Why do nikkas abandon their friends when they got a girlfriend.

[Obreh Winfrey]

Sounds like you in love

 

[Stick Up Kid]

*Get, not got

 

[UpThruDere]

It's balance....choose between the bar/watching the game w the boys or having a cooked dinner and some wet wet afterwards.....

What you gonna pick?

You can do both

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Even if you have a good woman..
You need to balance that shyt..
I love my wife to death but she is not my best friend..
You still need a breh to tell you when you are fukking up, bounce plans off of or simple breh conversations..
That’s where a lot of nikkas fukk up at..
They put all their eggs in one basket with a woman..
And when shyt goes sidewys..
They don’t have anybody around them to pick them up..
If it wasn’t for my three brehs( two in Cali, one down here in the H)..
After my first divorce..
I would have been Willy Lump Lump status..
When you have a good woman..
They encourage your relationships with friends and family..
Will damn near pick a fight if you haven’t called your bredrens in a while..
Balance is the key to everything in this fukked up world..

I agree my mom and pops was that way.

My dad still had his old buddies but they didnt hang out nearly as much.

But having a diff perspective good

 

[number21]

They really weren't friends with you like that, op.

 

[poppastoppa]

I'm married w/ kids so rarely can I do some random shyt. So me and the homies just have a routine where we hang. We shoot pool and shyt on Thursday's, wifey cool wit it . If we do something major we kinda plan it out ahead of time.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Even if you have a good woman..
You need to balance that shyt..
I love my wife to death but she is not my best friend..
You still need a breh to tell you when you are fukking up, bounce plans off of or simple breh conversations..
That’s where a lot of nikkas fukk up at..
They put all their eggs in one basket with a woman..
And when shyt goes sidewys..
They don’t have anybody around them to pick them up..
If it wasn’t for my three brehs( two in Cali, one down here in the H)..
After my first divorce..
I would have been Willy Lump Lump status..
When you have a good woman..
They encourage your relationships with friends and family..
Will damn near pick a fight if you haven’t called your bredrens in a while..
Balance is the key to everything in this fukked up world..

Came in here to say this.

You completely get it

 

[levitate]

Because sex > hanging out with dudes

 

[karim]

If it's the first time, he might just be inexperienced. If he does it more than once, cut him off These types of brehs don't learn. He'll come back when he gets dumped only to disappear again when he gets a new girl until one day, you'll never hear from him again

 

[Rockstar Mom]

If somebody does this, they weren’t your friend. They were just using you to fill a void.

You can have a healthy relationship AND healthy friendships. People who use the “would you rather hang with your friends or get sex” line, are just among excuses. If I’m in a relationship, I’m literally having sex whenever I want. Why would I need to cancel my entire Friday night with the girls, for dikk that will be there when I get home?

 

[Yaboysix]

I wonder if there are brehs out there with that real sitcom life..

where the ace boon/day 1 homie come to the house everyday like he live there ...get along with the misses and you can trust him round ya girl..

the kids call him uncle,and The brehs hang out and get into comedic antics like when they were younger..No issues perfect balance..

Too bad im an introvert. Or that would be pretty cool lol.

 

[semicko82]

Because sex > hanging out with dudes

This

 

[Jerz]

Because his woman pressure's em to - and he's weak.. So he does what she says

 

[Mowgli]

Family > friends

Keep your day ones

 

[NinoBrown]

You can do both

Of course, I manage both fine....