Why Do I Keep On Attracting Women in their 30's, and I'm in my mid 20's?

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I'm only 24, and most of the women that I have been with have either been in their early 30's or 29. Why is this? I want to say it's because older women tend to be a bit more bolder.

Like today I'm sitting on the train reading my book "Joys of Motherhood" (it's good if you haven't read it yet) and this woman sits across from me and smiles. I say f it, and ask her what she's listening to, and she comes and sits by me, starts rubbing shoulders and is like "I'm making a playlist" and then goes and shows me her hip hop collection. She's white btw. And so we end up chatting it up, she's telling me about her life and how she's from Vermont, just went through a break up, etc, etc. So I tell her I'll walk with her for a second and we hit the apple store.

After that I tell her I gotta dip but she can have my number, because she's looking like she wants it but won't say it. So I give it to her, because my phone is dead. Then she asks my age and I tell her I'm 24, and she's like "oh I'm 31 but its' okay, my parents are 10 years apart".

I don't even want to have sex with her, I don't think, because I don't have any further intentions, and not to be racist but I just don't want to date a white woman. So I don't want to play with her heart.

Nonetheless, why does this happen to me? Does it happen to others? Is it because of the being bolder thing that I suggested, and me actually having to go up and run game on females my own age?

Tbh, I do get good practice, with older women but I don't want to be in my 20's messing with 30 year olds and then be in my 30's messing with 20 year olds. The game would be distorted. It just seems like women in their 30's are highly attracted to me.
 

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I get hit on by white girls incessantly. I also attract lost bytches, the emotionally vulnerable and closet thots.

:ehh:

I would kill to be able to make waves with older women.

Count your blessings breh.
 

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:manny: They're probably very attracted to you and not afraid. It's good that you want women your own age. Just let the older ones know you're not interested. Don't feel bad because a 30 something year old woman who wants a man in his early 20s is probably bat shyt crazy.
I want women my own age because I want to be able to actually have a thing and grow with someone. You think so? Why is that?
:yeshrug:

I get hit on by white girls incessantly. I also attract lost bytches, the emotionally vulnerable and closet thots.

:ehh:

I would kill to be able to make waves with older women.

Count your blessings breh.
lol, well at least you know you can take advantage.

It's cool, and thank you for reminding me. I must be grateful, I just get tired when these older women come up and I talk to them and I'm catching the td like Randy Moss.

At my friends birthday party last year (christmas eve) I ran into an old coworker who was in her 30's and she gave me head outside of the bar behind a fence while all our friends were on the other side of the fence smoking cigarettes and talking. They didn't even have an idea that this was going on. And we only had talked for like 10 minutes smh
 

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shyt definitely sucks, cause usually they are much more established than you while you still getting your career and shyt together. So its likely not gonna go anywhere serious.
It could, I mean one I met here and visited in Turkey worked at a school teaching English for kids was offering me a job but I left her alone because she was acting like I ain't want to see her even tho I left Rome to turkey solely to see her. I mean if women coming at u like that about materialism then they might not be the right one especially if you on your grind. Giving her the time while you're on your grind is worth more than being flabby and sick or old and not on your grind and comfortable and giving her your time.
 

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I want women my own age because I want to be able to actually have a thing and grow with someone. You think so? Why is that?
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It's good that you want women your own age because you can build together.

Oftentimes when a woman wants a younger man, she's seeking control. She also may have some weirdo tendencies.

A normal confident woman does not want the upper hand over a man. A normal woman wants a man to be a man. Some women try to get with a younger man, for "sexual" reasons.

But a normal woman KNOWS it wouldn't never go anywhere and wouldn't be bothered.

Also a normal woman is not going to put herself in a situation with a man that makes her look bad to his family.

What parents are going to cosign their son with a 30 year old woman.

A 30 something year old woman trying to get with a 20 something year old man is missing something inside her. She's probably lost in life.

These are not absolutes, but just my general observations.
 

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Im 19 and attract older women:snoop: Have a baby face with big doe eyes and long eyelashes brehs:snoop:
I don't know if its cause I look innocent and they want to corrupt me or what:yeshrug:
Out of all of them, only three of them were milfs and one of them is my godmother:mjcry:

Please tell your parents! That's sick. If a grown ass woman was trying to fck my teenage son, I'm whooping her ass. If you want a woman, you can get a 19yo woman. That's so nasty. Just because you're a man, DOES NOT mean that you don't deserve to be protected from pervs and weirdos.

I believe in protecting young men from female sexual predators as well.
 
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