Why do men get mad that women have preferences?

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Entitlement. Media fiction and the 1950s told dudes that even if they are socially inept, unattractive or broke, they deserve a submissive housewife that will cater to every sexual desire and be cool with him cheating as long as he financially supports her. Male backlash to the feminist movement has made some dudes even MORE delusional to the point where they want to take on traditionally feminine roles but retain male power privileges.
In short: These dudes want women to chase them, pay for them, fukk them, court them...and STILL want to be leaders in the "relationship/hook up" b/c many can't even promise commitment.

Meanwhile if they can't get a chick to sign up for that life of "luxury" they rely on a combination of shaming tactics and aggression ("If u ain't gotta baby by the time you 30, yo p*ssy some trash", "You stuck up", "fukk u bytch! Don't nobody want you.", "Dats why u gon stay single!"), fallacious social analysis ("ugly women have high self-esteem! Yeah! That's why I'll never know what p*ssy smells like!", "my niceness is what repels women, my social lameness, crippling awkwardness has nothing to do with it") and/or other nonsense to justify their romantic failings.

Women do this too. Just change the pronouns in this post and all this shyt can easily be applied to chicks as well.

All in all, people feel entitled to their own preferences while resenting others for their desires.
We all want the opposite sex to desire the lowest common denominator to ensure our own success. If anything we should encourage high standards in our mates and seek to surpass even those.
But nah. We just want the best to settle on us but nobody is real enuff to admit it.

 

[LuckyLibra619]

yep

They were pressed about Serena but make pawg threads daily.

That's because when BM date out the race we get told that we hate our mothers, or we hate ourselves, or that we're sellouts.

BM get shamed for dating out the race, meanwhile people like Serena get a hug, kiss on the cheek, and "OMG Yasss" celebrations. I wonder what it would be like if Black men could date IR and have people celebrating it, must be nice

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Think about perspective fantasy for men and women like porn and/or romance novels.

Porn is a bunch of ugly men doing whatever they want sexually to a pretty woman with no effort needed.

Romance novels are all about a plain chick catching the attention of some rich, handsome, amazing man with a mean dyck game.

Somehow people have become resentful of reality because it doesn't fit neither of these two narratives.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Entitlement. Media fiction and the 1950s told dudes that even if they are socially inept, unattrace or broke, they deserve a submissive housewife that will cater to every sexual desire and be cool with him cheating as long as he financially supports her.

Fire. Talk about it mama. With your sexy ass brain and wit.

Meanwhile if they can't get a chick to sign up for that life of "luxury" they rely on a combination of shaming tactics and aggression

fallacious social analysis ("ugly women have high self-esteem! Yeah! That's why I'll never know what p*ssy smells like!", "my niceness is what repels women, my social lameness, crippling awkwardness has nothing to do with it") and/or other nonsense to justify their romantic failings.

Don't forget the sexual double standard they push on women and sexually active men.


We are not allowed to have romantic relationships because they're not having them. When we do it's because we're doing something wrong.

When they do it they're morally more correct than us while doing the same thing we're doing. Somehow them being involved makes it righteous.

Spoiler

"ugly women have high self-esteem! Yeah! That's why I'll never know what p*ssy smells like!"

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

All in all, people feel entitled to their own preferences while resenting others for their desires.

This was my point in a round-about way. I removed my ego from dating years ago. It's allowed me to have more options in dating.

I definitely have a standard, but I try to let my dikk, heart, and mind decide what I like. Allowing my ego to decide who I date causes trouble.

I'm a strong 6 anywhere in the world. I won't be a rich man. I'm very charismatic, I'm super chill, and a classic romantic. I keep that in mind when I date. According to the coli I should be a virgin, but girls like me. All kinda of girls.

I just go with the flow and I don't judge em'.

I try to be supportive, myself, and communicate as best I can. It works more often than not.

 

[Xyrax]

I take like... 2% of the shyt I see on here serious.

