Why do guys take everything a girl says so seriously?

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#HOH campaign in full effect:francis:Some of these women be playing themselves thats why I will play the game til the end cause they be heartless and shyt and thinking nikkaz is simps for being nice and respectful.fukk em never love em brehs:blessed:
 

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

You should have simply told him im being polite...and not exchanged numbers.

shyt aint complicated lol
 

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.
10 times out of 10... be an adult and say what you mean


i have to say this to women at least 3 times a day...


quit with the hints... the subtle speak.. the giving your number to people you don't want calling... the entertainment of inboxing... all of it



if you don't want the man... shoot him down the first day and never leave any avenue open for communication and you wouldn't have to deal with the shyt... i mean is it that hard?
 
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Why the fukk you being nice to him then? Tell him to fukk off. Stop being nice to him. Tell him you ain't interested. I'm not saying you're leading him on but that's what he's thinking.
 

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This is 100% your fault. :ufdup:

If you told the dude you weren't interested, all of this wouldn't have been happening.

It's not like he can magically put your number in his phone without you giving it to him.

GTFO :camby:
 

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Women love attention too much.

Your actions make no got damn sense at face value, but you really liked the attention dude was giving you.

You are a grown adult woman. You can't tell a man no? What is wrong with you? :scust:
 

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She actually dropped a few jewels in this thread.
If breh plays his card right, he can reverse dirty mack by praising her boyfriend when she talks shyt about him.
For some odd reason, this works. "Stop giving that man a hard time."
It's weird.
breh you negged me for making a post about some dude having sex with a mother and daughter which I never cosigned. But you got no problem fuxxing

with a chick that got a boyfriend?
 
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