Why Do Men Tease Women They Like?

[karim]

Don't assume every woman gets 500 complements a day...
Don't assume that the 500 hold as much weight as the 1 that we look forward to getting from that special someone...

Last complement I got from a dude was while I was bent over putting air in my tire... ... its not the same...

those 500 can be as nice as they want to, it won't get them anywhere. now that special someone on the other hand must be pretty rude to fukk shyt up. you might wait for a compliment, but you'll take what ever you can get from him as far as attention goes. but while positive attention gets boring over time for most of y'all, indifference and negative attention sprinkled with a bit of positive makes you come back and crave more, like a junkie chasing his first high.
we didn't make the rules, we just luve by them

 

[karim]

If that's how you want to get a woman... then the 1 you'll catch with that bait will be an insecure woman who felt she NEEDED to prove her self-worth to you, because you made her question herself. Is that the kind of woman you want to be raising your daughter? Personally, I can take a joke.. but when a man clearly is trying to push my buttons when all I've been is respectful towards him.. I'll stop answering his phone calls.

don't act as if you weren't an insecure woman, we've seen the thread's you made

 

[Colicat]

those 500 can be as nice as they want to, it won't get them anywhere. now that special someone on the other hand must be pretty rude to fukk shyt up. you might wait for a compliment, but you'll take what ever you can get from him as far as attention goes. but while positive attention gets boring over time for most of y'all, indifference and negative attention sprinkled with a bit of positive makes you come back and crave more, like a junkie chasing his first high.
we didn't make the rules, we just luve by them

It takes about 50 "attaboys" to erase the negative this is what's wrong with you statements...

You don't have to brow beat a woman into staying in love with you...there are better ways to keep someone in love....

"Do you remember when we both laughed at...... it still makes me smile today..."

The woman not only looks back at that happy memory, but she now knows that you think about being happy with her... but hey... what do I know.... I don't have a man....... don't listen to me....

 

[illwittdeez]

I'd like to hear the reasons why men think it's cute when they do this? I understand it's perfectly normal to tell your homeboy his head is shaped like a hexagon or it looks like he shaved his face with a lawnmower this morning but why do they think this sort of teasing is acceptable to their crush?

it can be acceptable if done the right way but now a days most dudes don't give a fukk.

 

[karim]

It takes about 50 "attaboys" to erase the negative this is what's wrong with you statements...

You don't have to brow beat a woman into staying in love with you...there are better ways to keep someone in love....

"Do you remember when we both laughed at...... it still makes me smile today..."

The woman not only looks back at that happy memory, but she now knows that you think about being happy with her... but hey... what do I know.... I don't have a man....... don't listen to me....

you're talking about relationships, the op was about the initial stages of us getting the attention of a girl we are interested in. but even in a relationship being too nice is a sure way to get dumped

it's not our fault that you guys constantly mix up what you think you want and what you really want.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Sounds like something that happens in high school. I've never had a grown man tease me.

 

[karim]

Sounds like something that happens in high school. I've never had a grown man tease me.

act grown up and sophisticated when you name guys after the luxury vehicle they drive brehettes

 

[hood b. goode]

It takes about 50 "attaboys" to erase the negative this is what's wrong with you statements...

You don't have to brow beat a woman into staying in love with you...there are better ways to keep someone in love....

"Do you remember when we both laughed at...... it still makes me smile today..."

The woman not only looks back at that happy memory, but she now knows that you think about being happy with her... but hey... what do I know.... I don't have a man....... don't listen to me....

being negative all the time is wrong as well. Girls like emotions in relationships, the highs and the lows.
If I tease a girl one day and compliment her the next, shes gonna be wondering what I'm about.

 

[Colicat]

you're talking about relationships, the op was about the initial stages of us getting the attention of a girl we are interested in. but even in a relationship being too nice is a sure way to get dumped

it's not our fault that you guys constantly mix up what you think you want and what you really want we as men can't communicate our true feelings

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Idk... I could've sworn she was talking about her boo... but even in the initial stages there is a difference between being too nice and trying to

being negative all the time is wrong as well. Girls like emotions in relationships, the highs and the lows.
If I tease a girl one day and compliment her the next, shes gonna be wondering what I'm about.

Can't agree with the second part at all... I like stability, minimal drama and avoiding unnecessary emotional abuse.... As a woman, I can't cosign your second statement

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Sometimes circumstances hinder friends from expressing their true feelings

1. not being attractive
2. not feeling attractive
3. social taboo's

so as the feelings build up they express the feelings in other ways, friends.

 

[hood b. goode]

Can't agree with the second part at all... I like stability, minimal drama and avoiding unnecessary emotional abuse.... As a woman, I can't cosign your second statement

This does not apply to most of your gender

 

[Colicat]

Did you bust it open for him?

... why am I just seeing this?

.....Lawd ..... who the hell busts is open for strangers? ... wait... I already know the answer to that.... you trying to insinuate that I'm a stripper?

 

[Colicat]

This does not apply to most of your gender

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

When a chick can roast you back

this is a necessary trait for a girl to have for me to even be interested, if she cant take a joke or dish it back

Real talk, gets your attention, all women do is blow off dudes that compliment, cause you "hear it" all the time. You want the truth about something or you want us to lie, either way it can fukk us over. you mad cause we truthful or you made cause we werent, pick a side and stop with the back and forth bullshyt

 

[karim]

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Idk... I could've sworn she was talking about her boo... but even in the initial stages there is a difference between being too nice and trying to



Can't agree with the second part at all... I like stability, minimal drama and avoiding unnecessary emotional abuse.... As a woman, I can't cosign your second statement

she was talking about a crush, that doesn't sound like an established long term relationship to me.
communicating your true feelings won't get you anywhere with woman. we all tried, then we learned better
a friend of mine is currently simping after this girl who treats him like shyt. she knows she has got him by the balls and treats him accordingly. so he had a heart to heart with my girl and asked her what to do about his situation. she basically told him to cut that bytch off, because he was too available for her and therefore not interesting anymore. when they were done, she turned to me like "my god, i bet he even cries in front of her". woman tell you they'd like you to express your emotions, but they loose respect for you if you do.