Why do men get so mad at the "confidence" advice?

[Mandarin Duck]

I was just curious.

Seems like whenever a dude who has trouble with women hears the confidence advice they lose their shyt.

But when you think about it, both women and men want someone with confidence.

I just think it's defined different for women.......sexy.

Idk what the hell sexy is or how to even describe it, but when I see it

And it ain't acting like a "bad bytch" or being stuck up either. It's just how a woman carries herself.

Don't know man want a bytch talking bout she ugly and don't wanna go outside everyday so why the fukk do they expect women to want that?

But I'm high so what the fukk do I know

 

[Momentum]

WOAT threads in here lately.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

WOAT threads in here lately.

Then go outside nikka

 

[ben anderson]

When will you nikkas realize face>money( large amounts can take the #1 spot)>social status(not entertainer, think star quarterback in high school)>build( includes height>“Confidence”. Monkey wrench his having a big penis which can overcome multiple spots. When your ugly being over confident comes off as trying to hard. If a woman ever tells you, that it took time for her to be attracted to you or you had to “win” her over you lost.

 

[Henri Christophe]

To be confident, you need self improvement.

Most nikkas don't got nothin to be confident bout... nikkas broke... Living in mama's basement... No car so they walkin on the pavement..... Dont know what they wanna do in life... Fat or short... Swagless.


To be confident... You gotta improve your life... And that takes work... And nikkas aint tryna work... They wanna get the bytches without putting in the work.

 

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they being real

they know they have no reason to be confident

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they being real

they know they have no reason to be confident

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[Mandarin Duck]

When will you nikkas realize face>money( large amounts can take the #1 spot)>social status(not entertainer, think star quarterback in high school)>build( includes height>“Confidence”. Monkey wrench his having a big penis which can overcome multiple spots. When your ugly being over confident comes off as trying to hard. If a woman ever tells you, that it took time for her to be attracted to you or you had to “win” her over you lost.

You still didn't answer my question.

And so what. You don't got money/you ugly/ or whatever. Change what you can, accept what you can't and stop bytching and complaining.

"Bu bu but people who look better than me don't have to work as hard I do"

 

[Mandarin Duck]

To be confident, you need self improvement.

Most nikkas don't got nothin to be confident bout... nikkas broke... Living in mama's basement... No car so they walkin on the pavement..... Dont know what they wanna do in life... Fat or short... Swagless.


To be confident... You gotta improve your life... And that takes work... And nikkas aint tryna work... They wanna get the bytches without putting in the work.

I think the confidence advice means they have to take a long hard look in the mirror and change some things about themselves.

But naw they ain't tryna do that it's the bytches fault.

 

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it's the truth*

 

[ben anderson]

You still didn't answer my question.

And so what. You don't got money/you ugly/ or whatever. Change what you can, accept what you can't and stop bytching and complaining.

"Bu bu but people who look better than me don't have to work as hard I do"

Because it’s bullshyt advice stupid. You can’t just become confident in one day. Confidence is build slowly throughout your whole life. When your ugly, fat, or a weirdo and it’s been drilled into your head for years what do u think happens. When you’ve been getting praised and adored from birth that gives you confidence. Redicule makes people have self esteem issues

 

[Henri Christophe]

I think the confidence advice means they have to take a long hard look in the mirror and change some things about themselves.

But naw they ain't tryna do that it's the bytches fault.

nikkas wanna get all the bad bytches, all while remaining fat and broke



Women know that men like fat ass and titties... Thats why they droppin racks and dying on the operating table..... Cause they tryna secure a top guy.


If you wanna get a bad bytch... You gotta inprove your living situation. Its hard to be confident when you aint doing shyt with your life

Trust me, I remember the broke days.... I wasn't talkin to any females when I was in the struggle

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Because it’s bullshyt advice stupid. You can’t just become confident in one day. Confidence is build slowly throughout your whole life. When your ugly, fat, or a weirdo and it’s been drilled into your head for years what do u think happens. When you’ve been getting praised and adored from birth that gives you confidence. Redicule makes people have self esteem issues

So because it takes more than a day to become confident, don't do it?

If confidence is built slowly over time, work on that shyt now so that you can get to a point where you don't have those self esteem issues.

But playing this "woe is me everybody think he cute but not me" shyt ain't gunna get you anywhere. It's only going to make you more miserable.

Clearly the issue isn't the advice the issue is the man not wanting to put in the footwork to do it.

Instant gratification wanting ass nikkas.

 

[ben anderson]

So because it takes more than a day to become confident, don't do it?

If confidence is built slowly over time, work on that shyt now so that you can get to a point where you don't have those self esteem issues.

But playing this "woe is me everybody think he cute but not me" shyt ain't gunna get you anywhere. It's only going to make you more miserable.

Clearly the issue isn't the advice the issue is the man not wanting to put in the footwork to do it.

Instant gratification wanting ass nikkas.

Ok I see your just pulling shyt out of your ass. Where did I ever say you shouldn’t become confident. I already told u, you can’t be the same person and just become confident the next day. Telling people to change something physical or get their money up is way better than telling them to just be more confident.

 

[Armchair Militant]

It's hard