If a person is cheating, male or female, I strongly believe it's because it's who they are. Whether due to lust, lack of willpower or plain old narcissism, they just can't help themselves. The good news then is that it's fairly easy to minimize your odds of being a victim of infidelity. Check out a potential partner's past and digest the information as objectively as possible. People will give you their life story if they feel that you're not judging them. But inside do judge them. This is where a lot of people slip up. Every time they tell you about some shady / petty / slutty shyt they did they will always attach extenuating circumstance to it as if that was a special case. But in truth it was not special. You are not special. You like them so you'll want to believe their bullshyt despite you being smart enough to know better. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior and you can't change a person nor make them desire change. "Good" guys and gals would do well to heed that fact.

