Why do I still think of this one girl when I replaced her with two new hoes?

[Ghost Utmost]

It's called heartbreak my Breh.

I know you don't love them hoes and so forth but that's what you're describing

Being heartbroken over a woman.

Heartbreak lasts about 50% of the time you were together.

1 year affair = 6 mos heartbreak

 

[ZEupTWN]

Its happens to the best of us brotha


Just keep fukkin these hoes breh...its gonna be alrite

 

[Remote]

It’s been months. nikka i can’t even enjoy this alcohol. I’m going to the damn strip club tmrw with my track pants on. Been playing black girl lost on repeat. Help a G out y’all

There you go again, starting wars, making me more yours
Seem to get a kick out of keeping me on all fours
Face glistening, I'm addicted to you
Original, Wisdom Body got me picturing you
Igloos of ice tricking on you
You never listen to this nikka spending Franklins on tennis anklets
Must've had a bad deal in the past, though
Can't even keep it real with a nikka with cash flow

Say men are all the same, what we need to do is break this chain
You got a job part-time and school's your night thing
With dreams to settle down, it ain't far from now
You getting interviewed, but your boss is into getting screwed
Typical day that the black girl sees
Coming home wanting more from a college degree

:-(

 

[Complexion]

You can fix this quite easily.

What do you miss? Why? How real are your memories? What are you not seeing in the present moment because you're still fixated on the past?

Give a starving man a stale cracker and he'll think it tastes like a gourmet meal but put him in a penthouse with a private chef who creates the best for a few years then suddenly everything else loses its flavor.

At the end of the day she didn't make you feel a thing. You did. She just helped as something to project it on. Once you wrap your head around that and realize its all taking place in your awareness you can flip the script. Until then you'll keep living it till you get it.

Thats the way the Game is.

 

[Bryan Danielson]

It’s been months. nikka i can’t even enjoy this alcohol. I’m going to the damn strip club tmrw with my track pants on. Been playing black girl lost on repeat. Help a G out y’all

She put that thang on you eh?

I only trust and take my love life advice from @Coco Loco

 

[Rozay Oro]

What did she offer that you don't feel you get from these other girls?

cuz you a simp

because there's only 1 of her like there's only 1 of you. Can't really replace people, you only move on. Unless you all come back together.

I know you don't love them hoes and so forth but that's what you're describing

Just keep fukkin these hoes breh...its gonna be alrite

:-(

You can fix this quite easily.

What do you miss? Why? How real are your memories? What are you not seeing in the present moment because you're still fixated on the past?

Give a starving man a stale cracker and he'll think it tastes like a gourmet meal but put him in a penthouse with a private chef who creates the best for a few years then suddenly everything else loses its flavor.

At the end of the day she didn't make you feel a thing. You did. She just helped as something to project it on. Once you wrap your head around that and realize its all taking place in your awareness you can flip the script. Until then you'll keep living it till you get it.

Thats the way the Game is.

She put that thang on you eh?

I only trust and take my love life advice from @Coco Loco

Affection, engagement, personality.

Look here mane, I’m not looking for a replacement cause all these modern brehettes the same. Emotionally damaged and selfish. I don’t want her back I just want to move on. Before her I was happy just smashing hoes. I haven’t looked at porn nor fapped in some days and plan to keep going.

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

Affection, engagement, personality.

Look here mane, I’m not looking for a replacement cause all these modern brehettes the same. Emotionally damaged and selfish. I don’t want her back I just want to move on. Before her I was happy just smashing hoes. I haven’t looked at porn nor fapped in some days and plan to keep going.

It sounds like this girl offered you a greater human connection than whoever you fukkin with now.

That's essentially what we want out of any experience with another human being on a deeper level. Connection, affection, engagement, care, and a feeling of safety. As a man, don't make the mistake of believing one-off sexual encounters can replace all those things in life.

It's okay to be a man and say that this is what you want. It okay to be sensitive and say that you want true love, care and affection from women. To say a life of being alone, scheduling a smash-a-hoe once a week, getting it on, and then walking back to your normal life with that post-nut downer every single time may not be your true joy in life. Not just sexual encounter, but a more "whole" experience with someone of the opposite sex. It doesn't make you weak. It does not make you a "simp."

And on the flip side there is nothing wrong with having that smash hoes life if you truly feel you can manage it emotionally and financially.

Don't exhaust your mental, emotional or physical energy with hoes and sex. We wake up every morning with only so much of it before we rest. And you are putting in hard work exploring your feelings and figuring yourself out. Treat yourself for a week. Look up events and do fun shyt.

Take some time to really explore yourself and gather that insight.

 

[Rozay Oro]

It sounds like this girl offered you a greater human connection than whoever you fukkin with now.

That's essentially what we want out of any experience with another human being on a deeper level. Connection, affection, engagement, care, and a feeling of safety. As a man, don't make the mistake of believing one-off sexual encounters can replace all those things in life.

It's okay to be a man and say that this is what you want. It okay to be sensitive and say that you want true love, care and affection from women. To say a life of being alone, scheduling a smash-a-hoe once a week, getting it on, and then walking back to your normal life with that post-nut downer every single time may not be your true joy in life. Not just sexual encounter, but a more "whole" experience with someone of the opposite sex. It doesn't make you weak. It does not make you a "simp."

And on the flip side there is nothing wrong with having that smash hoes life if you truly feel you can manage it emotionally and financially.

Don't exhaust your mental, emotional or physical energy with hoes and sex. We wake up every morning with only so much of it before we rest. And you are putting in hard work exploring your feelings and figuring yourself out. Treat yourself for a week. Look up events and do fun shyt.

Take some time to really explore yourself and gather that insight.

I’m bored of just smashing. I’m gonna take your advice and do fun shyt on my free time. Lately been working hard. My full time and my part time is second shift with a few hours after my full time job.