Why Do I Feel Like My Coworkers Are Trying To Get Me Fired?

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:snoop: I hear from my supervisor that some of the Team Leaders have been telling him that I'm moving at a slow pace, and taking my time, which I haven't been, I bust my ass :snoop: and even if I was then why are you telling our supervisor and not me, since you're my Team Leader. I swear that hoe shyt gets me :snoop:

I tell my coworker, the dude that also trained me and he tells me people have been coming to him saying that it looks like I don't care about working. He told them that I'm just a very calm guy, and if they needed approach me with the issue then they could.

I haven't been approached yet :what:

I'm thinking about going to my supervisor and telling him to tell anyone who has a complaint against me to approach me directly, instead of going behind my back, since it causes tension, although they're reporting this anonymously.

shyts annoying, if you're in charge of the zone and you can't address a person, then you're not a leader, you're a chump.

Any of y'all had some people try to play with your livelihood/money?

I don't know if it's because I'm black/attractive/intelligent/athletic or what, but this hating shyt got me like :wtf:
 

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I had some people try to get fired at my current job because they didn't like me when I first started. If you're doing your job there's really nothing they can do that can build a case against you. I wouldn't react too heavily about it.
 

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Ask for some written standards about work you're supposed to do. Like how much work do they expect you to do in a certain amount of them. That way you have some concrete standards to work with and no one can say you're not doing your job.

Basically get what's expected of you and what you'd be evaluated on for raises and such in writing.
 

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This has happend to me too, im not going to lie i could of been 110 proactive but the i was working a slow paced job anyway so it wasn't really needed, like my supervisor was telling me i wasn't doing enough but if i do enough you tell me to slow down:what:, is it occhi wally wally or isit one mic?
 

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You either suck as a worker or a human being for them to be trying to get rid of you. :manny:

The answer is right below :heh:

I don't know if it's because I'm black/attractive/intelligent/athletic or what, but this hating shyt got me like :wtf:

All this dude's coworkers are complaining about him and this is the only possible reason he could think of for it :russ:
 

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This has happend to me too, im not going to lie i could of been 110 proactive but the i was working a slow paced job anyway so it wasn't really needed, like my supervisor was telling me i wasn't doing enough but if i do enough you tell me to slow down:what:, is it occhi wally wally or isit one mic?
When they tell you that shyt and you know you've been kicking ass it's like: :what:
 
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:snoop: I hear from my supervisor that some of the Team Leaders have been telling him that I'm moving at a slow pace, and taking my time, which I haven't been, I bust my ass :snoop: and even if I was then why are you telling our supervisor and not me, since you're my Team Leader. I swear that hoe shyt gets me :snoop:

I tell my coworker, the dude that also trained me and he tells me people have been coming to him saying that it looks like I don't care about working. He told them that I'm just a very calm guy, and if they needed approach me with the issue then they could.

I haven't been approached yet :what:

I'm thinking about going to my supervisor and telling him to tell anyone who has a complaint against me to approach me directly, instead of going behind my back, since it causes tension, although they're reporting this anonymously.

shyts annoying, if you're in charge of the zone and you can't address a person, then you're not a leader, you're a chump.

Any of y'all had some people try to play with your livelihood/money?

I don't know if it's because I'm black/attractive/intelligent/athletic or what, but this hating shyt got me like :wtf:

I feel you on the bolded. Some people just don't like it and takes it some kind of way when a black person styles/accels on them at their job and is doing their own thing without attempting to be apart of that "work circle" ("why isn't he/she a team player?")...especially if you're one of the few black males there in a predominantly white working environment. They already kind of see our ilk as intimidating so they take it real personal and get real insecure cause hey have the posture themselves in a certain way where they work hard to not offend...but they're also trying to posture you in a way that's sort of submissive and toning...
 

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Ask for some written standards about work you're supposed to do. Like how much work do they expect you to do in a certain amount of them. That way you have some concrete standards to work with and no one can say you're not doing your job.

Basically get what's expected of you and what you'd be evaluated on for raises and such in writing.
I would, but I know I'm doing my job, and example of me busting my ass, yesterday me and a new hire, brought in a plane, unloaded it, took the passengers off, gave them their luggage, and then dropped the rest of the checked in bags off. 2 people, we did a 4/5 person job.


I buss my ass
 

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I feel that shyt about people not coming up to you but going to upper management about the shyt, it's happened to me a few times at my job :why: Cowardly passive aggressive behavior.


But just keep working hard, show more of a sense of urgency just to keep the snitches of your back
 

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I feel you on the bolded. Some people just don't like it and takes it some kind of way when a black person styles/accels on them at their job and is doing their own thing without attempting to be apart of that "work circle" ("why isn't he/she a team player?")...especially if you're one of the few black males there in a predominantly white working environment. They already kind of see our ilk as intimidating so they take it real personal and get real insecure cause hey have the posture themselves in a certain way where they work hard to not offend...but they're also trying to posture you in a way that's sort of submissive and toning...
Man, that's the truth.

Some people I think have caught feelings, because my superiors like me. I speak German and our Boss is German, I read during my lunch, I'm fit, people tell me I'm smart, and the dude that hired me said I'm a leader. Plus I come off as educated, but nice.


And I'm the only Black male and tall, and I don't kiss ass.

And that submitting part, I really think that's it, it's weird.
 

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I feel that shyt about people not coming up to you but going to upper management about the shyt, it's happened to me a few times at my job :why: Cowardly passive aggressive behavior.


But just keep working hard, show more of a sense of urgency just to keep the snitches of your back
Bro, I couldn't believe people actually did that shyt, it had me like :mindblown:
 

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Bro, I couldn't believe people actually did that shyt, it had me like :mindblown:
Bruh, we have a loose grooming standard at my job to where you have to be clean shaven, that no one really follows... I was rocking my beard out a little towards the end of the week because I wanted the beard when I went out for the weekend. Nobody was trippin. I hear my boss, who was on his day off, got multiple emails from people telling him about my shyt and how I have to shave. Now wouldn't it be easier to come up to me directly? The fukk :what:It's not a problem, I just didn't like the cowardness of how people went about it. That just happened last week, only the tip of the iceberg.


I don't understand that type of behavior at all man
 

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Bruh, we have a loose grooming standard at my job to where you have to be clean shaven, that no one really follows... I was rocking my beard out a little towards the end of the week because I wanted the beard when I went out for the weekend. Nobody was trippin. I hear my boss, who was on his day off, got multiple emails from people telling him about my shyt and how I have to shave. Now wouldn't it be easier to come up to me directly? The fukk :what:It's not a problem, I just didn't like the cowardness of how people went about it. That just happened last week, only the tip of the iceberg.


I don't understand that type of behavior at all man
The fact that they'd even give a fukk when it's your beard :snoop:

I don't get it, are these people adults? What do you do about it, send chain mail to employees that tell them to address your directly if they have a problem, or just keep it moving?
 
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