Why do females get angry with you if they show interest in you but you don’t show the same interest?

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This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.

Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.

So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment :mjlol:

It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.

surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.:snoop:
 

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For the same reason men do it, they’re embarrassed/angry. They put themselves out there and you’re saying they aren’t good enough/you don’t want them. Some people can just let it go while some people lash out. :yeshrug:

I had a guy literally try to rape and kill me because I turned him down. His friends had to save me. Turned him down then got put on a group project with him for school, one second I’m reading out of the book next thing I know I’m being strangled on the floor while he’s shouting that I think I’m better than him. :francis: Life comes at you fast.
 

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This shyt been happening to me for a while and I always find it amusing. So this one female at work who started almost a month ago and from the very jump she was on my dikk always making an excuse to talk to me, get me cookies and other shyt she got from the shops when she went to lunch asking me how my day was, complementing me etc. You know the usual.

Thing is, I have zero interest in her as I have a strict no work relationship. This is a very good job, pay is good, it’s close to my house so very little commute time and I’m actually very good at it. There aren’t that many companies in my city where they do my type of job so I’ve no interest in fukking it up, she’s also not really that attractive for me to even risk it. I’m always polite to her, never ever rude but I still maintain a cold distance.

So I’m guessing she’s now figured I’m not interested and now moved to phase two which is passive aggression. She greets everyone but not me, no longer gets me anything from the shops and basically now giving me the silent treatment :mjlol:

It’s all very funny to me cos I don’t really care. But this is not the first time this has happened to me. As soon they figure I’m not interested they suddenly start giving me harsh treatment. Happens at work, with female acquaintances, with waitresses who used to treat me nice in the beginning but stopped.

surely if anyone should know a person being interested in you doesn’t mean you should also be interested in them back is women. They deal with this shyt constantly so you’d think they’d understand but I guess they don’t really do logic just emotion.:snoop:
:mjlol: :duck:
 
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