Why do men find it odd when a man enjoys female company?

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Believe it or not black man, there are more important things than sex... Like integrity. Discipline.

Why not have desires for some else? Did she just turn into the only woman in a 5 mile radius?
No but she threw it at me so I caught it.

You're throwing around words like integrity and discipline, however you haven't actually explained what is wrong with having sex with a female friend who throws it at you. My best female friend and I fukked for a long time and we still got each other's back now unless you can give me a reason why this is objectively wrong outside of your own Bullshyt ideations, you don't really have an argument m
 

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Isn't the friend zone the point?
The friend zone is not a healthy friendship. The friend zone only exists when someone wants more. They are in a zone/situation/category that they want to get out of.

A healthy friendship is one where both people are content with the situation.

It's uncomfortable to have someone want more than you are willing to give them. You feel pressured and because you are friends and care about the other person, you don't want to play with their emotions.
 

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This.

Friends of mine straight up have gotten mad at me for having women as friends and enjoying conversation with them...theyd be like "you aint trying to smash?" "Whatchu doing man, you gay?"

And id be like...nah. sometimes i just wanna rap about things i like to whoever wants to hear it and enjoys the conversation.

Like fukk...im that type of dude that will talk to a lady and ill be all gentlemanly then once i know her well flip on it and go into the illuminati and conspiracy theories with them in conversation :mjlol:

Some dudes just cant think about things outside of a sexual context.

Plus some cats don't understand that being seen with attractive female attracts other attractive women. Some women are just cool to be around and if they're cute it's a plus. I'm happy with my relationship with my female friends and I don't want more for various reasons.
 

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The friend zone is not a healthy friendship. The friend zone only exists when someone wants more. They are in a zone/situation/category that they want to get out of.

A healthy friendship is one where both people are content with the situation.

It's uncomfortable to have someone want more than you are willing to give them. You feel pressured and because you are friends and care about the other person, you don't want to play with their emotions.
Then cut them off.
 

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Some guys are clowns they know nothing about actually being around women that's not related to them. Any man that has charisma, enjoys female company. What's hot in these streets to some young guys is to diss women and call them Thots and act like they have no purpose but to fukk and cook.

They scorned.

You sound angry as hell.
 

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I know that the real nikkas of the coli only need good head,p*ssy, food and a back massage from a bytch and nothing more but why do the men that actually enjoy being around females get such a bad rep? :patrice:

If a nikka enjoy being around a bunch of soft, sweet smelling, warm, chill females all the time why is there a problem?

Why is he called a simp/soft etc?

@Willstyles i need ur input breh.


Honestly women tend to get defensive/emotional...

If it isn't strictly business.....or we ain't fukking...I try to limit their company to a minimum

besides that men tend to get along better...women really do not fukk with each other at all
 

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A young man can only be platonic with a chick if he is getting his p*ssy quota met elsewhere or she is a complete mudduck (and even then it depends on how dry he is :patrice:). Otherwise sex is gonna be an issue. Sex is priority number 1 for young guys.
 
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