over videos online and making blanket statements on thecoli, I don't think you're spending your time like someone who would have a submissive wife

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

it's no wonder why women and confused at the meaning when men can't evn fully explain the concept. everytime i have asked the question on the forum, nobody can give ananswer on what exactly they are supposed to be leading. and then on the other hand when giving examples of so called submission, they mention things like my girl cooks or cleans. no sir, that's called being nice and having home training lol. anybody in my house can get a cooked meal and i'll clean up after all yall, that's not reserved for the man i am smashing.

maybe that is the issue wit relationships these days.... people think being nice is to be reserved for spouses. back in the day someone could come over your house unannounced and they would be welcomed with open arms and stay for a day or at least a meal. these days people will act like they are not home if you knock on their door lol, and buying a meal/drink for someone you want to put your whole tongue inside of seems to give people anxiety lol

god, end it now

 

[Problematic Pat]

Some people are clueless.

You have to win her heart as corny as that sounds. And you don’t do that by being an a$$hole.

He was an a$$hole for asking her about children?
Some women don't want them and it's best to find that out off bat so neither of you waste your time.

 

[TEH]

Don’t be problematic Pat

He was an a$$hole for asking her about children?
Some women don't want them and it's best to find that out off bat so neither of you waste your time.

He was a goof and a clumsy no p*ssy getting clown to talk to her about submission. That’s why she left. You never talk about submission you act it out. That’s like a woman talking about seducing you instead of just doing it. You all are going to let Fresh and Fit and red pill advocates make you miss out on some good women.

 

[Problematic Pat]

Don’t be problematic Pat




He was a goof and a clumsy no p*ssy getting clown to talk to her about submission. That’s why she left. You never talk about submission you act it out. That’s like a woman talking about seducing you instead of just doing it. You all are going to let Fresh and Fit and red pill advocates make you miss out on some good women.

I think that submission part stemmed from an earlier convo they had where she was bringing up feminism. Chick start spouting that you need to find out what else she believes in.

 

[TEH]

I think that submission part stemmed from an earlier convo they had where she was bringing up feminism. Chick start spouting that you need to find out what else she believes in.

I hear you. He should’ve left the minute feminism came out of her mouth. No more questions were needed after that point.