Why Do Girls Act Like This

[OfTheCross]

How do one look stuck up? I don't walk around turning my nose up at people or mugging. But I do look away from people because of the shyness. When I am out with friends I am laughing and smiling all the time. I have no idea...

Edit: Also people randomly talk to me and guys do so I don't think it's that. I just hear it after someone gets to know me they tell me.

hmm...

send me a pic. I'll give you an honest assessment.

 

[MikelArteta]

Story time from a few years ago

Every day I took the bus in the morning, at the bus stop it was just me and this other girl. A big city 9 , anyways I never said nothing to her. Out of my peripheral vision I could see her eyeing me every morning , finally one morning she cracks and asks me if I want to sitfdown I say no. Then suddenly she reverts totalking anabout the weather. I zone her out and turn up the music louder on my iPod.

Anyways after that I had her eating out of my hand basically . Rejection humbles all broads.

 

[Raava]

hmm...

send me a pic. I'll give you an honest assessment.

well played

 

[Trillion]

Because you're dealing with just that. GIRLS.

Most women (not all) are fairly assertive when it comes to catching the attention of a potential interest or making themselves noticed. They may not speak, but there WILL be subtle clues, random conversations, questions, bumps, or eye contact if she figures you to be out of the loop with her interest in you. Girls, on the other hand, play games, WILL ignore you, because they don't have the real life experience of courting men, or making themselves noticeable...Which is why they end up settling a lot of the time for the nikka who holla'd at them first. You'd be surprised to know how many "girls" (regardless of age -- its a maturity/experience thing) actually WANT you but won't say it or make it even a thought in your mind through the slightest gestures.

damn bruh you are right though older women dont play they would stare you down n shyt if they want you, younger girls too but somewhere between 18 - whenever its weird as hell.

 

[Bless't]

because they try to avoid rejection like the plague. it's like ether to their soul. The ones who already have low self-worth put a lot of stock in how much in demand they are percieved. Being rejected and other people knowing about it would shatter this image and destroy what they've spent so much time trying to build (the allure, the mystique...) so instead they'd rather you take most of the risk. At the same time they figure they are above the guys who typically approach them (losers).

Also, if they show interest and they clearly see you notice it and you don't approach, it's a rejection but the worst part is that since no words are spoken, they will never truly know why and may be haunted by it for some time.

Took the words right outta my mouth. Good shyt.

 

[Strapped]

because we like attention..especially attention from men we are feelin. I prefer u to call me and initate the conversation...

really

 

[AgentGrey]

That was me too...but after a while you realize how weak that is. How much potential you're missing out on...

this..
You would never know because women don't work how we work, they're (usually) not about to come tell you how good they think you look even if yall can both see it all over her lol

20.

Plus im ugly so i don't get chosen very much..............

But when i do im ready to go.

Fam Im speakin on a different perspective as a young pretty nikka but Im pretty sure its all the same:

You just gotta be on your YOU shyt, be confident in yourself. Tbh the only time I pull numbers is when Im not trying
Just carry a conversation, add some humor, and if you notice lil hints then ask for the number. Works for me
I guess its about seeing an opportunity on the fly and capitalizing, idk Im a young nikka tryin to figure it out too lol

 

[Ooh Marty]

but how yall be checking out dudes while acting like yall aint at the same time tho?

because we hate rejection...especially from a guy we like.

 

[ANewClassic]

this..
You would never know because women don't work how we work, they're (usually) not about to come tell you how good they think you look even if yall can both see it all over her lol

Fam Im speakin on a different perspective as a young pretty nikka but Im pretty sure its all the same:

You just gotta be on your YOU shyt, be confident in yourself. Tbh the only time I pull numbers is when Im not trying
Just carry a conversation, add some humor, and if you notice lil hints then ask for the number. Works for me
I guess its about seeing an opportunity on the fly and capitalizing, idk Im a young nikka tryin to figure it out too lol

@ the bolded

@KingRey Now only if you'd stop chasing hoodrats

 

[AgentGrey]

@ the bolded

@KingRey Now only if you'd stop chasing hoodrats

I end up with hoodrats because they require the least amount of chasing.
How come those nerdy farm girls dont be choosin

 

[Trillion]

because we hate rejection...especially from a guy we like.

why yall so complicated

 

[Ooh Marty]

why yall so complicated

its not that we're complicated its just that women are so use to men doing the pursuing and its that fear that if a man turn her down, she will feel unwanted, ya know?

I hope i helped u a lil bit with understanding the dynamics.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Was talking to Rey about this today. A girl in my class always looking in my direction then when look at her she looks away, then today I was walking past her, she act like she ain't notice me then as soon as I went by her she turned around and glanced smh. She's cute af tho, too bad she's 18 and I'm 21.

 

[Trillion]

Was talking to Rey about this today. A girl in my class always looking in my direction then when look at her she looks away, then today I was walking past her, she act like she ain't notice me then as soon as I went by her she turned around and glanced smh. She's cute af tho, too bad she's 18 and I'm 21.

whats wrong with her being 18?