Why do men think that a woman needs to go on a date for food so much?

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yall always saying women go on dates for the free food. Could it be possible that y’all just didn’t mesh well with each other or she thought you was a lame ass date?

Like do we need to really be texting u and holding conversations with you over the phone for some food:usure:


If she is that broke she probably has some damn food stamps lol

Y’all make up any reason to fuss about paying.
 
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From what I've read online it's either to justify entitlement issues, prostitution or to call out the women who've actually admitted to using guys for three meals and a cot.
 
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Because an “actual” date has been sold as dinner since inception :skip:
Some women view dudes that want to do free shyt on the first encounter as a broke boy..
The way I see it..
A first date should be seen as an investment..
Meaning..
Is either person really worth the time/conversation..
There’s no need to spend a significant amount of money on a dinner when you don’t even know if you like the person..
I feel the second and third date(unless the vibe is right on the first date) is when dinner should come into play and both parties are a little more relaxed and comfortable with each other:yeshrug:
 
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i got a couple homegirls who routinely finesse dudes outta expensive meals because the dudes are lame and they can. Meanwhile they smashin the guy putting in zero effort so this is no conspiracy theory miss. I laugh at the stories they be tellin me :pachaha:

Women at fault but lame dudes at fault too play right into it :manny:
 
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KinksandCoils said:
yall always saying women go on dates for the free food. Could it be possible that y’all just didn’t mesh well with each other or she thought you was a lame ass date?

Like do we need to really be texting u and holding conversations with you over the phone for some food:usure:


If she is that broke she probably has some damn food stamps lol

Y’all make up any reason to fuss about paying.
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:francis:Suppose the date goes nowhere. I lost money. You gained a meal.:jbhmm:

Suppose you didn't like me that much in the first place, but coming out with me was better than sitting around for the night. If I paid, again, I lost money, you got a meal and entertainment.

We don't think women NEED to do it, but they do, and it ruins it for the women who don't. Don't pretend your good intentions makes up for the 2-3 chicks we ran into who clearly ran game.

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Women say women go on dates for free food
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And here we have it:francis:

"Why yall think we just trying to get free food?" you say?

Then a room over, there are three women snappin and clappin about the shyt they got for free just by being pleasant enough to a brotha who was willing to treat.
 
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I also hate how some people will equate prostitution or sex workers to paying for a date, they’ll say things like you “indirectly” pay for the p*ssy.

Y’all ain’t never purchase no prostitutes and y’all ain’t in the sex industry so stop talking like you understand and engage in it.
 
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