Why Do Couples Share a Room?

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My uncle and aunt haven't stayed in the same bed in 20 years. She cheated on him years ago and they are still married just don't talk.

My grandparents and my parents are the same way. What terrible lives to live. Still married, same house, separate rooms, both step out, don't speak to each other. And if they do speak, it's growls, yelling, blatant disrespect. Sad.

If you're not sleeping in the same bed as your bytch, and she's not yearning for your presence when you're not in the room, just hang it up, nikkaz.
 

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Why stop there. Why do couples share a home. Just live separately and come over when it's time to eat or fukk.

No bullshyt one of my coworkers is like this.

His wife lives in Miami and he lives in dallas. He goes every other weekend and she comes up on the other weekends.


He says it works well for him but she is a lot younger and attractive so I'm pretty sure he's sharing her :francis:
 

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My grandparents and my parents are the same way. What terrible lives to live. Still married, same house, separate rooms, both step out, don't speak to each other. And if they do speak, it's growls, yelling, blatant disrespect. Sad.

If you're not sleeping in the same bed as your bytch, and she's not yearning for your presence when you're not in the room, just hang it up, nikkaz.

Til death do us part lol
 

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OP you usually on point but this thread idk breh :francis:

I am asking seriously lol....


I found this....

Why Humans Sleep in the Same Bed

Sleep, much like running a marathon or chewing food, is a solitary activity. We physically lie next to each other, but we sleep alone. So why did this custom originate? According to Virginia Tech professor Roger Ekirch, an historian and author of the book At Day’s Close: Night in Times Past, there used to be a financial incentive to sleeping together, as recently as the 1800s.

“Even livestock often resided under the same roof, because there was no other structure to put them in, and they generated welcome warmth. Among the lower classes in preindustrial Europe, it was customary for an entire family to sleep in the same bed—typically the costliest item of furniture—if not to ‘pig’ together on a straw pile,” Ekirch says. “Genteel couples, for greater comfort, occasionally slept apart, especially when a spouse was ill.”


It appears our history of bunking together runs much deeper than just financial necessity. We human beings are also scared of the dark.

“Night, man’s first necessary evil, inspired widespread fear before the Industrial Revolution,” Ekirch says. “Never did families feel more vulnerable than when they retired at night. Bedmates afforded a strong sense of security, given the prevalence of perils, real and imagined—from thieves and arsonists to ghosts, witches, and the prince of darkness himself.”
 

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And I sleep in the same bed as my fiancee because we go to bed most nights cuddling. Most nights after sex. Love waking up knowing she's there. She is the only person I truly miss when we are not around each other.

Look at this nikka in love and shyt. fukk all that #HOH

Me too breh, me too. I know that feel :ahh:
 

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Look at this nikka in love and shyt. fukk all that #HOH

Me too breh, me too. I know that feel :ahh:

You can be #HOH and be in love and married. Us "my last name" boys are still hard on women(hoes). Just do it in a loving way lol

Just because I'm telling you right and controlling you doesn't mean I don't love you lol

I do what I want. Either deal with it or kick rocks bytch. Im the captain of this ship
 

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Share a bathroom
Share a bed

Seriously what is the point of this?

Know any couples that live together that don't do this?

I guess it’s just the “norm”

I'm not opposed to a married couple having different rooms.

Sleep alone, sleep together, in her room, mine, alternate :yeshrug:whatever to stay together

So you want something like this to be the norm?

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I doubt people really did this. This was for TV/Movies.

At that time, two adults in bed even sleeping was pornographic.
 
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