How have ya'll not seen it? I have seen every type of guy do this; Black, Hispanic, Cac etc.
Why Do Men Grab Women on the Back of The Neck...
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What if he identifies as a wolf?What if she identifies as a service dog
jwonder
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I do it to my girl all the time. She don't mind. Some people look 
when they see my do it. 
I got it from the old movie The Running man.
when they see my do it. I got it from the old movie The Running man.
I don't think most dudes are looking at what cats do to they girl.
I've only seen it on dating advice videos, which was used to turn women on.
MooseMouthMthafuga
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Could just be the passion
Caribbean lover
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No I agree with him I've never seen this either. I'd assume its an abusive relationship though .
I did a few times but it was the same chick every time. The first time was at work she tried to be funny in front of everybody. We were cool so I laughed it off and left. It was like that "work wife" type of shyt. A few minutes later I saw her and grabbed her neck and whispered "don't you ever play with me like that". I was just playing but it wasn't something I would normally do. This freaky ass girl looked at me like
Real talk that shyt kinda scared the shyt outta me. That was the day I realized some women like that shyt.
Real talk that shyt kinda scared the shyt outta me. That was the day I realized some women like that shyt.
ShoGun Of Harlem
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I've done this a few times but she knew it wasn't any type of control thing. It was more like a "ight now you better chill" in a playful/sexual way.. You're right about the bedroom thing tho bc that's one of the ways I knew what her reaction would be and how she understood what I ment. Early on it led to some sexual things but soon it was just something we did.Dealt with a guy that did this often. Especially if I made a smart ass remark.
Would grab the back of my neck & whisper something in my ear.
Definitely a show of dominance & possessiveness. (& crazy)
It may not always be done consciously but it's about control, even when done lightly/affectionately. There is a sense of compliance that is almost innate when you go for that area.
Once had a girl call me a bytch and told me to get off of her bc I wouldn't choke her harder. It was in high school with a white girl. All I thought about is my hand print on her neck. In a car, late night in new Orleans I'm not trying to be choking no white girl. I got up and took that L. I had just met her that night so I didn't mind leaving.
True Blue Moon
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At work, nikka?!I did a few times but it was the same chick every time. The first time was at work she tried to be funny in front of everybody. We were cool so I laughed it off and left. It was like that "work wife" type of shyt. A few minutes later I saw her and grabbed her neck and whispered "don't you ever play with me like that". I was just playing but it wasn't something I would normally do. This freaky ass girl looked at me like
Real talk that shyt kinda scared the shyt outta me. That was the day I realized some women like that shyt.
Y’all some wild boys
I was working at cheesecake factory bruh. That was light compared to some stuff that happened there.At work, nikka?!
Y’all some wild boys
