Why Do I Keep On Attracting Women in their 30's, and I'm in my mid 20's?

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I'm only 24, and most of the women that I have been with have either been in their early 30's or 29. Why is this? I want to say it's because older women tend to be a bit more bolder.

Like today I'm sitting on the train reading my book "Joys of Motherhood" (it's good if you haven't read it yet) and this woman sits across from me and smiles. I say f it, and ask her what she's listening to, and she comes and sits by me, starts rubbing shoulders and is like "I'm making a playlist" and then goes and shows me her hip hop collection. She's white btw. And so we end up chatting it up, she's telling me about her life and how she's from Vermont, just went through a break up, etc, etc. So I tell her I'll walk with her for a second and we hit the apple store.

After that I tell her I gotta dip but she can have my number, because she's looking like she wants it but won't say it. So I give it to her, because my phone is dead. Then she asks my age and I tell her I'm 24, and she's like "oh I'm 31 but its' okay, my parents are 10 years apart".

I don't even want to have sex with her, I don't think, because I don't have any further intentions, and not to be racist but I just don't want to date a white woman. So I don't want to play with her heart.

Nonetheless, why does this happen to me? Does it happen to others? Is it because of the being bolder thing that I suggested, and me actually having to go up and run game on females my own age?

Tbh, I do get good practice, with older women but I don't want to be in my 20's messing with 30 year olds and then be in my 30's messing with 20 year olds. The game would be distorted. It just seems like women in their 30's are highly attracted to me.

So let me get this straight:


there's a chick on the train looking at you...YOU say something to her first...
YOU tell her you'll walk with her...
YOU offer her your number...

but you don't even want to do anything with her,
and you wonder how you "attracted" this woman??

Boy, go sit down.
 

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So let me get this straight:


there's a chick on the train looking at you...YOU say something to her first...
YOU tell her you'll walk with her...
YOU offer her your number...

but you don't even want to do anything with her,
and you wonder how you "attracted" this woman??

Boy, go sit down.
Um, she got on the train 20 feet away from me, smiled and sat down. 2 stops later she came and sat in front of me.

I just played the hand of the moment, am I not supposed to live life and not question it at the same time?

I did all of these things because she wanted me to, I didn't mind, but I just followed the path.
 

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"Joys of Motherhood huh?" :mjpls:

You sure lil Susy Crabgrass didnt think you was gay and wasnt just looking for a new male bestie? :lolbron:
 

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Um, she got on the train 20 feet away from me, smiled and sat down. 2 stops later she came and sat in front of me.

I just played the hand of the moment, am I not supposed to live life and not question it at the same time?

I did all of these things because she wanted me to, I didn't mind, but I just followed the path.

Bruh - my point was you made most of the moves that got you where you are with her.
It's not that you was just so "attractive" to her.

You could've just let her be a lookin'-ass broad on the train.
You don't have to do anything just somebody else wants you to...
 

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I'm only 24, and most of the women that I have been with have either been in their early 30's or 29. Why is this? I want to say it's because older women tend to be a bit more bolder.

Like today I'm sitting on the train reading my book "Joys of Motherhood" (it's good if you haven't read it yet) and this woman sits across from me and smiles. I say f it, and ask her what she's listening to, and she comes and sits by me, starts rubbing shoulders and is like "I'm making a playlist" and then goes and shows me her hip hop collection. She's white btw. And so we end up chatting it up, she's telling me about her life and how she's from Vermont, just went through a break up, etc, etc. So I tell her I'll walk with her for a second and we hit the apple store.

After that I tell her I gotta dip but she can have my number, because she's looking like she wants it but won't say it. So I give it to her, because my phone is dead. Then she asks my age and I tell her I'm 24, and she's like "oh I'm 31 but its' okay, my parents are 10 years apart".

I don't even want to have sex with her, I don't think, because I don't have any further intentions, and not to be racist but I just don't want to date a white woman. So I don't want to play with her heart.

Nonetheless, why does this happen to me? Does it happen to others? Is it because of the being bolder thing that I suggested, and me actually having to go up and run game on females my own age?

Tbh, I do get good practice, with older women but I don't want to be in my 20's messing with 30 year olds and then be in my 30's messing with 20 year olds. The game would be distorted. It just seems like women in their 30's are highly attracted to me.
older women know what they want... and they cut all those bullshyt "rules" and go for what they want
 

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"Joys of Motherhood huh?" :mjpls:

You sure lil Susy Crabgrass didnt think you was gay and wasnt just looking for a new male bestie? :lolbron:
Y'all keep on bringing that up. Y'all sure are showing your true colors



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What rules do young women have? In this part they develop slower sometimes
you shouldn't approach a guy... you should let them make the first move... don't fukk him for this long.. don't let him use you.. make sure he does this.. make sure he got that... don't date him if........


a bunch of silly shyt they learn about in memes




older woman are like fukk this... i got about 10 more years of being attractive and getting this young dikk... i'm going for mine.. they already 30 and single... they ain't got time to be choosey and shyt

plus they already did that young shyt... it got them nowhere.. and most of the "dateable" guys ended up playing they ass too... so if she just want some dikk, she gonna get it
 

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you shouldn't approach a guy... you should let them make the first move... don't fukk him for this long.. don't let him use you.. make sure he does this.. make sure he got that... don't date him if........


a bunch of silly shyt they learn about in memes




older woman are like fukk this... i got about 10 more years of being attractive and getting this young dikk... i'm going for mine.. they already 30 and single... they ain't got time to be choosey and shyt

plus they already did that young shyt... it got them nowhere.. and most of the "dateable" guys ended up playing they ass too... so if she just want some dikk, she gonna get it

THIS! Women in their 20s is a waste of time and energy. I got me a 34 yr old.
 

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I'm only 24, and most of the women that I have been with have either been in their early 30's or 29. Why is this? I want to say it's because older women tend to be a bit more bolder.

Like today I'm sitting on the train reading my book "Joys of Motherhood" (it's good if you haven't read it yet) and this woman sits across from me and smiles. I say f it, and ask her what she's listening to, and she comes and sits by me, starts rubbing shoulders and is like "I'm making a playlist" and then goes and shows me her hip hop collection. She's white btw. And so we end up chatting it up, she's telling me about her life and how she's from Vermont, just went through a break up, etc, etc. So I tell her I'll walk with her for a second and we hit the apple store.

After that I tell her I gotta dip but she can have my number, because she's looking like she wants it but won't say it. So I give it to her, because my phone is dead. Then she asks my age and I tell her I'm 24, and she's like "oh I'm 31 but its' okay, my parents are 10 years apart".

I don't even want to have sex with her, I don't think, because I don't have any further intentions, and not to be racist but I just don't want to date a white woman. So I don't want to play with her heart.

Nonetheless, why does this happen to me? Does it happen to others? Is it because of the being bolder thing that I suggested, and me actually having to go up and run game on females my own age?

Tbh, I do get good practice, with older women but I don't want to be in my 20's messing with 30 year olds and then be in my 30's messing with 20 year olds. The game would be distorted. It just seems like women in their 30's are highly attracted to me.
that shyt gets mistaken for rejection/slowness/lack of testosterone by women :banderas:
 
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