Why do guys take everything a girl says so seriously?

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OP is trolling like a MF :pachaha: "She's" almost too damn naive to have some if the stories "she" has :heh:
sad thing is, I know real life jawns who come up with these idiotic scenarios.
FB timeline filled with them.
Some of 'em be like a strong 5 combined in personality/face/body...and you know, nobody is checking for you like that for this drama to be real.
 

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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.
It would seem easier to just mean what you and say what you mean tho. You wasted his and your time just being full of shyt for no reason. Life is a lot easier when you're not full of shyt.
 
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It would seem easier to just mean what you and say what you mean tho. You wasted his and your time just being full of shyt for no reason. Life is a lot easier when you're not full of shyt.



It's funny you say this but really this why the GAME EXSISTENC. It's not based on character like you think it would be. Women you constantly have to be creative upon approach and threw out the relationship. Women usually don't care about character until after a man has been in them guts....cause women usually fall in love Quakertown men do. With men women aren't special right away ....Men are special right away cause what men do is sell what the women think she is going to be with in the long run up front. The game is not based on how nice you are as a man ...in a prefect world this would be the ideal approach. It's based on other factors that at times have nothing to do with you character.
 

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It's funny you say this but really this why the GAME EXSISTENC. It's not based on character like you think it would be. Women you constantly have to be creative upon approach and threw out the relationship. Women usually don't care about character until after a man has been in them guts....cause women usually fall in love Quakertown men do. With men women aren't special right away ....Men are special right away cause what men do is sell what the women think she is going to be with in the long run up front. The game is not based on how nice you are as a man ...in a prefect world this would be the ideal approach. It's based on other factors that at times have nothing to do with you character.
I know women I know the "game". I was just given the poster advice beside obviously she's having issues. She's complaining about a dude not being able to read between the lines and tell that's she's full of shyt and I just said that it's easier to just not be full of shyt.
 
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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

First of all, negged.
Second of all, I ain't reading your attention whoring story.
Third, if thats really you in your avatar, I'd skeet up in you.
 

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I don't believe this a real girl

OP speaks like a man

Women typically don't use the word simp
 

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I never want to assume that a guy is interested at the risk of looking conceited. I should have casually name dropped my boyfriend though. :francis: :beli:


Why were you so social and using this new guy as a emotional blanket. by having social discussions, followed by giving out your phone number and you have a boyfriend?


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About a month ago, I met some guy while I was running some errands and this dude was helping me out so I humored him with some conversation. It was all friendly at first but then he started to simp.:martin:


Anyway, long story short, the convo turned to healthy eating and I was talking about how I cook most of the shyt I eat. Anyway, this dude ends up inviting himself over to my place for a date. :wtf:


He was like, "you should cook for me sometime, I'd like to learn" and I was like :rudy: "sure". Then he asked to exchange numbers and I was like :dame: "yeah, whatever". I was trying to say and do everything that I could to remove myself from this situation.

On Valentine's Day this dude sends me a creepy ass text with a kissing emoticon and I just about died. :dame::huhldup: I ignored that shyt, obviously.




Anyway, this week this dude sends me a text talking about, "I can't wait for that dinner. :shaq:"

:merchant:

:scust: UGH. I'm about to have my number changed.



Guys, listen up, 9 times out of 10, a girl is not into you - she's just trying to be nice and she doesn't mean half the things she said. Learn to read between the lines and understand body language. Our mouths may be saying one thing but best believe our body language is saying something else.

Or say what you mean and let the dude know your not in to him.Nobody got time to be playing guessing games. Man is interested and you on some how dare he fukk shyt. Brotha might not know a curve but you aint helping by one letting him know where you live and giving him your number in the first place. What did you think his intentions would be?
 
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