You nikkas could all be robots and I could be talking to myself on these shyts for all I know and care

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This was my point in a round-about way. I removed my ego from dating years ago. It's allowed me to have more options in dating.

I definitely have a standard, but I try to let my dikk, heart, and mind decide what I like. Allowing my ego to decide who I date causes trouble.

I'm a strong 6 anywhere in the world. I won't be a rich man. I'm very charismatic, I'm super chill, and a classic romantic. I keep that in mind when I date. According to the coli I should be a virgin, but girls like me. All kinda of girls.

I just go with the flow and I don't judge em'.

I try to be supportive, myself, and communicate as best I can. It works more often than not.

Welp just know ur not alone.
Media fed women the same lies as men in recent years that they shouldn't have to put ANY effort in finding a Prince Charming. And the supportive forcefield of lies "oh ur perfect! These men are the worst!" women surround themselves in oftentimes makes them needlessly shallow.
It's ridiculous.

In the meantime I'm the same as you. I'm average and I've never had a problem with men and I like the ones I attract...but then again I like people so that helps too. But ur very right. Being urself (even tho it's hated advice) is the smartest path. Always.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

@Booksnrain I think people who have trouble dating have trouble communicating in general. Communicating takes two skills. Receiving and delivering information.

In it's simplest form that all it is.

I can flirt with a girl at work in front of a dozen people and feel no shame. because we're just having a conversation.

There is no such thing as rejection because we're just talking. I don't hit on girls, I talk to them. I tell them what I think, how I feel, and I listen to the information they're sending me.

It comes in the form of physical and verbal signs. It sounds like I'm making it simpler than it is, but it's simple to me.

There's long game too. Sometimes if I'm around long enough and let her get to know me she'll eventually come around. My first dream girl didn't fukk with me with for ten years. Then she fell in love with me because I was consistently supportive of her and I was doing my thing the whole time.

I wasn't really waiting for her, I just liked being around her so I stuck around.

 

[qwasi]

There is no problem with women having preferences. They're are human after all. The apprehension comes with the tags that are tied to their checklists which more often that not eliminates 80% of the population and is geared toward the top ends. (Coilluminati 666 gang). All the while the woman having said preferences is a dingbat who doesn't reflect it. Men's checklist is usually a healthy, non lecherous, non promiscuous female pretty female with a cool personality and matching traits. Yet, this isn't written in stone they compromise. Female always act like they derseve that kind of man on some narcissistic type sh*t.

 

[The M.I.C.]

This is a Salon rated thread tbh.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Not directed at OP. I find it funny how a lot of broads trying to justify their poor choices in men

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

@BlackPearl he was gone kill yo ass

I'm sure he still enjoys the thought. He wasn't man at me b/c of a height preference though.

 

[Karb]

My posts in this thread serve a purpose:
There are more available women for men most of the time. These dumb demands are like price equalizers.
"My 99 cent bread is only available for preferred customers"
It's still the same 99 cent bread and there is more bread than there arebuyers. Some nikkas don't even EAT bread. She wants a nikka to pay $5. It's some slices missing out the loaf, you can get 80 cent for that bread, ma'am. Somebody's gonna pay more than a dollar. If she thinks that bread will sell at the GOOD grocery store? Naw. You got aldi's bread, girl. There are aldi's bread fans. They will buy your bread.
A hyundai sonata with a benz kit is still a Hyundai sonata. A benz driver can tell. A hyundai driver knows, too. Some Hyundais may have been test driven by benz owners, but they were not purchased. This causes delusional thinking.
I hope you liked my analogy.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I take like... 2% of the shyt I see on here serious.

You nikkas could all be robots and I could be talking to myself on these shyts for all I know and care

If i were a robot would that lessen the impact of my opinions. Robotic lives matter

 

[Insun Park]

This is a predominantly male forum with female posters who troll for the sake of it. Of course a few unstable posters are gonna fall for the bait

If male posters went on LSA and spammed about their "preferences", the vitriol would be even worse