Why Do I Attract Non-Black Females ?

[Trillion]

Some women may be missing out by making that assumption; however, I have to reiterate @LovelyDay's point about hitting on men. Most of the white women I know are very upfront and are accustomed to approaching guys. Most of the black women I know usually try to throw out signals...many of us have been taught not to "chase a man." Many of the white women I know have been taught to "go get your man."

so i gotta let them know me huh

 

[Trillion]

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These are probably both valid reasons for me because they go hand in hand.



I'm a laid back quiet go with the flow type of guy who doesn't really pursue and alot of non black women will approach me and initiate conversations first, meanwhile the black women see me talking with the white chicks and be like I know they be saying "This nikka only wanna talk to white girls huh"


And I'm like It ain't even like that ,It's not my fault the white chick started talking to me first

we look snobbish bruh

 

[SouthernBelle]

so i gotta let them know me huh

If you see a woman that you are attracted to then you might have to make it known (although you may have become accustomed to women putting in most of the initial work).

 

[Trillion]

If you see a woman that you are attracted to then you might have to make it known (although you may have become accustomed to women putting in most of the initial work).

you right so i could overcome this cocky/snobbish initial look when they know me right?

 

[mrken12]

Be honest brehs is this a genuine complaint?

Nope.

 

[Anti-Anime]

This only applies if you're chiseled, really attractive, at least 6'2 or are naturally charming. No average nikka is attracting your average non black woman. I know because I'm that average nikka.

 

[thoushallhustle]

are you light skinned

 

[bouncy]

so i gotta let them know me huh

My man, just SMILE at them when you see them, and say hi, It's not that hard. Learning how to converse is where the real work is. If she really likes you, once you say hi and near her, she will find a reason to talk to you. Hopefully you can read the cues she gives you or her passes might go over your head.

As for the topic, I think women can just tell if you're attracted to them strongly. When I didn't like white women, they didn't really give me looks but when that changed, I started getting looks like a mother. I got it everywhere from stores to restaraunts. The unseen vibes are a trip on how they effect people.